24/08/2026
Turns out,
Madem hupenda mtu ako so harsh and hostile dude.
Been talking with a lady I've known for years then nikajiambia , "why shouldn't I borrow her?".
That's when she turned against me saying , "Soliano, you are soft hearted meaning hatuweziendana nawe. I need someone who's masculine and so harsh".
Hapo kwa soft hearted hakukosea. I copied my siz character. She's softhearted too. 2nd born huinherit character ya firstborn.
Venye alikataa maneno yangu, I distanced myself. Akaenda akitaftaga harsh boyfriend na huko. Days later, akafaulu. Well, madem kupata a guy ni rahisi sana. All she have to do ni amkubali tu yule ako inbox yake na ni type yake.
Met her someday hapo akiwa na kimtu kiyake kiharsh hapo, wanabangaish. I said, congrats. Kimoyomoyo.
Some day hapo scrolling through status, napata huyo dem amempost huyo jamaaa na long caption. "Dear,you have been a blessing since you entered my life.."
Went to wish him a hbd. Then the lady replied with crying emojis. Nikajua baaas. Ni mbaya.
Turns out,
The guy was too insecure. Each time anataka kujua anachat na nani, lazima apiwe video call osiku, at times anapewa kofi, akidelay kupick calls anasomewa. Kidogo kidogo, jamaa ashafika kwake without notice. And later, the guy cheats also.
Me that is feeling jealous is confused. Whether to crying with her or laugh at coz that is what she was asking for, "Harsh and Hostile".
Either way,
I had nothing to tell her apart from, wanaume hukuanga ivo. Just vumilia your man, as long as anaprovide.. Follow what he says.
They broke up. Sai pale inbox, she is very happy. But alisema mambo na wanaume hapana.
Lately,
She is posting bible scriptures and gospel songs everyday. Ameamini Bwana ndiye MWOKOZI na NJIA ya kweli.
Makofi kwake.
One Advice;
Minimise your expectations in RELATIONSHIPS. Get to know someone well first then date. Kupostiana, kununuliwa gifts, kupelekwa out, sio mapenzi. Mapenzi ni after mmemaliza kuturingia uku nje na mko kwa nyumba pekeyenu.
Just because you see me I'm good here on social media, doesn't make me good tukimeet. Meet a person, spend time with them until you are fully convinced they can make a partner.
Msirush stuff. Many regret dating other people out of rushing things. Take time.
Anibuch ko dust.
