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19/07/2025

Some people dread getting older.
Wrinkles, forgotten birthdays, weird noises when you stand up—it sounds terrifying, right?

But then there’s Margareta Magnusson, the Swedish grandma who wrote a book on how to age like a rebel, with lipstick in one hand and cake in the other.
She’s not here for the sad violin music of “graceful ageing.”
She wants you to age exuberantly. With joy, honesty, boldness—and maybe a little fika.

If you’ve ever felt like your best years are behind you, or that “acting your age” is some kind of life sentence, these 7 lessons will gently shake your shoulders and remind you:
It’s never too late to live a little louder.

1. Ageing Isn’t a Problem. Boredom Is:
Margareta doesn’t see ageing as a tragedy—it’s more like a long dinner party where you’re finally allowed to skip the small talk and go straight for the dessert.
She shows us that growing older isn’t about “slowing down.”
It’s about doing what you love without apologizing or asking for permission.
Paint. Travel. Take salsa lessons. Or take naps. Do it all, and do it your way.

2. Don’t Wait for Motivation. Just Begin:
You know that thing you’ve been meaning to do “one day”?
Margareta would kindly say: “Darling, how many ‘one days’ do you think you have left?”
She doesn’t mean it in a scary way—just a wise one.
Start the painting. Write the poem. Re-pot the plants.
No big declaration. Just begin. Even if it’s messy. Especially if it’s messy.

3. Wear What Makes You Smile (Even If It Confuses Your Grandchildren):
Margareta doesn’t care if polka dots are “age appropriate.”
She wears what feels like joy.
One of her quiet rebellions is choosing clothes that spark happiness instead of blending into the beige wall.
Life’s too short to wear sad pants.
Put on the red scarf. The bright shoes. The giant necklace shaped like a birdhouse. Who’s stopping you?

4. Keep a Curious Mind—It’s the Best Anti-Ageing Trick:
You don’t need fancy serums or kale smoothies.
You just need curiosity.
Margareta believes staying interested in the world keeps you alive in the best way.
Ask questions. Read weird books. Eavesdrop (politely).
Wondering is youthful. Complaining is not.

5. Be Delightfully Honest (But Still Kind, Please):
One great perk of getting older?
You’ve earned the right to say what you think.
Margareta is all about being truthful—but she’s also about keeping your sharpness wrapped in softness.
Tell the truth. But don’t forget to pass the cookies while you do.

6. Don’t Let Your Age Boss You Around:
Age doesn’t get to decide what you enjoy.
Love is still yours. Laughter is still yours. The messy joy of learning new things? Still yours.
Margareta reminds us: You don’t become less you with age.
If anything, you become more distilled. More sparkly.
Like vintage wine. Or that one glittery cardigan you’ve been saving for a “special day.” (Today is that day.)

7. Laugh at the Small Stuff. And Some of the Big Stuff Too:
Life will throw ridiculous things at you.
Your knees might creak. You might forget your own email password three times a day.
But Margareta shows us: laughter is resistance.
It’s how we say, “Yes, I see the mess. And I choose joy anyway.”
Laugh loudly. Especially when things get strange. Especially when people tell you not to.

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19/07/2025

In today’s world, kindness can feel a bit… outdated.
You hold the door open, and someone walks through without a glance. You smile at a stranger, and they look at you like you asked for their kidney.
Sometimes it makes you wonder: “Should I just stop being nice?”

But then comes Piero Ferrucci — like a warm cup of tea on a rainy Monday — to remind us that kindness isn’t weakness. It’s power. Quiet power. The kind that doesn’t yell, but heals. The kind that doesn’t push, but transforms.

In his beautiful book The Power of Kindness, Piero gently shows us that being kind isn’t about being a doormat — it’s about being deeply, wildly human.

Key insights from the book :

1. Kindness starts with your own voice — the one inside your head:
You know that inner voice that says, “Wow, you messed that up again” or “Everyone’s doing better than you”?
Yeah, Piero wants to have a little chat with it.
He teaches that kindness isn’t just for others — it starts with how you speak to you.
You can't pour tea for others if your own kettle's empty. So give yourself the warm tone you’d give a tired friend. Even if that friend just ate an entire cake.

