08/08/2026
Nowadays in campus when your girlfriend goes to visit her Uncle in Mombasa or Malindi its enough reason to raise eye brows.Campus life has changed. Walk into any lecture hall today and you will find students who are also parents. A 21-year-old in third year with a diaper bag. Their numbers are growing in universities and colleges across Kenya, and coastal schools are part of this conversation.
There is no official data, but counselors and campus clinics say they are seeing more cases every semester. The reasons are many. Money is tight and HELB does not cover everything. Some students get into relationships for financial support and end up pregnant.
Many first years also come to campus without enough information on sexual and reproductive health.Online learning, and long lecturer strikes have also kept students on campus longer, with more free time and less supervision. And the stigma has reduced. Where students used to be forced to defer, many now choose to stay and finish school.
But there is another side to this story that we need to talk about honestly. On weekends, some female students leave campus to visit "uncles"in Mombasa,Mslindi and other towns. For some, it is about rent, fees, or the pressure to live a certain lifestyle. For others, it is about relationships that turn risky.
Student leaders and health workers say this has led to more cases of unplanned pregnancies, STIs, HIV infections, and in some sad cases, assault and even loss of life.
The quest for a quick life and shortcuts has real consequences, and young women are often the ones who pay the highest price. In campuses, the term "Uncle wa Mombasa " trends online. While some of these men are student fathers trying to manage school and parenting, others are older men in transactional relationships. That mix is part of why the numbers keep rising.
Life is not easy for student parents.Hostels do not allow children, so they pay rent outside and for daycare.
HELB cannot stretch that far. They do CATs and exams while also handling clinic visits and sleepless nights. Female students face judgment. Male students face pressure to provide with little support.
Counselors warn that stress, postpartum issues, and school pressure are affecting mental health.
Universities are slow to respond. A few have clinics and private daycares have opened near campuses. At Pwani University, student leaders have been pushing for an on-campus daycare since 2023, but it has not happened yet. What students are asking for is clear: flexible exams, lactation rooms, counseling that understands student parents, and hostel policies that make sense.
Despite everything, most student parents say they will not drop out. "This was not the plan, but my child is why I have to graduate," (Two degrees) one comrade told us.
We need to stop pretending this is not happening. The solution is not shame. The solution is information, support, and policies that protect