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14/06/2023

Nkosuo Hemaa please What does it mean if your guy keeps hiding you from his mother anytime she comes around? (He is a widower with kids.) we don’t leave far from each other .

I visit him but whenever his mother comes, he doesn’t allow me to come to his house..

25/05/2023

I got married to my wife for exactly one year now. In fact my wife kept calling for a divorce at any little misunderstanding.Per my little investigations on her phone , I found out that she is still in touch with her Ex boyfriend who lives in the US. She claimed they dated for about 7 years and the guy didn't marry Her. I met her and we dated for a year and got married the following year. The guy built a house in Kumasi of which she asked her to pack her belongings and leave the marriage and go into his house and wait for him whiles he comes back from the states to marry her. When I confronted her, she apologised but kept on contacting him . She later told me that she knew her Ex before she met me and she won't stop talking to him just because she got married to me. She again told me in the face that I can file for a divorce if I think what she's doing amounts to cheating. I later found another conversation she had with another man who came down from Australia just 2 weeks before our marriage and she was negotiating with the Australian Borga to marry her in a space of 6 months. She was ready to dump the wedding if the man was ready to marry her with that space . As at now, she is still in touch with the said man who resides in Australia.
When I confronts her on that,she told me never to get close to her phone and whatever she does on her phone, is her personal and private life and I have no authority on her on whatever she chooses to do with her phone .
Am really disturbed and feel betrayed. Please what should I do 🙏

24/05/2023

My husband and I have been married for three years now. However, since we got married, this man doesn’t want me to talk to any man, not even my male schoolmates. He doesn’t even want me to greet any male co-worker.

He also doesn’t allow me to work, so I’m always at home doing nothing, completely dependent on him. However, his salary is not enough to sustain us, and sometimes we have to beg our families for food.

Furthermore, whenever we have a misunderstanding, he insults my parents and sisters. He shows no respect for my family whatsoever. Yesterday, we had an argument, and he called me an “ashawo” (a derogatory term) and insulted my sisters once again.

He even used my tribe to insult me, saying that we are nobody and useless. He told me I should be grateful that I married an Ashanti man. This made me very angry, and I confided in my sister about everything, except for their part in the insult. My sister informed my dad about the situation, and now he wants to send me money to come home.

I’m feeling confused right now. I don’t know whether to go back home or not because I still love my husband. I would appreciate any advice you can give me. Thank you.

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24/05/2023

Our sister needs help

Please I'm a young girl in my early 20s.
My mom died early and my dad didn't take care of me. I've been trying on my own for some years now till I met a man. He took me in and takes care of me. I am in a college of education now. I got pregnant along the way but I was in school then.
This man never showed any care when I informed him. And unfortunately I had a miscarriage so I rushed home.
Sis, I underwent an MVA section and a day after the section, I was alone in the house when o one lady entered the room without knocking.
She started asking me questions but I decided not to reply because of my condition.
I later made enquiries and got the lady's contact and called to ask what's going on between her and this man. She said they were in a relationship close to a year now.

Sis, this girl later called the guy and told him lies upon lies and this guy insulted me from head to toe and even my family.
He asked me to leave his house in my condition.
But due to the pain I was going through, I ignored and stayed in order not to worsen my condition. This guy apologised for what he did and I decided to give him another chance and besides, I had no one to go to.
But that was when my dilemma began. Things got worse. He was always on a call with this lady. Once I talk, I'll be insulted so I kept quiet and endured. I returned from school one day and came to meet some of things missing.
I asked him about them and he told me he is staying with a friend due to the rise in lorry fares to work. I had my doubts but I had no say.
I returned to campus later. I was there one day and I saw numerous missed calls from a certain number. It looked familiar so I called back and it was the same lady.

She started asking me why I'm calling the guy. They stay together now and are planning their marriage.
Sis, I felt betrayed and hurt. But I didn't mention the conversation to this guy.
He called that evening and insulted me for speaking to the lady. Sis, I cried.
I couldn't go for lectures for days.
He later came back with apologies again.
But all I feel is bitterness and vile towards him.
The saddest part is, I have nowhere to go.
I'm dying slowly day in and day out when I remember what he did to me.
I talked to a friend but all she could offer was a married man. But due to the fear of the Lord, I'm afraid to go in for that.
Sis I don't know what to do.
I want to leave this hell .
He's now complaining I'm disrespecting him but I'm wounded.
Please help a helpless girl.
This life is punishing me severely. I don't want to go wayward please.