2. Empathy is kindness in motion:
Ferrucci explains empathy like this: It's not just “I see your pain,” but “I’ll sit with you in it.”
It’s like bringing an umbrella when your friend says, “No, I’m fine” — and you both know they’re clearly not fine.
Real empathy isn’t about fixing. It’s about feeling with. It’s soft, strong, and sometimes shows up holding chocolate.

3. Kindness doesn’t mean saying yes to everything:
Surprise! Kind people are allowed to have boundaries.
Piero reminds us that kindness without honesty becomes people-pleasing, and that’s a fast track to burnout.
True kindness sometimes says, “I love you, but I can’t do this right now.” And that’s not selfish — it’s honest. Kindness without truth is just glitter on a cracked vase.

4. Listening — like, really listening — is one of the kindest things you can do:
Ferrucci says deep listening is a rare and sacred gift.
It’s not waiting for your turn to talk. It’s not nodding while mentally ordering groceries.
It’s putting your ego on mute and saying with your whole being: “I’m here. I hear you.”
And if you're really bold — no phone in hand. Revolutionary, right?

5. Kindness is contagious (in a good way — no mask needed):
Kindness has this magical ripple effect. One warm word, one small gesture — it can travel through five people and circle back to you on a day when you least expect it.
Piero believes every kind act sends out invisible threads that weave a better world. Even if it starts with you helping someone who just cut you off in line. (Deep breaths. You got this.)

6. Forgiveness is kindness that reaches backward:
Holding onto resentment? It’s like carrying a rock in your shoe and then wondering why you're limping.
Ferrucci teaches that forgiveness isn’t about saying what happened was okay. It’s about saying, “I choose to stop carrying this.”
It’s a gift you give yourself. And your shoe.

7. Small kindnesses are never small:
A smile. A compliment. Picking up someone’s dropped pen. These moments might feel tiny — but Ferrucci says they matter.
Why? Because they stack up. They add light. They remind someone they’re not invisible.
Your tiny act could be someone’s reason to keep going. Never underestimate the power of being a decent, warm-hearted human in a world that sometimes forgets how.

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19/07/2025

Modern dating is like shopping in a huge supermarket at midnight with flickering lights, no signs, and half the carts stuck in reverse.

One minute you’re texting someone who seems perfect, the next they vanish like socks in the laundry. Everyone’s swiping, ghosting, benching, orbiting — and let’s be real, some of us are just hiding under a metaphorical blanket watching rom-coms and hoping fate works it out.

But Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist (and secret dating fairy godmother), shows us that love isn’t just about chemistry or “the spark.” It’s about strategy. Yep. You can learn how to not die alone — and she explains how without sounding like your nosy aunt at weddings.

Key insights from the book :

1. Stop chasing “The Spark” — it’s not a reliable GPS:
Logan says many people are obsessed with instant chemistry. But sparks are often just your trauma bonding with someone else’s chaos.
The truth? Real connection often grows slow and steady — like soup.
So don’t write off someone just because they didn’t make your stomach flip on date one. Butterflies are nice, but do they pay bills or remember your coffee order?

2. Your dating pattern might be your dating problem:
If you keep dating the same kind of person and getting the same disappointing result, congrats — you’re a human!
Logan helps us name our “dating tendencies.” Are you a Romanticizer (chasing perfection), a Maximizer (always thinking there’s someone better), or a Hesitater (waiting till you’re “ready”)?
Once you know your type, you can kindly interrupt the loop — like a best friend pulling you away from texting your ex.

3. Date like a scientist, not a screenwriter:
This one’s genius. Instead of scripting the perfect love story in your head, Logan says try going on dates like an experiment. Be curious. Ask good questions.
Don’t try to impress — try to connect.
This takes off the pressure and brings in play. You’re not auditioning for a soulmate. You’re discovering compatibility. Big difference. Less sweat.

4. Choose your “life partner,” not just a date to the party:
Logan reminds us: You’re not looking for someone to pose with on Instagram. You’re choosing the human who’ll stand beside you in hospitals, on moving day, and through all your questionable hair phases.
So don’t just ask, “Are we cute together?”
Ask, “Can we do life together when it’s not cute?”

