08/12/2025
None of the women I work with struggle in their career or leadership identity because they lack confidence.
They never hesitate because they need to be “more” of anything.
They struggle because they were taught to wait.
🌟Wait for permission.
🌟Wait for timing.
🌟Wait for clarity.
And then, once those arrive, they’re told the next step is confidence, as though it’s the prerequisite for action.
But here’s the part we were never told:
Confidence was never the starting point.
It has always been the by-product, the outcome of small, intentional, proactive steps taken before you felt ready.
The real shift happens the moment you choose the uncomfortable thing:
♥️the conversation you’ve been postponing,
♥️the boundary you’ve been softening,
♥️the opportunity you’ve been circling for months.
That’s the point where your identity begins to move.
And the truth is, your life is already full, and that won’t change today or tomorrow.
Because let’s be honest:
Your calendar isn’t suddenly clearing.
Your responsibilities aren’t magically shrinking.
Your organisation isn’t going to tap you on the shoulder and say, “You’re ready now.”
So the shift becomes this, move your attention away from confidence and towards the courage required to ask:
What small, meaningful action can I take this week that my future self will thank me for?
Not a leap.
Not a reinvention.
Just one courageous decision that signals to yourself that something is changing.
If you want support making that next step real, or you’re circling a decision that feels important, send me a message and we can explore what your next move could look like.