The Mumos - Isaac and Rachael

16/07/2025

My Husband’s Teachings 🥰

One day I was having a conversation with my husband. I honestly can’t even remember what the topic was, but I wasn’t in agreement with him. I didn’t shout, I didn’t talk harshly, but the truth is I responded in a way I shouldn’t have. It was fleshly. My tone was off. My face had changed. I didn’t even realize it, but I was clearly operating from emotion.

My husband is one of the most spiritually sensitive and discerning men I know. He just looked at me for a second. Then he stood up slowly, looked me straight in the eye and said, “Get behind me, Satan.”
I frowned. My first thought was this man just called me the father of all evil. 😅
But then, he immediately said, “It’s not you honey.”
He came and sat down next to me, gently patted my head, and smiled.

I didn’t smile back. Not immediately.
In my head I’m like, You’re smiling after calling me Satan?
But then my spirit caught up.

I remembered when Jesus said those same words to Peter.
Peter meant well. He was just concerned. He didn’t want Jesus to suffer or die.
But Jesus wasn’t rebuking Peter. He was addressing the spirit behind what Peter had said.
A spirit that wanted to interfere with God’s will.

Right there, I understood what had just happened.

My husband wasn’t attacking me.
He was protecting the moment.
He was discerning the spirit trying to trigger something in our home.
He chose to rebuke the enemy instead of argue with his wife.

He looked at me with so much calm and said,
“Honey, do you understand why I said that?”
I said, “Yes. Thank you for rebuking me. I’m sorry.”
He smiled and said, “If I had answered back harshly, we would have ended up in a very big argument. But I knew it was a setup. I knew it was a target. But he’s defeated. In Jesus name.”

Till today, I’ve never forgotten that morning.

So many couples destroy each other in moments like that.
They don’t realize they’re not really mad at each other.
They’re under attack.
And the devil just stands aside watching, laughing,
because he knows you think it’s your spouse when it’s actually him.

That day I learned something that has changed me.
Discernment will save your marriage.

Not every disagreement is just about what’s being said.
Sometimes there’s another voice behind it.
Not every emotional moment is just stress.
Sometimes something is trying to rob your peace and open a door.

Since that day, I’ve learned to pause.
To ask myself,
Is it my emotions talking?
Is this the Holy Spirit or my flesh?
What will this conversation produce?
Will I feel better after or regret it?

It doesn’t mean I don’t feel emotional anymore.
I still do. I’m human.
But I have learned to listen to the Voice that calms me, not the one that provokes me.

And I thank God for a husband who doesn’t just love me…
he teaches me.
Gently. Firmly. Spiritually.

And every time I look back, I realize I married a mirror that shows me where I need to grow.

15/07/2025

❤️❤️❤️

A Husband Who Teaches Is a Husband Who Builds..
Allow me to get peroxide today…
I don’t know how many times I’ve paused in the middle of my day just to sit and listen to my husband say,
“Honey, I’ve been thinking about this verse, I haven’t slept well meditating on it…”

And I already know what’s coming next is a flood of revelation that will leave me quietly stunned, nodding, sometimes even convicted, and always hungry for more.

It’s not just that he talks. It’s how he talks.
He paces around the room hands interlocked on his back with his head bowed, sometimes he moves his hands trying to explain even with sign language, I am his audience, he strats preaching to me, not to impress me but sharing from a place of deep reflection.

By the time he’s done, I usually have a new perspective, a new insight, and another page filled in the notebook I secretly call “my husband’s teachings.”

He doesn’t even realize how much I draw from him. How I fall inlove with him and respect him even more and how sometimes I get distracted for admiring him amidst the sermons.

And I don’t keep good things to myself. So maybe it’s time I start sharing some of them with you.

Because this is something I’ve learned in marriage..
A man who teaches his wife is not just educating her. He is building her soul. He is covering her mind. He is watering the garden of her purpose.

Many things I walk in now, from how I think, how I pray, how I lead, how I build business and balance life..
have been shaped not only by my own pursuit of wisdom, but by the consistency of the spring I drink from daily.
And that spring flows from my own home.

He is still human though. He still eats my leftovers from the fridge.
He laughs at my clumsy moments like it’s a stand up show.
He annoys me sometimes like it’s his calling.
But even in those things, I’ve learned to laugh more, breathe more, and love him deeply.

My point is, I’ve learned from my own marriage living with a man of God that..

Men, you don’t need a microphone to lead. Your living room is a pulpit. Your words are curriculum. Your presence is a covering.

You teach not just with scriptures but with your silence, your responses, your habits, your focus, your discipline, your hunger for God… your life.

To the man reading this, if you’re still wondering how to love your wife better, start by teaching her with your life.

To the wife reading this, if your husband is pouring into you, honor it. Write it down. Water it. Share it.

And to my husband, my king..
Thank you.
For being my safe place and my spring.
For mentoring me without trying to.
For making me think deeper.
For building me silently, steadily, daily and for teaching not just with words but in how you live. I honor you.

I’m a better person and still growing not just because I work hard but because I live with a man whose wisdom provokes growth in me.

I appreciate you and I honor you.

14/07/2025

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PART 3 - What To Do When Your Husband Impregnates Another Woman.

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06/07/2025

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