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16/09/2025

What is your opinion about the social media influencers in India?

16/09/2025

#16284

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I'm a 30-year-old guy, and I met a woman on social media back in January. She was going through a separation from her husband, and during that difficult time, we exchanged numbers and started talking. In the beginning, she was stressed and emotionally overwhelmed, and I found myself being there for her—listening patiently as she opened up about her broken marriage. Over time, we grew closer, and I genuinely started to care about her. I was emotionally invested, and naturally, I began developing feelings. At times, our conversations even became intimate, which deepened my emotional connection to her. One day, I took a step further and initiated deeper intimate chats, but after that, something changed—she began to pull away. When I asked her about it, she said she was busy. Later, she unfollowed me on Instagram, and when I asked why, she explained that legal proceedings were ongoing and she didn't want any trouble. Eventually, she followed me back, but our conversations never returned to how they were. I kept trying to reconnect, asking why she had become distant, but she would only say she was busy. I became frustrated, emotionally exhausted, and even begged her to talk. One day, I unfollowed her myself, hoping she might react—but she never did. Now, I’m left with all these unresolved feelings, constantly thinking about her, trying to understand what really happened. I cared, I was there, and I fell for her—but now I feel lost in the silence she left behind.at beginning she showed interest on me and cared for me, why would one give hope if they are not in to serious relationship, now i miss her so much😭 should i go and express my feelings for her please suggest me would she come back?
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-Guy

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16/09/2025

#16283

"41F

We are three kids. Two girls & one boy. I’m the first one! All my childhood I’ve been facing traumas & torture from my dad & mom! Dad never stayed with us & never gave enough money to run the family! Mom always borrowed money to run the family instead of demanding from dad. He earned really well! So, not that he couldn’t afford. He has an illicit affair before marriage & gave money to that lady & settled things between them! He is such a male chauvinistic, dominating and arrogant husband. I’ve only seen my parents fighting! God knows how my mom wanted to have 3 kids with him! Debts started piling up.. gundas started coming to our house asking for money. Mom would hide inside & tell me to answer them! This happened when I was hardly 12 or 13 years old! This happened many times.. I always used to feel so low, frustrated & didn’t want to live such a life! My mom always used to gas light me about dad & I was the scapegoat for everything like asking him for money, questioning him, etc.. in the same household my sister & brother grew up happy without all this tension because they were small kids! After I started working, I cleared all the debts of my mom. Again she would go & pledge her jewels & say no money to run the family instead of asking dad. She would tell me only when it goes for auction. I would redeem it again. Once I even sold my gold chain to close the debt.. again she pledged it. I used my credit card to redeem the jewel. After marriage also she wouldn’t leave me at peace. For my marriage in 2013 they hardly spent 5-7 lakhs at the max.. they gave me the jewels that my mom had (jewels which were bought in 70’s by my grandpa which were 18 carat) & didn’t buy anything new for the wedding. They gave lesser than what they committed.. in fact on the day of wedding, I only had the chain & ring which I bought with my salary! They didn’t give any other jewels. My dad said he will give sooner. Since my in laws were good hearted they didn’t ask me about the jewels.. after few months, they gave only half the jewels & promised they would give little by little.. but even after 12 years they have not given all the jewels which they agreed to give me! After hew years of my wedding, when my mom came to my house, she took off my engagement ring & pawned it without my knowledge. Till now she hasn’t given that back too! At another instance she took off my Kaaram & god knows if she pledged it or sold it! First she agreed. Since I didn’t torture her to give it back for many years, now she turned the whole story saying she didn’t take it at all! She thinks if she keeps telling this lie, it will become true one day! My parents sold one of their property for my sister’s wedding & sold another property to buy a house for my brother! They told they are going to sell it for 70 lakhs! I asked them to give it to me for 60 lakhs. They denied & sold it to someone else for 69 lakhs.
I really don’t know if am really born to them!
Who I am in this family!"

-Girl

16/09/2025

#16282

This is a warning post about one more mafia in kanyakumari district. I have been recently approached by a land broker famous in insta also for selling one of my family land as I am moving to foreign country.

The land is very remote and not even worth 20000 per cent as there is no use of buying these kind of land in the district as none of the agriculture gives proper profit. Example cost of coconut plucking itself is high and there are no people, rubber fluctuations are there and banana most are falling during monsoon. There are many other difficulties.

But these real estate guys are advertising as 1-1.5 lakhs per cent and they are demanding 50000-75000 extra for them as portion. I denied this and now he started threatening me that he won’t allow me to sell this land by any other means and broker even after I have not signed anything with him. Suggest me what should I do. I am honest to sell this land max for 25000 per cent.

