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It was a bright sunny Tuesday afternoon, and there I was, sitting for my KCPE Kiswahili paper. Time was ticking, literal...
11/06/2024

It was a bright sunny Tuesday afternoon, and there I was, sitting for my KCPE Kiswahili paper. Time was ticking, literally, because I was sitting at the front row, with the classroom clock directly in front of me, emphasising the passing of every second with its ticking and tocking. That said, I was in no rush to scribble answers because this was Kiswahili, hands down my least favourite subject. I was blissfully shooting blanks (no pun intended), you could say.

The room was dead silent, the only sound heard being the relentless scribbling by the bookworms. This was it. The paper could essentially make or break me should I have failed to attain the necessary grade, and from the look of things, I was tanking. Then, from the back of the classroom, commotion broke out.

There were noises of desks being shoved aside and around, teachers rushing in. One teacher, as if knowingly, rushed with a bucket of water. Another brought a mug of water. A female student, pale as death itself, slumped over her desk. I couldn’t decipher whatever was happening, until I was brought back to my senses when I felt something completely strange was happening to me.

Initially, I thought my bladder had given in at my tender age of 13 and that I had wet my pants. I couldn’t stomach the thought, just as I couldn't lose my cool. That afternoon, the role of damsel in distress was unfortunately already taken by my classmate, she-that-was-slumped-over-her-desk. I later learnt that the cause of the earlier pandemonium originating from the back of the classroom was she-that-was-slumped-over-her-desk’s menstruation, hers more public and severe than mine, making her my comrade in menstruation.

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Let's be honest, we all secretly have Pinterest-worthy style potential. However, from time to time our bank balances bet...
20/09/2022

Let's be honest, we all secretly have Pinterest-worthy style potential. However, from time to time our bank balances betray us.

Ideally, looking stylish isn't supposed to be expensive. I am a firm believer in working with what is within my reach and in my closet to express myself and create multiple stylish combinations. This is, however, achievable if you have a capsule wardrobe, or at the very least a semi-capsule wardrobe.

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16/09/2022

The Late Mary Kerubo Okari was a woman with a big heart and an even bigger mission to empower those around her.

Keillah Okari sits with us to reminisce on a picture taken on a Christmas morning that embodies who her grandmother was: a mother, a matriarch, and a family woman.

Watch her full story.

16/09/2022

In a moment in time with Keillah Okari, some tears are shed as she reminisces on the life of one of one of her biggest role models. Watch the full story at 3pm today!

There's an information gap in our society that isn't open about women’s health. Thus, women turn to the internet, that's...
12/09/2022

There's an information gap in our society that isn't open about women’s health. Thus, women turn to the internet, that's rife with misinformation, for answers to questions about their own bodies.
Soila Kenya sets the facts straight on keeping your vaginal health in check.

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This article was produced by the Africa Women Journalism Project - AWJP in partnership with Article 19, Meedan and the International Center for Journalists (ICFJ).

 

Justice Martha Koome was born in 1960 in Kithiu village in Meru to a polygamous family with 18 children. She was 8th of ...
31/08/2022

Justice Martha Koome was born in 1960 in Kithiu village in Meru to a polygamous family with 18 children. She was 8th of the nine that belonged to her mother, the first of her fathers two wives.

She joined Mugoiri Girls High School for her secondary education, emerging the best student in her class and earning a position at the University of Nairobi to pursue a Law Degree. Upon graduation, she joined the Kenya School of Law for her post graduate diploma and was admitted to the roll of advocates in 1987.

Koome kick-started her career as a legal associate at Mathenge and Muchemi Advocates.She worked at the firm until 1993 when she set up her law firm, Martha Koome & Company Advocates, which she successfully ran as Managing Partner until 2003.

She was a council member of the Law Society of Kenya (LSK) from 1993 to 1996 and served a two-year term as the inaugural Treasurer in the East Africa Law Society from 1994 to 1996. As a founding member of the Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), she was elected in 2001 as the chairperson of FIDA. In this capacity, she partnered with civil rights organisations to secure women's participation in the constitutional review process. Koome led FIDA in championing the establishment of the family division of the High Court, as well as the enactment of laws to protect the rights of families and children.

In 2003, Koome was appointed as High Court judge by the late President Mwai Kibaki and went on to head the family, environmental and land division of the High Court for eight years. During this time, she also served on the African Union Committee on the Rights and Welfare of Children between 2005 and 2010. Her excellence and hard work was crowned with an appointment to the Court of Appeal in 2012.

In 2021, Justice Koome was honoured as a UN Kenya Person of the Year runner-up for her advocacy to improve the legal rights of women and children in the justice system. She is a certified trainer on human rights by the International Institute for justice in Malta, the Commonwealth Secretariat and the International Women Judges Association.

30/08/2022

"That was the identity I was given." Swiry, in a candid conversation with Julia, shares how people assumed who she was because of her choice to become a waitress.

What stereotype have you ever been given that didn't match who you are?

26/08/2022

Sweerie tells us how she struggled to navigate campus and the culture shock that came with her new environment.
Did you experience culture shock as a 1st year campus student? Tell us about it in the comment section.

25/08/2022

Julia shares the beginning of her parents' love in a picture of her father and mother on a road trip. Watch the full video to see how an awkward exchange of clothes, as told by her mother, was the beginning of a 30+ year marriage.

25/08/2022

'My mum didn't own any jeans or trousers'

Julia expresses how pivotal her mother has been in her life.

Watch to see how an awkward exchange of clothes, as told by her mother, was the beginning of a 30+ year marriage.

In today’s world, enlightenment is supposed to be our portion, and yet stereotypes about the men and women in leadership...
24/08/2022

In today’s world, enlightenment is supposed to be our portion, and yet stereotypes about the men and women in leadership still linger; at work, in politics, worse even in religious circles.

And so we build a language that reflects our biases, deploying English and Kiswahili to mimic our reality. Women-affiliated words such as ‘umama’ have always had a derogatory connotation, with this particular word often used to chide men who espouse perceived feminine tendencies.

On the other hand, language positivists have championed the use of words such as chairperson, police officer and so on in a bid to neutralize the temptation of looking at humans and their roles in society solely through gender prism.

For me, leadership is embedded in one’s character and not gender. For as long as we attribute leadership to masculinity, women leaders will continue to receive the shorter end of the stick.

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13/08/2022

Determined to make change happen!

Beth* is among the Kenyan women who stood in line early morning ready to vote, this .

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