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19/09/2025

YOU’RE 18 WITH 34 BODY COUNTS, BUT YOU STILL DON’T KNOW YOUR PURPOSE — THINK.

This generation is obsessed with growing up fast — but nobody wants to grow deep.
You're not even 20, yet your mind is tired, your heart is bitter, and your soul is confused.
You’ve tried everything — love, lust, hookup culture, sneaky links, “vibes” — but you still feel empty.

Let’s be honest…

_ You crave attention more than peace.
_ You know more about s*x positions than your life’s mission.
_ You’re emotionally exhausted, spiritually weak, and mentally lost — but still pretending you’re “living your best life.”

It’s time for a brutal wake-up call.

7 THINGS THIS GENERATION MUST UNDERSTAND BEFORE LUST DESTROYS EVERYTHING:

1. S*XUAL EXPERIENCE IS NOT MATURITY — IT’S JUST EXHAUSTION IN DISGUISE.
You think being s*xually active makes you bold or grown? It doesn’t.
Being “grown” isn’t about how many people you’ve slept with — it’s about how many internal battles you’ve fought and still chose peace, purpose, and patience.
Real maturity is the ability to control your emotions — not sleep with them.

2. EVERY PERSON YOU SLEEP WITH LEAVES SOMETHING BEHIND — AND IT’S NOT JUST FLUIDS.
S*x transfers more than pleasure — it transfers energy, trauma, and confusion.
That’s why you feel lost after certain hookups.
You’ve been “with” five people, but now carry fifteen problems — because spirits don’t detach easily.
Now you’re emotionally unstable and drained, wondering why your soul feels broken.

3. YOU’RE DESTROYING YOUR FUTURE IN THE NAME OF ‘EXPERIENCE.’
This is your prime season to build, learn, and evolve — not waste it chasing lust.
You’re addicted to pleasure but allergic to discipline.
By the time reality humbles you, the people you're trying to impress will have moved on.

4. BEING S*XUALLY ACTIVE WON’T MAKE YOU SUCCESSFUL — DISCIPLINE WILL.
No one gets rich from their body count.
No empire was built through hookup culture.
You’re not “empowered” — you’re exposed.
Build something deeper than a “vibe.” Build value.

5. IF YOU DON’T RESPECT YOURSELF, DON’T EXPECT OTHERS TO.
You cry “don’t judge me,” but your behavior begs for attention.
You post thirst traps for likes and wonder why people only see your body, not your brain.
Stop blaming others — you taught them how to treat you.

6. YOUR FUTURE IS BIGGER THAN DATING APPS AND SNEAKY LINKS.
You’ve been alive for 17 years and still don’t know your assignment?
You waste energy on people who won’t matter in five years.
The right people will come once you become the right version of yourself.

7. S*X CAN WAIT. PURPOSE CAN’T.
You’re not behind in life — you’re just ahead in foolishness.
The more you chase s*x, the further you drift from success.
Protect your future like your life depends on it — because it does.
If you build now, you’ll thank yourself later.

Final Word:

You don’t need to be half-naked to feel noticed.

You don’t need a relationship to feel valuable.

You don’t need 34 body counts to prove you’re grown.

What you need is purpose, discipline, and clarity.
Don’t let lust distract you from the life you were born to live.

Rules are Rules
Compound of joy by Ronald

19/09/2025

Modern weemen are obsessed with material and trending things. They don't care about their health condition as long as they get what they want. And they can do anything for attention and validation.

Most modern weemen lives in pig houses, eats with dogs and plays with goats, then come outside holding expensive phones, wearing expensive dresses and wigs on unhealthy body and pvssy.

They don't mind living in a tartched house while using iphone 17 that can give them a better living or assets if converted into money.

Modern weemen are not purpose driven, they're walking liabilities, looking for a guy who can fund their lifestyle. The reason modern weemen are in relationship is because they want to acquire a particular thing they've been trying so hard to get. They see relationships as routes to get what they want. They don't care selling pvssy to have it.

When a wuman bills you unnecessarily or put you in financial pressure, pipe and swipe, she's not into you. She wants to use you to elevate her status.