-Guy

16/09/2025

#16281

"40M,
Reply to the confession 16266

Yemma ponnu, I do remember that day. Nan pl***oy la ilama. Car and branded stuffs vachu iruntha rich and pl***oy ah. Crush irunthanga ilenu sollala. But nee ivlo mosama solra mari nan characterless ila.

Yetho theruncha ponnu ipdi night la nikuthu nu help. Avlo than. But oru thanks kuda sollalenu nenachu doubt than apo. Ipo purithu yae nu. Happya iru.

Your thanks is accepted. Good you remembered me. Don't think iam cheap and womanizer. Just replying to your post."

-Guy

16/09/2025

#16280

"I'm working in a school as a teacher , andling till 8 std ,and I'm 35 yrs old,I'm married ,intha schoola joint pani2 yrs aakudu, na sernda naala irundu 10 class edukara oruthan epa paathalum parthutey irupan, avan class thandi na poganum odaney velila podi vandu paathutu irupan, na yaar koodavachum ninana avangata vandu pechu kodupan, engutu ponalum moonji munadi vandu vandu nipan avana enaku paakavey pidikadu, oru program la enium avanium orey teamla pottutanga, photo edukarapalam en pakathula vandu vandu ninan kala nala mithichu viten apuram avan mattum pakara maari statusla avana t**i vachen, aduku apuram enna paathaley kadupadipan, na late ta vanda nice sa maati vidathu ipdilam velaya kaata aarampichutan, na ethaum kandukala,
Ipo new sir 12th ku vandrukaar semma talent, smart, avaroda ivan friend aakitan, ipo ennana anda sir um morachi pakarar, en kaathula vilaugara maari avanta ketakarar idu epadi, avan eniya pathi solran over secen , apdi ipdinu aduku apuram enna sonadu therila, anda sirta ena pathi thapa sonanau therila wish paninalum 2 vaati kandukala, anda ketavan pudusa varavangatalam ena pathi thapa solran, normala irundavanga aduku apuram ena paatha smile panrathulam ila, moonja thirupikaranga, idu enaku amithiya work pana mudila, enna seiyaradu avana, "

-Girl

15/09/2025

#16279

"27f

I am working in private company my job timing is 9 to 7, my mom doing all the household things I dont even touch any house work.come home eat sleep and go to job this is my routine. after return home from office I always on phone using social medias it goes beyond limit till 1o clock it is very difficult to wakeup at 8o clock how to change my worst habbit addiction to mobile makes me lose all the energy. how to be more productive and energetic pls suggest how to get out of this trap "

-Girl

14/09/2025

#16278

I have only this page to throw this
It was 2007 when I had finished my 12th standard. I belong to vellore district now it is under thirupattur. I don’t have any other ways to throw this grief than this page.

I lost my father to ethyl alcohol when I was 12 years old. I went to work since my 14 as my mother couldn’t support much on family due to the roadside vegetable and fruit shop she was running. We were not allowed to keep stall in good places at the market, so she kept very small outside market. I started working as load guy to a big vegetable shop through my mom request to one owner in the market. He is a very nice person.
He knows that I have to study, so he ask me to leave at 7.30 to school as we start working 3.30 in the morning. After school I go to shop to clean the shop and he use to give some snacks everyday and ask me to clear his car.

He gives money weekly which supports me. Until school time I work for him and even few guys and women in market use to badmouth about my mom and my owner as he doesn’t have family as he lost his family in a fire accident. But I know about both of them. So I don’t bother. I scored 1101 marks in 12th and received good college in coimbatore through counseling. I told i will join an arts college nearby, so I can work and earn for supporting my education and my sister’s education.

But he told you go to coimbatore I will sponsor half of your education cost and remaining you work there and earn. As promised he gave my fees every year and final year I told I will use the money for my sister’s education as I got more time to do part time.

After college I got a job in Bangalore and went there. I visit my native every weekend and sit with him half day. I told him multiple ways to expand the business and some of them worked, some he says it won’t work out. Very mature business man.

My company has given me an offer to the US, since 2018 I am in the US. During covid I couldn’t visit every year as the travel was blocked, during second wave, we have arranged marriage for my sister and after marriage while I planned to return, my mother got severe covid and she died in 4 days without proper oxygen. So I took extra two weeks and did all the formalities.

My owner helped a lot to recover as he participated in all our events. I told him to stay away as he is elder to get covid but he never listened.

I went to the US and came back again for a winter in 2023. He played everyday evening with my kids and he adviced me to purchase one land and build a house which he could monitor for me. I did and he supervised the whole house and 2024 winter we did grahapravesam. His family was thinking he gifted me the house and I am trying to take properties from him which I never think. His family in the sense his sister family who is legal heir of him.

