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07/11/2025

#16678

Hi, I’ve been struggling silently after being mistreated and emotionally broken at work. I was bullied by a manager who misused my disability information, gossiped about me, and pushed me into emotional distress, but when I finally spoke up, the system turned against me instead of helping. HR closed my complaints, labeled my reactions as “unprofessional behavior,” and issued warnings instead of addressing the bullying. The same people who caused the harm were protected, and I was told to “move on,” while I live every day with fear, anxiety, and sleepless nights. I was made to feel like the problem, even though all I ever wanted was fairness, dignity, and a chance to work without being manipulated or silenced. I still don’t know how to heal from something that everyone else pretends never happened.

-Guy

07/11/2025

#16677

"To The People Living in Marriage Life"

"There are plenty of wolfs targetting family womens for their physical needs".

You might think we are happy in terms of intimacy why should i bother it....but in most of the case as you guys are committed so you have to stick with the system and you are living a life for the name of society..please revalidate your thoughts on intimacy and love making part.If you really care about your partner or for the shake of kids then please take care of them by asking their expectations, likes and dislikes....

Taking care of the women doesn't mean go with her wherever she goes or always checking her to whom she is talking.

Women also thinks as the partner is not good at the act of intimacy or always having fight with family or other household things so im choosing an affair as the affair will trap you with the sugar coated words and give their arm for your problems.....but not thinking these are the weakness points for those unethical wolf to break your relationship. so its better put effort on your partners diet, workout or therapy if required, instead of putting effort for the wolf to destroy your life.

This is not an advice and I did not meant all men and women are like this...

I also suggest to read Toilet Seat book as it will tell you the other sides of the unspoken words about intimacy.

-Girl

Only married people with toddlers can understand the pain 🤣
07/11/2025

Only married people with toddlers can understand the pain 🤣

07/11/2025

#16676

"I'm 25 f
My parents separated when I was 10, and I have one brother. Since then, my mom and her family have taken full responsibility for us, while my father, who lives in Dubai, has never provided any support.He didn't even appeared for the diverse case. Didnt give single penny for me and my brother inspite for court order to deposit 2000 per month each till we reach 18 in 2010.
The main reason for my parents’ separation was my father’s suspicious nature, encouraged by his family. At one point, during a serious argument, he poured kerosene on himself, my brother, and me to threaten my mother’s family. A police case was filed, but he escaped to Dubai and later married a woman from Bangalore, who is now my stepmother.
There is a house in my father’s name in our hometown, which he had promised to give to me and my brother since he never supported us. He also took 25 grams of my mother’s gold. Now that police are asking us to withdraw the old case (16 years have passed), we agreed on the condition that he compensates us—returning the gold for my marriage and the house for my brother—but he refuses.He is such a psyco he beaten my mom very badly and till now he speak very high of this to everyone. Meanwhile, his family is spreading false rumours that I’m already married and that we are threatening them and they always do this whenever there is a chance to meet my father.There is more i don't know what to tell and what to avoid.

They still live in my father’s house without paying rent and are pressuring him to transfer the property to them.
I’m now working in an entry-level central government job in my hometown, living with my mother, but I don’t want to stay here much longer. I’m confused about what to do next and how to handle this situation legally and emotionally. Anybody know how to handle this legally please suggest something."

-Girl

07/11/2025

#16675

"30 M, married

I need suggestions on my big decision
I'm a BBA Graduate passed out 2015, working as data entry operator in my hometown for almost 8 years, getting around 20k.. endha improvement um ila career la..
My sister husband running a startup in sivakasi, (IT field)
I'm not from IT field, I know nothing about programming
anga vandhru, training kuduthu job assure panrenu solranga
na avlova close ila sister husband ta, first la irundhu ellam solli kudupangla patience oda.. idhu set aguma en future nu periya doubt iruku enaku.. starting la 15 to 20k,
Poga poga increment iruk*m nu solranga
Na ipo panra job WFH dhan panren, mrng 6 to 2 adhu panitu,
Evng 6 to 2 adha panna solranga..
First 1 yr will be tougher, but future nalla iruk*m nu solranga
idhu correct ah varuma, pls give opinion"

