12/04/2016
's Post
Are you an optimist !!!
Life can, in a way, be called, a bed of roses! Hey wait, don't take me wrong, just be on the fact of nature that," no rose is complete without a thorn". On the same note life has no meaning without hardships/problems in the form of challenges. Challenges are not measurable as, the success you get after completing each challenge is 'immense' no matter what it is. But, just like each coin has two faces, every problem gives us two ways/ path to solve it - 1. Being positive and reaching your goal. 2. Being negative and backing out.
Let me give u a common example, when a student graduates from 10th everybody along with parents try to pose their thoughts about the child's career but very few give freedom to their children to choose their destiny which would lead them to their dreams. In the other case when people are forced to do something then later when they fail to succeed in their streams, they tend to blame others for their failures. This makes a lot of impact on the person's life as a student as well as in other aspects. Now "blame" is a negative thought whereas if you choose what you want In life or how you aspire your life to be will not let you blame others for your failures(not likely to happen if you listen to your heart) becomes positive thinking which is exactly what I am trying to convey.
Another would be business, this is the most unstable self employment, which I don't say is the worst thing but yes it shows drastic and dramatic changes in people taking up such profession as one silly step can make a rich man poor while one intelligent step can make a poor man rich.
Therefore, it is always important to make a right decision [stay positive, calm and composed] and move forward with it, irrespective of the hurdles that tend to throw u back. That is the only difference between a "winner and a loser", "an optimist and a pessimist". So it is in our hands to be what we are and what we grow up to be. I don't say that taking every painful situation in a positive sense would help but, yes, when u see people less privileged than you then, you will surely feel as the most blessed and lucky person in the world. What you do is what you get! How you behave decides how you would be treated by others! Don't you feel , "respect is one thing in the world which cannot be bought in shops but has to be earnt". Well it just can be earned if you make "be positive always" as your motto and always make people around you also feel the same. In fact it inspires everyone and fills the place with smiles which have no miles. If u feel that I have done my job of inspiring you, at least by 1%, then I have succeeded in my job. Ok let me not say too much and conclude fast by giving you the five golden tips of being positive-
*will power- to stay calm and positive at all times!
*determination- to do what u decide! *strong mind- to avoid being negatively influence by others!
*confidence- in one's own self!
*trust- in people who are trust worthy! Hoping the most wonderful days ahead for all my dear readers and don't forget!!!
"Be an optimist"
Thanks for rending me your precious time and thoughts!!!
Post Credits: Sanjana Kalidindi
