23/08/2026
She stood at the bottom of a single flight of stairs at work, unable to climb it, her chest shooting with pain, still being told the problem was all in her head.
Abigail Louise is 36, a mother of two, and for years she knew something was wrong with her body. Doctors kept telling her it was anxiety.
Between 2021 and 2025 she went back again and again with the same symptoms. Breathlessness. Crushing fatigue every single day. A strange, weird rhythm in her chest. Five or six times, she says, she was referred to therapy for panic attacks.
Looking back, the signs had been there her whole life. As a child she could never keep up with the other kids. Her lips would turn blue even when it was not cold. She had learned to think of herself as someone who simply struggled, someone who panicked.
It came to a head when she found herself unable to make it up that flight of stairs, gripped by shooting pain. This time she went to the emergency room, and this time the tests told a different story.
Doctors found a blocked branch in her heart's electrical system and a suspected murmur. Further scans revealed a leaking heart valve and a rare congenital heart condition she had likely carried since birth. Not anxiety. Never anxiety.
She wants other people to know that if something in your body does not feel right, you are allowed to push until someone truly listens.
Have you or someone you love ever had real symptoms brushed aside, and what finally got a doctor to take it seriously?