27/09/2026
Waza Frustration Over Late Wedding Timings, Unlimited Non-Veg Cuisine Adds Burden on Poor Families
Srinagar: The changing trends in Kashmiri weddings are increasingly becoming a matter of concern for economically weaker families, with late-night wedding functions and elaborate non-vegetarian menus adding to the financial pressure.
Traditionally, Kashmiri weddings have been known for the warmth of hospitality and the important role of Wazas and the traditional Wazwan. However, extended timings and demands for multiple varieties of non-vegetarian dishes are reportedly making wedding arrangements increasingly expensive.
Wazas involved in wedding preparations say that late-night serving schedules can create additional challenges for caterers and cooking staff, while families often feel compelled to increase the quantity and variety of food to meet social expectations.
For lower-income families, the rising cost of meat, manpower, transportation and other wedding arrangements can turn what should be a celebration into a significant financial burden.
Many believe that Kashmiri weddings can preserve their traditional hospitality without turning food and timing into a competition. A simpler approach, with reasonable timings and controlled menus, could help families celebrate important occasions with dignity while reducing unnecessary financial pressure.
The discussion also highlights a broader social question: Should wedding celebrations be measured by the number of dishes served, or by the happiness and togetherness they create?
