15/11/2025
Dede speaks on the expectations from fans
It very easy to think you know the best something or a thing should go, especially when it has absolutely nothing to do with you at all. You just feel like you're more knowledgeable to it. It's totally fine, it's human nature for us to assume we could have possibly handled that situation differently if it had something to do with us.
I totally love how you guys care about me sometimes, but life is happening ok.
I think when I first got out of the house, I knew I would take a long time off social media. As a matter of fact it was overwhelming for me, so I thought I would not be here for months. I can't go off, there's always something happening in my life, there's always something I have to do
But Asides that, I don't think any housemate said they would entertain anybody at some point, it was not like we were in the house and anybody said "oh when we get out of the house, we are going to entertain you by showing up every single day". I don't think it is normal for anybody to think that leaving the house, these people need to have gotten their lives together or should just be out there immediately.
Now this pressure thing, this thing you guys always compare, not just me but I'm speaking for every housemate. Life is happening, people have things that they are trying to balance. People have things that are generally going on in their lives, so I don't know these expectations of "oh, coming out of the house you have to constantly post, you have to do this". It is too fresh, people are getting used to this.
Me for one, right now it's craz¥. I have so many things I'm doing, so I don't get the expectations of people trying to make it feel like competition generally.i feel like sometimes most people just put competition where there's no competition.
It's very funny to me when I get some messages and they are trying to compete where they cannot compare. These people you are even talking about, most of them are living their lives peacefully. They don't even think about each other , but there's always something that people want to make a thing