26/08/2025
"University of Common Sense.
If you are old enough to date a girl, demand and receive s*x among other emotional favors from her, why can't you just marry her properly so that the money you spend on her or both of you spend on yourselves are life time investments on each other? You can be married and delay childbirth while living as if you are just dating. Shebi I don't tell una say wedding no expensive?
You want to date a girl without marrying her properly, and expect her to do for you what a wife does for her husband without spending on her? Bro, you need to enroll into the university of common sense. You can only do that to a girl who is naive, senseless or a minor(which makes you a predator liable to prosecution)
Let's face the truth y'all may feel uncomfortable coming from a priest. A woman who falls in love with a man can spend her money on him if she has and vice versa, even if they are not married. It is not an entitlement or right, it is pure gift for which the receiver should be grateful. Anyone who feels entitled to what is given him or her in a relationship is not worthy of the giver and the gift. The giver should end such relationship because manipulation will definitely be the order of the day.
Anyone who teaches you whatever skills or art of getting anything you want from a partner in relationship without commensurate investment of your own material and non material resources in him or her is twisting your mind and heart. The person is simply teaching you to be crook and must be a crooked person at such.
The Golden rule in relationship is "Don't manipulate and exploit or be manipulated or exploited".
I wanted to say, treat the girl or boy as you would want your own sister or brother treated, but then I remember that some people can even manipulate and exploit their own siblings. So, don't manipulate or be manipulated"
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