15/01/2026
Dress regret! I tried on A LOT of dresses before finally settling on this one (Paloma Blanca 4787). I had started searching for a dress in the summer, but we decided to postpone our wedding, so I was able to take a long break from dress shopping. My province had quite a long lockdown period the following winter/spring. I was able to try on dresses again in the spring and then we locked down again before I had decided on my dress. While in lockdown, I tried an "at home try on" that a bridal shop was offering. I could choose four dresses online, pick them up curbside, and try them on at home before returning them. I admittedly felt quite confused about what type of dress I wanted and also felt a lot of pressure to settle on one since I had already taken so long to find a dress. I decided to go with one of the dresses from the at home try on. It felt comfortable and I thought it was nice. While I didn't have any butterflies about it and it wasn't awed over by any of my family members that saw it (nobody had a favourite but everyone was very positive unless the dress was really unflattering), we all seemed to like it.
However, I've recently been questioning my choice. I'm worried about the low back and how it will fit once it's altered. I have always been self conscious about my back and didn't want a dress with such a low back. I'm also realizing there are so many things I liked about other dresses that this dress totally lacks (ex. a longer train, buttons, etc.). I'm not feeling very excited about my dress and I'm worried I'll feel self conscious or regretful about my dress on our wedding day. My dress was a gift from my grandmother and I couldn't bare to tell her that I'm going to get a different dress and maybe try to sell this one, so buying a new dress isn't really an option. All the other wedding related decisions we've made so far have been so easy and fun, but I've had a really a hard time choosing a dress and I think I could use a confidence boost and some reassurance about this dress.