23/06/2026
You brand men as cheaters so easily, but you forget one thing: men do not cheat with fellow men—they cheat with women.
If you watched the POLYGAMIST series carefully, you'll realise that among Jonasi's women, only Joyce was somewhat innocent.
All the others willingly came to him even though they knew he already had a wife.
Sarah's mother, according to the flashbacks, used to hide Jonasi while other girls were looking for him. In fact, she once hid him with another girl when yet another girl came searching for him. Despite knowing his character, she still chose to be in a relationship with him and even paid his school fees. She even hid her own daughter so she could continue enjoying her secret relationship with a married man.
Matipa joined the company with one mission—to win Jonasi. Ironically, she later became angry when he refused to divorce his wife.
Lindani also seduced Jonasi because she wanted a taste of the lifestyle her friend was enjoying—the money and the good life that came from being involved with him.
If you watch the story carefully, you'll notice that many of the women knowingly pursued a man who was already committed.
So before placing all the blame on men, perhaps the conversation should acknowledge that infidelity often involves choices made by both parties.