Never date nor marry a materialistic woman, she'll slowly send you back to poverty.
Comedian Counselor Roo
Ndong Niyaa Kiibee

19/09/2025

🔥 THE SECRET POVERTY THAT COMES FROM ATTENDING EVERY PARTY AND OWNING NO ASSETS 🔥

Nobody will tell you this truth, but let me say it boldly:
You cannot party your way to wealth.

Our generation is filled with people who know every new club, attend every wedding, every burial, every birthday, every “outside” event. Yet, when you check their bank accounts, there is nothing to show for all the enjoyment.

Parties are sweet. Flexing feels good. But if you make it a lifestyle while owning no single asset, you are silently building a future of poverty.

Let me break it down for you:

1. Entertainment Swallows Money Without Return

Every outing costs something — transportation, new clothes, drinks, contributions, and “support.”
At the end of the day, none of these things bring you back even one kobo.
You leave your house with money in your pocket and return with nothing but pictures and stories.

An asset, on the other hand, multiplies itself. It puts money back into your hand.
But entertainment is a one-way ticket. Money goes out and never comes back.

If you keep repeating this cycle, poverty becomes inevitable.

2. You Are Financing Other People’s Success

Think about it. Every time you attend a party, you are putting money into someone else’s business.
The event planner cashes out.
The drinks seller cashes out.
The DJ cashes out.
Even the celebrant collects “support.”

But you, the party-goer, return home with hangovers, empty pockets, and no progress.
Month after month, year after year, you are enriching others while your own financial life is stagnant.

3. Flexing Creates a Fake Sense of Progress

Because you are always seen “outside,” people assume you are doing well.
You even start believing it yourself.
But visibility is not the same as stability.

The reality is this: when real-life problems arrive — school fees, rent, medical bills, emergencies — parties cannot save you.
People’s applause cannot pay your bills.
The same friends who cheered you in the club will disappear when you are in crisis.

4. No Assets Means No Cushion in Crisis

One single problem in life can expose all your flexing.
Lose your job.
Fall sick.
Have a family emergency.

You will suddenly realize that all the bottles you popped, all the clothes you bought for owambe, all the “outside” appearances mean nothing.

If you had put just half of that money into land, stocks, or even a small hustle, you would have had something to fall back on.
But because you built no cushion, you are naked when the storm comes.

5. Peer Pressure Keeps You in the Trap

Let’s be honest, most people attend endless parties because they do not want to be mocked.
They are afraid of being called stingy, boring, or antisocial.
So they keep spending money they do not have to impress people who do not care.

Here is the bitter truth: when your pocket runs dry, those same people will not contribute one naira to help you.
They will only laugh and move on.

6. You Trade Future Wealth For Present Fun

Every naira you spend on flex today is money that could have been invested to grow tomorrow.
This is why rich people build assets first before they start enjoying.
Poor people enjoy first and never build.

The money you used to buy bottles at the club could have bought shares.
The money you used for aso-ebi could have been saved for land.
But because you live for today, you have destroyed tomorrow.

7. You Confuse Social Presence With Financial Progress

Many people think that because their names are on every guest list, they are “somebody.”
They equate being seen everywhere with success.

But the truth is, real success is silent.
The wealthy man does not need to attend every party.
His assets speak for him. His bank account speaks for him. His investments speak for him.

You, on the other hand, are spending on appearances.
You are loud in the crowd but empty in your pocket.

8. Flexing Becomes a Lifestyle You Cannot Escape

The more you party, the more it becomes an addiction.
You are no longer attending for fun. You are attending because you cannot say no.
You cannot stay indoors without feeling like you are missing out.

That kind of lifestyle is dangerous because it controls you.
It drains you financially, mentally, and emotionally while giving you nothing in return.

9. Your Money Never Works For You

Money has two destinies: either you control it, or it controls you.
If all your income goes into drinks, clothes, transport, and endless outings, then you are working for money.

But when you put money into assets, money begins to work for you.
It multiplies itself quietly while you sleep.

Without assets, you will work until old age and still retire into poverty.

