17/01/2026
As I was walking towards my local station, I had a bit of a realization today…I’m really happy with my current situation.
Since moving to Japan a year and a half ago, I’ve often wondered if I made the right decision. I worried about my daughter adjusting, my aging parents, my ability to readjust to living here and not grow disillusioned again, and a whole slew of other things.
Admittedly, some of those worries still remain, but a whole bunch of concerns I had living in the US have disappeared. I no longer worry about my kid going to school and what could happen there. I am not immediately suspicious of people I pass. I feel overall safe and content.
Maybe part of it is getting older. Or maybe I’m just fooling myself. But when I see the current status in the US (without getting into the political situation ) , I feel reassured I made the right choice.
I live in a great town, and am doing a job I really love, and it’s allowed me to open my eyes more and see the world around me differently.
Don’t get me wrong, Japan has its problems…too many to list here. As a foreigner it can feel lonely at times, and I’m sure I’ll always feel like an outsider. Aging population, a political environment that is often stagnant and backwards, earthquakes, struggling economy, etc. But for me the benefits outweigh the negatives.
Japan may not be perfect…but it’s perfect for me, and I love living here.