17/12/2025
Hello Guys!!! I’m a 28 year old woman. It& #39;s been a month of our marriage and I don’t even know where to start. I got married recently as I mentioned, and everything seemed perfect.
He’s loving, caring, and everyone says we are a good match. But today, by chance, I saw him chatting with his ex-girlfriend. It was nothing inappropriate—just normal messages—but suddenly a storm of thoughts hit me. I can’t stop asking myself: Did he marry me because he truly wanted to, or was it some kind of pressure—family, society, or something else? Honestly, I also had someone in my life before marriage. I liked him a lot, but I never told
my now-husband about my feelings. And now, seeing that my husband had a girlfriend in the past makes me question so many things. I don’t want to be judgmental, but this feeling of doubt
keeps eating at me. I keep wondering if I married the right person, and whether he is fully committed to me. Mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki kya karu. Should I ask him directly about his ex, or should I wait for some time and see if these thoughts are just in my mind? Maybe I am overthinking. Maybe there’s nothing to worry about. Par phir bhi, ye curiosity aur doubt mujhe shaant nahi hone deta. It’s not about mistrust exactly, it’s more about understanding him better. I want to feel secure in our marriage, and right now, I feel a little lost. I know every person has a past, and every relationship teaches them something. But my heart is confused because I never shared my own past feelings with him, and now I’m seeing a
part of him. It’s not jealousy, it’s just… uncertainty. I want clarity, I want honesty, and I want to know if our marriage is truly what he wants. Maybe I should just observe for some time, let things settle, and see if my doubts fade away. Or maybe I should talk to him gently, ask him about it without accusing him, just to
understand. Mujhe lagta hai ki baat karna hi best hoga, par dar lagta hai ki shayad main galat soch rahi hoon, ya phir unnecessarily problem create kar rahi hoon. Abhi ke liye, main bas apne
emotions ko samajhne ki koshish kar rahi hoon. I love him, I want our marriage to work, but I also want to feel secure and certain about the choices we made together. Shayad time aur thodi
honesty hi mere doubts ko door kar sake. Kya wait karna sahi hoga kahi der toh nhi kr dungi main samjhne mein chizo ko.