10. Assets Are Proof of Discipline

Anybody can flex. Anybody can buy clothes. Anybody can pop bottles.
But not everybody can delay gratification.
Not everybody can sacrifice the temporary sweetness of enjoyment for the lasting security of investment.
Comedian Counselor Roo

19/09/2025

THE MAN WHO CAN’T STOP DRINKING WILL EVENTUALLY DRINK AWAY HIS FAMILY

A bottle doesn’t just take your liver.
It takes your life.

Because when a man can’t stop drinking,
He doesn’t just play with his health—
He gambles with his home, his legacy, and his children’s future.

And by the time he wakes up to see the damage?
It’s usually too late.

Let’s break it down:

1. Alcohol Turns Escape Into Addiction
It starts as “just one drink.”
A way to unwind.
A way to forget the stress.

But stress doesn’t leave—
It multiplies.

And soon, the drink you used to control…
Is controlling you.

2. Drunken Words Become Deadly Weapons
Men don’t just lose jobs to alcohol.
They lose respect.

Every slurred insult.
Every broken promise.
Every rage-filled night.

You don’t remember the words.
But your wife does.
Your kids do.
And those scars don’t heal.

3. Drinking Burns Money Faster Than Fire
You think it’s harmless.
A few bottles.
A night out.

But alcohol has a silent tax:
The missed promotions,
The wasted income,
The debts you didn’t have to take.

And one day, you’ll realize you weren’t building wealth—
You were drowning it.

4. The Bottle Replaces Your Family
Your wife stops waiting for you.
Your kids stop looking up to you.

Because when the bottle comes first,
They come last.

And when they get tired of coming last?
They leave.

5. Every Drunk Man Is One Mistake Away From Disaster
A fight that goes too far.
A drive that ends in flashing lights.
A night you don’t remember—
But they’ll never forget.

One reckless choice can cost you your freedom,
Your health,
Or your family forever.

Final Word
The man who can’t stop drinking will eventually drink away his family.

Not because they stopped loving him—
But because the bottle convinced him he didn’t need their love.

So choose wisely.
Because no wife can follow a drunk leader.
No child can trust a drunk father.
And no legacy survives a man who pours it all into a glass.

16/09/2025

*Childhood was better than adulthood, atleast we had wounds on our knees not inside our hearts...*

😔😒

16/09/2025

Some ladies on *Instagram,tiktok and facebook* will make u think dat ur girlfriend is not a female
🤔🤔🤔

16/09/2025

40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ. ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ ᴍᴀɴʏ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴀғʀᴀɪᴅ ᴏғ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ..........................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ ʀᴇsᴘᴇᴄᴛᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴘᴀʀᴇɴᴛs ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ʀᴇsᴘᴇᴄᴛ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴄʜɪʟᴅʀᴇɴ........................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴀɢᴇ ᴡᴀs ᴇᴀsʏ ʙᴜᴛ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇ ᴡᴀs ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ. ɴᴏᴡᴀᴅᴀʏs ɪᴛ ɪs ᴅɪғғɪᴄᴜʟᴛ ᴛᴏ ɢᴇᴛ ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅ ʙᴜᴛ ᴅɪᴠᴏʀᴄᴇ ɪs sᴏ ᴇᴀsʏ.........................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴡᴇ ɢᴏᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ɴᴇɪɢʜʙᴏʀs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ sᴛʀᴀɴɢᴇʀs ᴛᴏ ᴏᴜʀ ɴᴇɪɢʜʙᴏʀs.......................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴠɪʟʟᴀɢᴇʀs ᴡᴇʀᴇ ғʟᴏᴄᴋɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄɪᴛʏ ᴛᴏ ғɪɴᴅ ᴊᴏʙs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇ ᴛᴏᴡɴ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ғʟᴇᴇɪɴɢ ғʀᴏᴍ ᴛʜᴇ CITY ᴛᴏ ғɪɴᴅ ᴘᴇᴀᴄᴇ......................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ғᴀᴛ ᴛᴏ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ʜᴀᴘᴘʏ. ɴᴏᴡᴀᴅᴀʏs ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴅɪᴇᴛs ᴛᴏ ʟᴏᴏᴋ ʜᴇᴀʟᴛʜʏ........................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ʀɪᴄʜ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴘʀᴇᴛᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴘᴏᴏʀ. ɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴏᴏʀ ᴀʀᴇ ᴘʀᴇᴛᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ʀɪᴄʜ.........................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴏɴʟʏ ᴏɴᴇ ᴘᴇʀsᴏɴ ᴡᴏʀᴋᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡʜᴏʟᴇ ғᴀᴍɪʟʏ. ɴᴏᴡ ᴀʟʟ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ᴛᴏ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴏɴᴇ ᴄʜɪʟᴅ. .........................................
40 ʏᴇᴀʀs ᴀɢᴏ, ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sᴛᴜᴅʏ & ʀᴇᴀᴅ ʙᴏᴏᴋs. ɴᴏᴡ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴜᴘᴅᴀᴛᴇ ғᴀᴄᴇʙᴏᴏᴋ & ʀᴇᴀᴅ ᴛʜᴇɪʀ ᴡʜᴀᴛsᴀᴘᴘ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇs.