5. The best partner isn’t perfect — they’re willing:
We often make a fantasy list of what we want: tall, funny, loves dogs, owns a kayak.
But Logan says what really matters is finding someone willing to grow, repair, and commit.
They don’t need to have it all figured out. They just need to be someone who says, “Let’s figure it out together.”
You don’t need a superhero. You need a teammate.

6. You probably need to get better at ending things:
Oof. Yeah. Logan doesn’t let us wiggle away from this one.
Dragging along someone you’re not into? Keeping the door half-open with your ex?
She teaches us that clear, kind endings are just as loving as good beginnings. It’s not mean to let someone go. It’s actually very grown-up. (Ugh, we know.)

7. Being single isn’t a failure — it’s a season:
Logan flips the script: being single doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you.
It just means you’re learning, healing, growing — and building the kind of life that can welcome love, not beg for it.
You don’t have to rush. You’re not behind. You’re just… in progress. And that’s beautiful.

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19/07/2025

Your tomorrow is determined by the actions you take today

18/07/2025

Raising a child sometimes feels like trying to build a spaceship while flying it. There’s no perfect manual, and just when you think you’ve figured things out, they enter a new phase and change the rules. Every parent wants their child to succeed, but what does success even mean? Straight A’s? A shelf full of trophies? Never throwing a tantrum in the grocery store?

Dr. William Stixrud and Ned Johnson tackle these questions in The Thriving Child, and their answer is refreshingly simple: thriving isn’t about perfection. It’s about raising kids who are resilient, capable, and emotionally strong, not just kids who meet external expectations. It’s about giving them the tools to navigate life—not controlling every step they take.

Let’s dive into seven lessons from this book that might just change the way we think about raising kids.

1. Success Without Happiness Isn’t Success:
A child who aces every test but is constantly stressed and anxious isn’t thriving—they’re surviving. The book challenges the idea that academic achievement is the ultimate goal. It reminds parents that mental health, confidence, and joy matter just as much as grades and college applications. A thriving child isn’t just one who achieves, but one who enjoys their life along the way.

2. The Best Gift You Can Give Your Child Is a Sense of Control:
Kids who feel like they have some say in their lives tend to be more motivated and less anxious. The book encourages parents to shift from controlling their child’s every move to empowering them to make decisions. Whether it’s letting them pick their own extracurriculars or solve their own problems, giving kids a sense of control builds resilience—and stops them from feeling like life is just happening to them.

3. Stress Isn’t the Enemy—But Chronic Stress Is:
A little stress is actually good for kids. It teaches them how to handle challenges and bounce back from failure. But constant, overwhelming stress? That’s where problems start. The book highlights how pressure from school, sports, and social expectations can pile up, leading to anxiety and burnout. Parents don’t need to eliminate stress entirely, but they can create a home environment where kids feel safe, supported, and able to recharge.

4. Sleep Is a Superpower—And Most Kids Aren’t Getting Enough:
If there were a magic pill that could improve kids’ focus, mood, and emotional stability, every parent would want it. Well, it exists—it’s called sleep. The book emphasizes how many kids (especially teenagers) are chronically sleep-deprived, thanks to homework, screens, and packed schedules. Prioritizing rest isn’t just about avoiding cranky mornings—it’s about supporting brain development, learning, and overall well-being.

5. Motivation Doesn’t Come From Nagging:
If nagging worked, parents would have the most motivated kids on the planet. But as the book explains, real motivation comes from within—not from constant reminders. Kids are more likely to take responsibility for their work when they feel a sense of ownership, rather than just following orders. Encouraging curiosity, autonomy, and a growth mindset does more for motivation than any lecture ever could.

6. Letting Kids Fail (A Little) Is Actually a Good Thing:
No parent wants to see their child struggle. But protecting kids from every mistake or setback doesn’t prepare them for real life—it just makes them afraid to take risks. The book argues that manageable failures—like forgetting a homework assignment or losing a soccer game—teach kids resilience. When parents step back and let their child experience natural consequences, they’re actually helping them develop the confidence to handle challenges in the future.

7. A Thriving Child Needs a Thriving Parent:
It’s hard to teach kids about balance, emotional regulation, and self-care when parents themselves are exhausted and overwhelmed. The book reminds parents that taking care of their own well-being isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Kids learn more from what they see than what they’re told, and a calm, emotionally healthy parent is one of the best gifts a child can have.

