12/05/2025
Women can tell between a man who has true confidence and one who has a fake one.
When a man has fake or false confidence, he leads with external things. He puts forward his type of job, how much money he makes, the places he's been to, and even the number of women he's been with.
More subtly, he may also hint at how many women want him and how special you should feel that you have a chance with him.
A materialistic woman may buy into this egotistical showmanship, but a mature woman is repelled immediately.
This man likes pomp and vain displays of might.
He will splash disproportionate gifts to people he hardly knows just to make himself look rich and generous.
He will go into debt, living beyond his means.
If you marry this type of man, he will be rigid with his career. If he loses his job, he will refuse to be adaptable and insist on finding another one like it so he doesn't appear to have dropped in status.
He will continue to fake his lifestyle even after financial downturns like the collapse of business.
He will waste his substance looking for public approval even if, privately, he's a failure because he can't be real and honest.
To this man, image matters more than truth.
By and by, he sets himself up by accumulating fame that piles pressure on him to live up to that hype.
He detaches from reality and violates the natural growth curve. Natural growth is usually steady and nonlinear.
That is, people who grow in earnest come up gradually rather than suddenly and may have occasional slumps and setbacks which they learn from and improve.
Because he refuses this trajectory, he bloats rather than grows, and one failure will expose him, and he'll crush without remedy.
Why do serious women avoid men of this kind? Because she knows that a little flattery from some money-minded woman will get him to give away everything.
Because she knows that even his friends' group will be full of eaters who just give him fake praise to get his substance.