40 YEARS AGO WAS 1985...WHICH SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY!

These are hard ғᴀᴄᴛs of ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ's ʟɪғᴇ

10/09/2025

I once worked in a school where the owner believed teachers should be reminded daily that “plenty CVs are waiting at the gate.”

One day during a staff meeting, he stood me up in front of everybody and asked me, Mrs kpiesi, if you have brought anything impactful to this school since you came, bring it out in blue print.

I wasn't expecting such question, no clue , nothing,I stood there blank,my heart was pounding very fast 😃😃😃

Ah! Blueprint ke?

I told him, sir, even though I have not written my impacts on paper, I know parents, pupils, and even the community can testify that my presence here has brought positive change.

The man vexed, called it disrespect, and suspended me. Imagine,was he expecting me not to defend myself?

Fast forward, when I finally left, oga called me back. But by then, it was too late and quality teachers had left, the school had lost its pride, and the plenty CVs at the gate had suddenly disappeared.

School owners need to learn this;

Teachers will not stay forever in your school, learn to appreciate them while they are with you.

Teaching is a noble profession; let there be self-worth and respect.

Because at the end of the day, teachers are not gate men , you can't just replace them at the gate.

07/09/2025

Listen up, Men!

When a woman starts giving unnecessary attitude, making excuses, asking for "a break," or suddenly becoming distant without explanation—pay attention. Stop overthinking, stop over-apologizing, and stop letting yourself be misled. Women are emotional beings, and when their behavior changes, there’s always a reason. Often, it’s a sign that her attention, loyalty, or respect has shifted elsewhere.

Here’s the truth: if you haven’t done anything wrong, her attitude isn’t about you—it’s about her choices. She might have cheated, is considering it, or has her focus on someone else. Women may not always hide their emotional changes well—the signs are usually there. You just need to be aware enough to spot them.

At this point, stop asking, "What’s going on?" or "What did I do wrong?" That’s weak energy, and it won’t help. When you beg for answers, you lose your power. Instead, step back. Remove yourself from the situation, observe quietly, and let her actions speak for themselves.

Men, understand this: a woman who respects you will communicate, not confuse you. If she’s giving attitude, making excuses, or pulling away, she’s already emotionally disconnected. Don’t chase what’s slipping away—maintain your dignity, stay true to yourself, and walk away if necessary.

You deserve loyalty, respect, and honesty. Never lower your standards or beg for someone who isn’t willing to offer the same. You’re a man—carry yourself as one. Stay sharp. Stay in control.

Those who don't learn will answer in the brotherhood community 💯 👌 , follow me Now Or Never hear from me Again.

07/09/2025

_never look in a man's phone even when you want to see time use the sun,this talk get why 😂_😂😂😂

07/09/2025

*AS YOU ARISE*

Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen. Dreams don't work unless you take action. The surest way to make your dreams come true is to live them. When you do the things in the present, you are shaping the future that you are yet to see.

*Wishing you a wonderful weekend*

07/09/2025

I have never seen anyone rely on God and end up in shame. By His grace, you will finish this year in victory.

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