02/12/2025
Rules for Women
• Never beg him for money.
• Don’t pay him a visit and sleep over. Stay in your father’s house until he comes to seek your hand in marriage.
• Stand your ground until he pays your bride price.
• Don’t be pregnant for him before he will come to see your parents.
• Take your time to learn trade or hand work.
• Don’t make him your top priority if he’s not doing so to you.
• Keep things casual; don’t take him too seriously if he hasn’t paid the bride price.
Carry yourself with standards.