-Guy

07/11/2025

#16674

"Hi.. I'm from a city famous for Jasmine flowers (TN). This incident happened in 2017. Apo thaan enaku groom search pana start pananga.. He is from a city famous for Milk khova.. Evanga thaan first uh enaku vantha groom.. First sight la ye enaku pidichurunthadhu.. Avanga family k*m enai pidichu erunthathu. But oru particular reason ka ha en parents ku entha groom vendam nu decide panitanga.. Avanga side la erunthu ketute erunthanga. But en veetla we will tell you nu solli apdiye antha groom ku no solitanga.

I just want to be friend with him now.. He has 2 younger sisters.. His name is A**n. I think avangaluk*m enai pidichu erunthathu.. Miss panitenu feel panren now... I'm married and blessed with a baby now.. But still antha milk khova city guy kuda frnd uh erukalam nu oru asai...

IT company la than work panunanga antha time la.. So I just posted here.. "

-Girl

07/11/2025

#16673

"Please don't abuse me with hurting words for my confession.
Month back i shifted to new place , it's 1 bhk small house. On 17th night around 8.00 pm, my ground floor aunty came , I was packing my luggage for Diwali for 10.00 pm train. That aunty was looking like that coolie movie villi with tammana colour. She came inside hall , I felt bad because room was too messy and I was bit sweating. She asked me about the details of my native, office location, experience. Then a lizard was putting some sound , then she also mimicked the same sound. Then she gave me one box ,she said it's homemade sweet and she is distributing it to apartment folks.
I took that box to my native and enjoyed those sweets, doing WFH for 2 weeks as we had some family function. I’m returning tomorrow, my mom also prepared some homemade Mysorepak and laddu, asked me to give it to that aunty , she packed sweets in that aunty box. My mom said those who feed us with foods are like God.
Now my problem is, I actually like that box, I feel something sentimental, I don't want to return that box, I will hand over sweets with a different box.
Will that aunty think bad about me? Will she ask me about that box again? All I heard is marriage woman are obsessed with their dubba or tiffin box more than their husband. Please provide me your valuable inputs.
"

-Guy

07/11/2025

#16672

"I am 35F, divorced long ago, and I have one child. I have faced many struggles in life and dealt with a judgmental society. I am a working woman, strong enough to take care of myself and my child. I was always rude to men who flirted with me, but somehow I blindly trusted one of my colleagues without knowing much about him. He told me he was married with two kids, but claimed that he and his wife were separated and that he would soon file for divorce. He proposed to me and even threatened to harm himself if I refused. Out of fear, I accepted the relationship, believing I would be safe and happy once we got married legally.

After six months, I found out he was actually living with his wife without any issues. The worst part was that his wife knew everything from the beginning but stayed silent and tolerated his affairs. I was in complete shock. I decided to walk away from the relationship and let them live their life. But he started abusing me, following me every day, texting and emailing constantly to destroy my mental peace. He became extremely toxic. I prayed every day to escape from him. After two years of struggle, he suddenly stopped contacting me and disappeared. I feel relieved now, but I am still struggling to heal from the betrayal and emotional trauma."

-Girl

06/11/2025

#16671

I got divorce from my wife recently and I am now jealous of my team members and friends who are happily living with family. I am trying to assign them more work even though those are unwanted to avoid them spending time happily with family and purposely assigning work on weekends in the name of company pressure and job firing.

Friends, I take them to bar or invite them to home and make them drink heavily and drop home. During drinking I try to spoil their mind about wife and few of them I induce to bacc affair. I know I am doing sin. But I love this. I was doing everything correct and my life went bad. Now I can be bad and ruin everyone.