23/05/2023

Good evening my Lee

please I need your guys to help me pray for me an my kids, is been 3 I lost my husband but I can't move on, I find it hard to believe is no more I still have all his phone number in my phone, I saved as sweet heart an baby, I keep bringing out those numbers an steering at them thinking that one he will call me and tell something or said anything at to to me but no from there my tears will begin to roll like water no man to talk to can I really put through please pray for me am all alone this world, am but a small girl that got married early but this life has another terrible plans for me, my tears are drying me every day am still expecting him to come back to me or even give me a call someday people help me

23/05/2023

Good morning

Have a blessed day

23/05/2023

Madam Lee please hide my identity

Hello Admin, please keep me anonymous and prompt me when posted. About 3 weeks ago, I had a program in my home for one of my kids. After the program and almost everyone was gone, I entered our bedroom and heard opana's phone ringing. Normally, I don't even look at his phone talkless of picking his calls because I don't trust him because of past issues and to avoid any emotional problem, I avoid his phone but this call drew my attention to his phone. The caller's identity wasn't known so I wanted to ignore the call initially but as I took two steps away, my instinct wouldn't let me go so I picked the call. And Bam, it was a female. With all honesty, I was very polite on the phone trying to know who it was. So I politely told this female that I was the wife of the Mr. She was calling and that he was busy outside with some guest so if she could leave a message, I will deliver it to him, come and see rudeness paaa. Infact, I just can't describe how rude the female was towards me with mere words. Then she cut the call. I quickly saved the number on my phone because Opana was almost in the bedroom. As soon he entered, I question him who the person was and how come she feels she has the right to talk that way towards me when I in the hand was very polite towards her. As usual, Opana denied knowing her. Fast forward, about a week ago,in my spirit, I kept having this feeling that all is not well. I felt my soul had left me and it was just my body walking up and down. I could feel death so close that I knew my days on earth had ended and a voice kept telling me to prepare and hand my kids over to someone I trust. ( No one can understand this feeling except someone very spiritual). I spoke to my mum and dad about this but didn't tell Opana because he doesn't believe in those things and besides, the pain and hurt in my heart from that female's call was so deep such that, I couldn't bring myself to talk to him about anything.

I just told a friend of mine I need to see a very good prophet of God to help me without opening up to my friend about what I was going through. She gave me a direction to go and see a prophetess.
as soon as I got there, this prohetess read me like a book. It was as if she leaves with me in my home. Long story short, she told me how one female called my husband's phone, how I picked and fought my husband and how she's been working, going up and down to destroy my marriage. How she's been fraustrating me to leave the marriage on my own for her because she is the one chasing after my Opana and not the other way round. After she failed in her attempts to make me walk out, she resorted to killing me to take over. Yummies, if I had open up to my friend, I would have thought that she informed the prophetess about happenings in my home but.....
Glory be to God after some days of prayers, I feel fine now both physically and spiritually.

let's be very vigilant, most side chicks don't just come to enjoy and go ooo.
They come to destroy the home completely. Here I was fighting my Opana thinking he was the one chasing after this female, not knowing she was rather the one doing the chasing and was doing everything she knew possible to take me away. Most of them are very desperate. Stop fighting your husband physically, fight with prayer because you may not know what's behind his cheating habit.
Note: I kept mentioning female because the said person do not qualify to be called a lady. Thanks.