Raising a thriving child isn’t about pushing them toward success—it’s about guiding them toward a life where they feel confident, capable, and happy. By letting go of rigid expectations and focusing on emotional well-being, resilience, and autonomy, parents can create an environment where kids don’t just achieve—they flourish. And maybe, just maybe, that makes the parenting journey a little easier too.

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18/07/2025

If you’ve ever thought leadership was all about giving powerful speeches, wearing power suits, or sending motivational quotes to your team every Monday
…James and Barry are here to say, “Actually, no.”
The Truth About Leadership isn’t your average “be the boss” book.
It’s a collection of grounded, human, deeply researched truths about what real leadership looks like
The kind that builds trust, lifts people up, and doesn’t rely on fancy titles to earn respect.

Key insights from the book :

1. People Follow the Person, Not the Position:
You can have the title, the business card, the cool LinkedIn headline—
But if people don’t believe in you, they won’t follow you.
James reminds us: Leadership is about credibility, not control.
Your actions matter way more than your PowerPoint presentations.
Be real, be consistent, and please—don’t make promises you can’t keep just to look good in a meeting.

2. Clarity of Values Is Non-Negotiable:
People won’t follow you if you don’t even know what you stand for.
The best leaders aren’t vague—they’re clear about what matters.
James and Barry say: Define your values. Live them. Share them.
That way, when the going gets tough (and it will), you won’t be making it up as you go.
Instead, you'll be leading from a place that actually means something.

3. Trust Is the Currency of Leadership:
Without trust, you’re just a loud person with a plan.
But with trust? You’re someone worth following.
This book shows that trust isn’t built in grand gestures—it’s built in tiny moments:
Being honest. Admitting mistakes. Following through.
(And yes, maybe letting your team leave early on Fridays without pretending it’s a “strategy.”)

4. You Can’t Lead Without Love. Yep, We Said It:
This one surprises people.
But the truth is—great leaders care. Deeply.
They don’t just manage tasks. They value people.
They lead with empathy, compassion, and a willingness to be human.
Love doesn’t make you soft.
It makes you strong in a way spreadsheets never can.

5. Challenge Is Inevitable—And Necessary:
No leader ever grew from comfort zones and smooth meetings.
James and Barry say: Embrace the challenge. Invite it, even.
Growth only happens when you stretch—when you do hard things with courage and coffee.
So go ahead: make that uncomfortable decision, have the honest talk, take the leap.
You’ve got this. (Probably. And if not, that’s okay too.)

6. Learning Is the Lifeblood of Good Leadership:
The best leaders aren’t know-it-alls. They’re learn-it-alls.
They ask questions. They listen. They grow.
This book makes it clear: If you’ve stopped learning, you’ve stopped leading.
So keep reading, messing up, adjusting, and evolving.
The job’s never done—and that’s the beautiful part.

7. Legacy Isn’t About Fame. It’s About Impact:
At the end of the day, leadership is less about being remembered and more about what you leave behind.
How did you make people feel?
Did you create something that will outlast you?
Did you help others grow into leaders, too?
The truth is: the mark you leave won’t be measured in awards.
It’ll be measured in the quiet ripple of people who felt seen, believed in, and changed—because of you.

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18/07/2025

Meli Hynes, a talented furniture artisan, has devoted herself to her late uncle’s woodworking business, believing it is her birthright to inherit and continue the legacy. Her uncle instilled in her the belief that the only lasting love is between an artist and her craft. When she abruptly leaves her fiancé at the altar in Las Vegas, she impulsively marries a stranger named Aaron, lifetime briefly binding them for twenty‑four hours—only to part ways immediately after .

Fast-forward five years: her uncle plans to sell the business to a rival firm, jeopardizing Meli’s inheritance. That rival turns out to be Aaron’s family. Determined to stop the sale, Meli approaches Aaron with a proposal: marry again, but this time as a marriage of convenience meant to derail the transaction. They agree to live together, act like newlyweds, and—but avoid falling back in love .

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18/07/2025

Most of us have Olympic-level skills when it comes to overthinking. You get a good idea, feel the spark, and then — boom — your brain shows up like, “Hey, quick question... what if you totally suck at this?” And just like that, you're back on the couch, scrolling, snacking, and wondering where your motivation ran off to.

