29/09/2024
Women, the only thing that can free you from the feeling of control, inadequacy, and overdependence on a man is having your own money.
I don't mean you compete with anyone, but there is that independence in decision-making that comes with having some money to spend the way you wish in your pocket. Engage in productive activities to generate income.
Staying at home and waiting for your husband to bring you everything should not be forever. When the babies are too young, it's understandable. However, you should focus on getting back on your feet and do something to free yourself from overreliance. I wish men knew how it feels for a woman to depend on them all the time.
It feels like slavery. It's so boring; it feels bad. The society has trained women that men must give them money. This makes women end up in wrong marriages simply because the focus is 'get a man to take care of my needs'. Getting married for the wrong reasons.
I wish men could express themselves here and tell us how they feel. A man knows it's his responsibility to take care of a woman and the kids; however, I believe he would feel so confident that the wife is capable of looking for her own money. Since we only hope for tomorrow, if anything happens to the man, the woman would not be left stranded; life would continue.
Nowadays, life is a lot easier; you can stay at home and still do business. You can leverage the digital media to do exactly what you are capable of doing, e.g., learn a skill, become a writer, social media marketer, digital marketer, or you could sell products online. It's not like a few years ago, where you were required to open up a physical shop or hawk things around in order to get them to the customers.
This is exactly why I'm going to hook you up with the cable box below. It's a 3-in-1 cable box that you can charge your phones, including iPhones, whether type C or micro, from your normal charger with a USB outlet. It's fast charging. To get it, just inbox me. Promote my hustle.
Mumbi