25/12/2022
What are the things to be considered before starting a relationship?
First, it’s not all fairy tales and roses, by definition we have distorted the meaning of love in relationships, and excessive movies and web series have already tarnished our mindset about an ideal partner.
We are becoming desperate for searching the right guy/girl for us instead of asking ourselves, “How can I become a good partner”
A good partner should have most of the following qualities
being resourceful
being sensitive about their emotion
being responsible
being accountable for their happiness
Things to consider
Test your compatibility- When you are trying to build a relationship or thinking about getting into one, first calm down and get to know that person for at least 6 months first, this is the honeymoon phase of a relationship when everyone is in their cloud nine but when this phase ends the reality begin to hover and you start to see their actual-self. Test your compatibility with that person, is she a feminist? is that guy a pushover? do they take responsibility for their own mistakes?
Avoid the dramatic personality- Especially girls who are extremely dramatic and without any purpose in life are the most chaotic combination that as a guy you can’t handle. Stay away.
Are you capable?- Now you just got into the relationship, then what? have you planned anything yet or have you thought about how you two are going to visualize a long-term future? Any relationship without consideration of the bigger picture will fall off eventually.
Are you able to Negotiate with that person - Do you two combine good qualities and do those qualities construct a meaningful bond? Are you able to negotiate with each other? Negotiations in any relationship will help it to get stronger. If you can reach a better conclusion by negotiating things then a layer of solidities forms in your relationship
Consider these things and remember you are responsible for your happiness and a partner just enhances it not deplete..