Enter Mel Robbins, queen of the “do it anyway” mindset. In The 5 Second Rule, she gives us a ridiculously simple but powerful way to stop thinking and start moving — literally in five seconds.

Key insights from the book :

1. Motivation Is a Liar — Don’t Wait for It:
Mel comes in hot with this one: motivation is unreliable. It’s lazy. It hits snooze. It will ghost you when you need it most. So stop waiting to “feel ready.” The truth? You’ll probably never feel ready. That’s why action needs to come before motivation — not the other way around. (Kind of like brushing your teeth before coffee. You won’t love it, but it works.)

2. You Have a 5-Second Window Before Your Brain Kills Your Dreams:
Here’s the rule: you have about five seconds between an idea and your brain talking you out of it. Want to speak up? Go for a run? Apply for the job? You have 5 seconds to act — or you’ll probably overthink yourself right into a Netflix hole. Mel’s trick? Count down: 5-4-3-2-1 — GO. Before your brain throws a tantrum.

3. Confidence Isn’t a Trait — It’s a Skill You Build (Like Legos but With More Sweating):
Mel says confidence isn’t something you either have or don’t — it’s something you earn by doing the hard, awkward, brave stuff. Every time you act instead of hesitate, you build self-trust. It’s like doing push-ups for your brain — except you don’t need a gym membership or stretchy pants.

4. Anxiety and Excitement Feel the Same — You Just Name Them Differently:
Butterflies in your stomach? Racing heart? Sweaty palms? Congratulations — you’re either about to panic or do something amazing. Mel shows us that fear and excitement create the same body response. The only difference? What you tell yourself it means. So the next time you're nervous, just say: “I’m excited!” (Even if your armpits are lying.)

5. Your Inner Critic Is Loud — But You Don’t Have to Obey It:
You know that mean little voice in your head? The one that sounds suspiciously like Regina George on a bad day? Yeah, Mel teaches you how to shut her down. With action. Confidence doesn’t come from silencing the voice — it comes from ignoring her and doing the thing anyway. Spoiler: she gets quieter the more you move.

6. Small Decisions Shape Big Lives:
We think our lives change with huge, dramatic moments. But Mel says nope — it's the small stuff. Choosing to get up when your alarm rings. Choosing to speak up in that meeting. Choosing to not text your ex again. Big changes are just a pile of tiny choices — each made in five seconds or less.

7. You Already Know What to Do — You Just Need Help Doing It:
This one hits deep. Mel doesn’t pretend she’s handing you secrets from a mountain. She says most of us already know what we need to do to make our lives better. We’re just waiting for courage to knock. But courage doesn’t knock — it shows up when you move. So stop planning and start counting. 5… 4… 3… 2… 1… do the thing.

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18/07/2025

You swore you’d never turn into them.
And then one day, there you are—saying the exact same sentence your mother did, in the same tone, while holding the same wooden spoon.
Family patterns are sneaky like that.
They don’t just live in old photo albums—they live in your nervous system, your relationships, and the way you flinch when someone raises their voice.

Dr. Mariel’s Break the Cycle feels like therapy in book form. She doesn’t just help you spot the patterns—she teaches you how to end them, without burning the whole house down.

Key insights from the book :

1. Just Because You Were Raised in Chaos Doesn’t Mean You Have to Recreate It:
It starts with something small—like not knowing how to relax in silence, or thinking love has to hurt a little. Dr. Mariel says: pause. That tight feeling in your chest? That’s not your personality—it’s a survival reflex. You don’t have to stay stuck in patterns just because they’re familiar. “Normal” isn’t the goal. Peace is.

2. Your Nervous System Is Not a Drama Queen—It’s a Map:
You’re not “too sensitive.” Your body is just incredibly smart. It remembers what your brain tried to forget. Dr. Mariel teaches how to work with your nervous system, not against it. Because you can’t “positive vibes” your way out of trauma—you have to co-regulate, breathe, and sometimes cry into a weighted blanket first.

3. Not All Traditions Deserve to Be Passed Down:
Just because something’s “how it’s always been” doesn’t mean it belongs in your future. Dr. Mariel gives you permission to be the one who says, “No more.” No more silent treatments. No more emotional landmines. No more pretending everything’s fine at Sunday lunch when it’s very much not fine. You can love your family and still set boundaries. That’s not betrayal—that’s self-respect.

