08/10/2024
When I went to braid my hair weeks ago, I met a lady there, and we started gisting. Soon, we began to talk about red flags ladies often ignore in relationships and she shared her story with me.
So, she met a man and started dating him. It was a serious relationship because he kept talking about marriage. The first day he visited her at home, she was taking tea and bread when he walked in.
The guy looked into her cup of tea and said the tea was too thick. He complained that the milk she used to make that tea could serve for two to three days😂
She just laughed and didn't think much of it. A month later, his mom came around, and the lady went to visit and acquit herself.
During the course of her stay, the mom asked the guy for 1k. She said she wanted to use it and get fruits. He looked his mom straight in the face and said he couldn't spare 1k
According to him, he usually budgets every penny he spends in a day. The lady offered to give the mom the money but he flatly refused.
Now, to the final red billboard flag that made her run away and never look back. The guy’s younger sister who was in boarding school came to spend the holidays with him.
Seeing how rough her hair looked, the lady decided to take the girl to the salon to braid her hair. Note that she didn't ask the guy for money oh. She used her own money to pay for the hair.
Immediately they got back home, the guy started shouting. He said the hair looked too expensive and was a total waste of money.
According to the lady, that was when she realized that she was about to walk into big trouble. She promptly ended the relationship and ran for her life😂
The truth is that some ladies would have walked into the marriage with their eyes wide open, ignoring all the red flags. Once they're in, that's when they would realize their mistakes but by then, it might be too late to undo the damage.
from Temitope
