15/01/2023
Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30,
Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.
My father said this to me: When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry. Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children. The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.
Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families.. Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With a well planned life they are happier.
Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!
Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's.. What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father. Please young men, take my advice seriously.
Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.
Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down. Allah can change your life in a blink,with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed by Allah's grace... Insha’Allah
May Allah SWT give you an amazing life partner who will help you complete your deen and may you be blessed with righteous off springs. Ameen
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