01/02/2025
Something we all should know
A C-section is a lifelong disability
from the birth of a child until the death of a mother.
Many people often pass remarks like, "Oh Caesar's pain is nothing but only cuts the stomach !"
But let me tell you that the baby has to be brought into the world by cutting the 8 curtains of our body. Yes, maybe the feeling of cutting the abdomen is not understood because of anesthesia before a c-section but within half an hour, 3 bottle saline is over.
There is a spinal injection is injected into the spine through a thick syringe that causes lifelong pain in the back of the woman.
The next 24 hours bring immense pain, that kind of pain where u feel somebody has chopped one of your body parts but had not applied medicine, but yes, it's endurable after surviving that pain for 48 hours.
They say in the first 24 hours, you can't even turn yourself on bed, forget about walking by yourself for washroom!
Well in my case, it took me 2 months to change sides without pain.
Believe me, when the retirement period of anesthesia is over. You have to squirm like a hen with a cut throat.
24 saline is given in 24 hours, and there is no need for me to say what the pain in the injection site, when they puncture both your hands one by one with the saline syringe. Canola saline is running in the hand, catheter's frozen body is trembling in the urinary tract.
And still, with all these struggles, we have to breastfeed the newborn baby and smile at the relatives, and on top of it, listen to the 100 uninvited advise people and relatives around.
So, I want to ask people who age this mindset that a woman who brings the baby to the world through C-section has no indepth connection with her child like the women who do "Normal vaginal birth" have with their newborns.
Really?
You know, sometimes, long after the child birth, we are tired and irritated. Sometimes, we can't get up immediately from sitting, we can't bend and pick up the child, we can't lift heavy things, we can't walk for long, we can't stand in ques, and why? Because the back hurts bad !!!
But still, we do everything,
We have to because we are born as "women and Become a Mother now.
And still, if you have to hear that, it's simply nothing to have a c - section delivery, it hurts a lot then !!
Hence, please remember whether it's a
Normal delivery or a C-Section delivery - A mother, a wife (and so many roles she plays...) has to go through pain involved in both the cases, and she deserves nothing but only respect and care.