-Guy

06/11/2025

#16670

"Hi all,
3 years career gap ku aprm work kadachu office poga poren... covid la 2 years wfh panen. So apavum office pola.. ipo epadiyo 6 months kasta pattu vela kadachuduchu... ana epadi elathaium face panna poren...thirumba antha speed, confidence elam varuma?? Neraya changes iruk*m nu solranga epadi handle panrathu rmba bayama iruku.. 3years kolantha kuda vetla irunthen.. ipo correct elartaum pesuvana?? Avanga soli tharatha purinjupana rmba bayama iruku.. top ratings vangi nalla perform panuven.. intha gap nala antha nalla name elam spoil ayidumo nu iruku.. kandipa neraya peru career gap oda rejoin panna oruthangalayavathu pathu irupinga... enna improve pananum.. self confidence ah epadi vara vechukarathu..?"

-Girl

06/11/2025

#16669

Six months ago I was fired from a company which I worked 9 years in my overall 14 years career. We were 400 people fired on the same day in India and my whole team except my manager who is my good friend and few operations team folks. 6 from my team received an email around 12pm about the decision and we were given two hours to handover laptop, id card, access, car parking token and other belongings of the organization. We took around 1 hour to recover from the trauma. We couldn’t eat our lunch that day as it was a such scene. We were called individually by the onboarding team to collect the belongings and asked us to come to specific place where they sit. We went after we had few words with my manager who told this is company’s decision due to AI adoption in our module and market conditions.

We handed over our belongings and they have asked us to go to HR and get final closure and other proceedings.

We went to our HR whom I know for 6 years, slight attitude guy but I thought understanding that situation he acts better. But he used few phrases which really hurts us.

Phrase 1 - Let’s sign and flush out all your residues on full and final settlements.

Phrase 2 - Ok guys, Clear the area, go to security with the form, they will give you gate pass.

Phrase 3 - Take it lighter and refer deserving candidates in future.

After 5 months of struggle I got a job, I know my manager was fired 2 months later and I had no option other than calling HR to give contact email of previous organization for bgv. I called his personal number and came to know he was also fired 2 months later I got fired. He couldn’t land in any job yet as he was having higher package.

In my mind, I thought Unakku venum da. But I was not bought up by such parents. So I have asked him to share his resume and referred him in my current organization. Just before sometime he called me and informed that he received call from my current organization and thanked me as this is going to be the first interview which he would be attending after he got fired and all the previous chances just dint go through.

Finally, I helped him and I believe he realized the pain we had gone through.

-Guy

06/11/2025

#16668

"Hmm...

Genuine question girls....?

Ungaluku velai ku poga pudikadhu,
Ungaluku veetu vela paaka pudikadhu,
Ungaluku cook panna pudikadhu,
Ungaluku kids paathuka pudikadhu,
Ungaluku earn panni family ku kuduka pudikadhu, soo

Ungaluku house work panna maid venum,
Ungaluku cook venum,
Ungaluku kids paathuka nannies venum,
Ungaluku Husband naai maathiri kashta pattu earn panni unga kai la kaasu fulla kudukanum,
Ungaluku husband veetuku vandha tired ah iruku sapda edhum keka koodathu,

Seri adhu kooda paravala.. aana marriage la.. pasanga dowry keka koodathu..
Jewelries keka koodathu, properties keka koodathu, nu sollitu...
apram divorce la alimony um vekkame illama vangipinga..

Soo..
Neenga thenda soru thinnutu veetula ukkandhu, jolly ah ooru suthitu.. ooru fulla kadhai laam pesitu.. idhula boy bestie kooda regular ah meet pantu.. apdiye vettiya irupinga..
Naanga marriage ku atleast virgin ah irunga nu keta thappu... thuu

Seri some exceptional women are there, hardworking, earning, single moms,.. i genuinely respect you people.. aana mela irukura category thaan many are there.. chii, tell me what will be your role in family?? "

-Guy

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