4. Emotional Inheritance Is Real—and You Can Edit the Will:
You may not have inherited the family china, but you sure got the anxiety, the avoidance, or the “never talk about feelings” rulebook. Dr. Mariel calls this generational trauma, and the beautiful thing is—once you see it, you can stop it. You get to decide what continues. And what ends with you.

5. Self-Care Isn’t Just Bubble Baths—It’s Reparenting Your Inner 8-Year-Old:
Sure, a face mask helps. But what your soul really needs is to feel safe, seen, and held—by you. Dr. Mariel teaches how to gently become the parent you needed, not just the one you had. It’s less about routines and more about re-learning how to be kind to the small version of yourself that still gets scared.

6. Healing Is Messy, Boring, and Sometimes Kinda Beautiful:
No, you won’t wake up enlightened after one meditation. Healing often looks like crying in the car, saying “I need space” without guilt, or noticing that this time—you didn’t yell back. That’s growth. Dr. Mariel makes room for the tiny, awkward victories. She reminds you: every cycle you interrupt—counts.

7. You Are Not Broken—You’re Becoming the Blueprint:
You are not the wound. You’re the healing. The soft, smart, brave human who said, “This ends here.” Dr. Mariel doesn’t put pressure on you to be perfect—just conscious. Because the truth is, even starting the work makes you different. You’re not just breaking cycles—you’re building something new. Something better.

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17/07/2025

"The Courage to Be Disliked" is a thought-provoking dialogue between a philosopher and a young man that explores concepts rooted in Alfred Adler's psychology. The book encourages readers to embrace their freedom and responsibility, challenging societal norms and personal fears. Here are ten key lessons and insights from the book:

1. You Can Choose to Be Happy: The authors assert that happiness is a choice rather than a result of external circumstances. They emphasize that individuals have the power to choose their responses to situations, which ultimately shapes their happiness and outlook on life.

2. The Importance of Self-Acceptance: A central theme of the book is the significance of self-acceptance. Kishimi and Koga argue that accepting oneself, flaws and all, is crucial for personal growth and fulfillment. This acceptance allows individuals to live authentically without seeking validation from others.

3. Separation of Tasks: The concept of "separation of tasks" is introduced to help individuals understand what is within their control and what is not. By focusing only on their own tasks and responsibilities, people can reduce anxiety about others' opinions and expectations, leading to a more peaceful existence.

4. The Role of Courage: The authors highlight that courage is essential for personal transformation. It takes courage to confront one's fears, to be disliked, and to live authentically. Embracing this courage is necessary to break free from societal pressures and expectations.

5. Interpersonal Relationships and Community Feeling: The book emphasizes the importance of community feeling and contributing to the welfare of others. Healthy interpersonal relationships are built on mutual respect and understanding, and contributing to the community enhances one's sense of belonging and fulfillment.

6. The Illusion of Inferiority: Kishimi and Koga discuss the concept of inferiority complexes, suggesting that feelings of inferiority are often self-imposed. They encourage readers to recognize these feelings as illusions and to focus on their strengths and potential instead.

7. Living in the Present: The authors advocate for living in the present moment rather than being burdened by past regrets or future anxieties. This mindfulness allows individuals to engage fully with their current experiences, fostering a deeper appreciation for life.

8. Avoiding the Need for Approval: The book challenges the need for external approval from others. Kishimi and Koga argue that seeking validation can lead to a lack of authenticity and fulfillment. Instead, individuals should focus on their values and what truly matters to them.

9. The Power of Contribution: The authors highlight that true happiness often comes from contributing to others' happiness. By focusing on helping others and fostering positive relationships, individuals create a sense of purpose and connection that enhances their own well-being.

10. Embracing Change: Finally, the book emphasizes the inevitability of change and the importance of embracing it. Kishimi and Koga encourage readers to view change as an opportunity for growth and to be open to new experiences, perspectives, and possibilities.

In "The Courage to Be Disliked," Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga present a compelling case for reclaiming personal power and embracing authenticity. By applying these ten key lessons, readers can cultivate the courage to live a fulfilling life, free from the constraints of societal expectations and fear of disapproval.

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