25/05/2026
How does patriarchy feel?
It feels like weight of the a world that teaches men to abandon their emotions and just keep a handful which serves them the best. It feels like jokes that aren’t funny, it will feel like abandoning yourself to raise someone else’s child.
It will feel like feeling alone in your expression because it will not understand you. It’s been trained that way and it isn’t usually open for change or have the capacity for it.
It will not understand your unsaid needs and when ever you will try to voice it, it will be angry. Well, thats what its been taught to be. Tough and angry.
It would not know to carry you with grace, it will know to rush you because thats what it has been taught, to not feel just rush into the world that has taught its men that being soft is weak, when it is the bravest thing one can do.
It will suck your feminine and turn you into what you are not, it will feel like surviving and surviving in someone’s shadow is never love no matter how neatly it is packed in love. It is not love, you must learn it and I hope you don’t pay the price of the dysfunction of the world that has abandoned the greater part of life.
Love will liberate you never chain you to suffering, don’t sabotage yourself to prove your love and if you ever stand at door of of the intersection of understanding, just give them all the love you had for them and walk away.