Yesterday I heard a need that two weeks ago, he died and his family did all the cremation in 15 hours and also adviced mutual contacts to not inform me. But still one guy called me which I ignored as always he calls me to ask money.

Now I feel extremely sad and clueless. I am planning to go to India. But at the same time situation in the US is not good and I may have issues while return. I thought by writing here I have my pain reduces. Without him I could have been on roads and he is the complete reason. Thanks owner uncle. You will live forever in my memories and I am helping three students as you do, I will increase this number more based on my income. All these goodwill will be written as you. Thanks forever.

-Guy

14/09/2025

#16277

"women threaten to file false molestation case against cab driver for 150rs charges

150 rupees = Molestation charge.
This is the level of weaponization of gender we've reached. A hardworking cabbie's only shield was his phone camera… otherwise his life would've been destroyed by a fake case.

And society & families will still clap for her, cover her up, call her empowered.
Truth: She's not empowered, she's entitled.
When lies as serious as molestation are thrown around for pocket change, it's not just men who suffer... it's real victims of abuse whose voices get diluted.

If this is what ""beti bachao"" produced... maybe it's time to also start ""BETA bachao."""

-Guy

14/09/2025

#16276

"To Admin,
You've never posted any of my confession recently. At least post this one please.

To All
M32. Back in 2018, I was traveling in D70 bus from office to my room, stewing over my single status and introvert woes. In a moment of boredom, I whipped out my phone, typed up my rant, and tossed it onto my meme page and this confession page. To my shock, people loved it! My humor and narration style got more applause, likes, the works. One guy shared my post, and BOOM—1k likes, 2k shares, and a flood of comments praising my wit. I don't even thought people like my writing.
Riding the high, I dropped more confessions like ( #4400), ( #4546), ( #7990), and , plus some I’ve totally forgotten. The internet ate it up. Then, life happened—I deactivated my socials and spiraled into a two-year depression funk (2023-2024). Books, music, cricket, even tried musical instruments—nothing worked.
In search of positivity, I stumbled across those old positive comments. Lightbulb moment: why not write a book? Despite my lazy vibes, stress, anxiety, and peer pressure, I poured my heart into it. Two months ago, I published my book, and it’s now hitting book fairs and online stores. Those comments from you legends inspired me to turn my mess into something productive. So, from the bottom of my heart, thanks for the positivity—you guys are the real MVPs! in my life. I still remember each and every name of those positive comments and due to your privacy I'm not mentioning here. Once again a Big Thank you to all of you."

-Guy

14/09/2025

#16275

"M40 married for over a decade. Is it only me or is anyone else affected by this younger sister controlled wife. Yes, my wife is totally controlled by her sister who is unmarried. Santhosh subramanian movie la vara madhiri talk anything to her and it'll have ""en thangachi sonnanga"". My wife is totally controlled by her sister. Veetla yaaru Enna senjalum nadandhalum odaney oru call/msg. Privacy eh illadha oru feel. Full time big boss madhiri ella info um gather pannittu irukkum avanga sister. Also adhu ellathlayum oru theva illadha sh*tty opinion vechi kummi adichi vittudum, we will end up with fights. Even sanda podrathu kooda will be scripted by her. Ethanaiyo vaatti solliyachu, sanda potachu idhu patthi, odaney ennaiyum en Family ah yum pirikka paakriya nu brahmastram thookittu nikkuradhu. Nan en parents kitta velila poittu varen soldrathu is a big privacy breach for her, but ivanga ennoda personals varaikkum anga disclose pandrathula enakku endha issue um irukka koodathu. Idhula monthly inspection madhiri every month vandhu 1 week dera potu, pogumbothu oru sandaiya kelapi vitu pogum. Guys Please think twice before getting married to a thangachi's big princess. It's frustrating! To my wife, I'm drifting away from you emotionally! Aprm it's a sibling bond cement manvetti nu yarum thookittu varadheenga pls. "

-Guy

14/09/2025

#16274

"Hi guys!!!!
Having 6+ yoe.
I have offer from one of the big 4 with the package of 13.75 with variable 1.25l and W!p&© with 16 with 1.2L as variable. Which is best? Any suggestions from ur end...
Like yearly hike in both firm.
Work culture
Work life balance
WFH model
Variable pay back to us
Job security ( bench period)
How much will get inhand pay from this both after all detection
And pros and cons of this both firm.
And if my reject any of one offer that means I can't join in that company in my future also ?can anyone confirm this please with ur exp."

-Guy