23/05/2023

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Am going through some things i cannot even tell a soul about it I've been with prepana for almost 2years he helps me via school he's a good guy I hardly see him with a girl in de middle of last year I didn't hear from him for about 3 to 4 months he called me one morning that he want to talk to me I went to see him and he told me that he's been diagnosed of HIV that's why his attitude towards me have change and according to him I gave him the HIV which is not true bcos I went to check my status a months after he told me and I was negative but as to how he got it I don't know. But he still claims he loves me so we continue with the relationship since he want to marry me so I also agreed bcos I also love so much. Few months after I went to see him and one thing led to the other and we had unprotected s*x and since he hardly picks my calls nor return my messages I told him about this behavior and he being an HIV positive I was able to sleep with him without protection so he should do that to me and he got angry since then he hasn't talked to me or see me he doesn't pick my calls even when I go to his house he tells me he's not home meanwhile he's there now my fear is what if I've gotten de HIV. I made a mistake by sleeping with him.What should I do yummies I need your advice plss no insult wai am already going thru hell

22/05/2023

Please hide my identity

I dated this guy for 8 good years, he was in level 200 n I was in shs 2. Both parents were aware of our relationship, I helped him through my aunt to secure him a job at GES as a teacher cos he stayed home for 2yrs without a job after he completed university. During that period I assisted him financially cos I was by then working with an NGO after I completed shs. He was living in Techiman whilst I also lived in Accra. We visited each other regularly. I got admission into teacher training school, things were hard for my family at that time, I expected this guy to at least help me a little but he never gave me a pesewa. I used all my savings and my mom and siblings support with the little they had. I applied for a student loan n it really helped me in completing my education. I never complained, sometimes you can call this for a whole week he won’t answer his phone. At a point i felt like I was dating myself. I called him one day to call off the relationship this guy was shedding crocodile tears on phone that he couldn’t live without me n that it was her headmistress was giving him workloads that’s why he does not call me regularly, as foolish as I was I believed him n following week he paid me a visit at Kumasi where I was doing my national service. A month after he left, I received a call from a strange number warning me to stay away from his fiancé claiming they’ve dated for 5yrs. I confronted this guy and he told me he had fallen deeply in love with the said lady so we should break up. Ff we were busily planning our marriage, I later found out I was pregnant for him I told him about it and all he could say was he wasn’t ready for a child so I should abort it. He even sent me a medicine to take to flush the baby. I kept my pregnancy and blocked him, his friends and family members. I told my family I went out with some friends n I got r***d. God being so good I got a chance to travel to the United States n now my husband has adopted my princess n we are now living happily. My daughter will be 4yrs next month, I feel so proud I didn’t take that medicine. Last week I was sitting my somewhere only to receive a call from this guy, as at how he got my number I don’t know, only for him to tell me my child is his cos per his calculations I didn’t abort the pregnancy so he want to claim my child. I told him he has no child so he should go n ask the medicine for his child n I blocked him . Asomasi I know you are very active here to hell with you. I don’t know who has been feeding u with info abt me but I don’t care. U can’t reap where u didn’t sow.

22/05/2023

please hide my identity

Last Thursday I got stacked around 37 cos of the rain. I was almost wet and luckily I saw my ex passing by, I quickly stopped him to drop me off at work since its on the same route.

I got home in the evening and opana called me to our bedroom for a short discussion. I happily asked if my new phone had arrived cos it was part of his plans to get me a phone on Friday. Yummies bf I could opened my mouth for the second time , opana slapped me . Woow I asked him what's the problem and he took my phone from my hands asking me why I'm still in contact with my ex.
Awww so who told my husband about the drop off. I'm sure he has seen some few missed calls on my phone from my ex but there's nothing going on.

My husband has never raised his hands on me in our 4yrs of marriage.
So why didn't he listen to my side of the story.

Now he is asking me to fix whatever is broken bcos his trust in me has vanished.
But isn't the slap enough for me to rather tell him to fix what's broken.
Is he not supposed to apologise for slapping me.

22/05/2023

Please post for me

My husband and I had an argument and he told me point blank that if I like I should divorce him and that he is not scared of divorce. He was driving and I was in the car with him yesterday. So I removed my ring and placed it in the car. This morning he came to ask me where the ring is and I told him it in the car. He told me to bring it and that he did not give it to me in the car. I went to take it and placed it on a traveller in the room. He asked me again and I pointed it. Now he has gone to take it and kept it in his jewelry box. I want to go and take it back but I don't know how......

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