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Ministry is not a journey meant to be walked alone. God places people around us for fellowship, encouragement, accountability, support, growth, and Kingdom partnership.
However, wisdom is necessary when choosing relationships, building friendships, maintaining healthy boundaries, and resolving offenses.
๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ด ๐ช๐๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐๐ข๐ฅ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฆ:
๐ญ. ๐ฑ ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ช ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก
You may not be the first among your colleagues to gain influence, but it is important to be connected to what God is doing in your generation.
๐๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ข๐ก๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ !
Be part of what God is doing in your generation. Do not isolate yourself while others are growing, connecting, and advancing in their assignments.
๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ช ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก.
๐ฎ. ๐ค ๐ง๐๐๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก
Until you settle this in your heart, you may relate with fellow ministers from a place of insecurity and comparison.
There is room for everyone who is genuinely called.
๐ง๐๐๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก โ ๐ง๐๐๐ฌ ๐๐๐ก ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐๐ก๐ง๐ฆ.
Competition can make you appear insecure, unnecessarily proud, or overly focused on comparison instead of your calling.
๐๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ ๐ช๐๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐๐ข๐๐ก๐ ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ข๐จ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง๐๐๐ฅ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฆ.
๐ฏ. ๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐๐ฉ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐๐๐จ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ข๐จ๐๐ ๐๐๐ฉ๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ข ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐
Being on the same flyer, living in the same city, attending the same meetings, or being connected on social media does not mean someone should have full access to your personal life.
Some relationships may require greater discernment and healthy distance.
๐ง๐๐๐ง ๐๐ฆ ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐๐๐. ๐๐ง ๐๐ฆ ๐ช๐๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ .
Be respectful and warm with everyone, but be intentional about who you allow into your inner circle.
๐ฐ. โณ ๐๐๐ง ๐ง๐๐ ๐ & ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐ง๐๐ฆ๐ง ๐๐๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก๐ฆ๐๐๐ฃ๐ฆ
Do not be in a hurry to consider someone your closest friend simply because you have connected quickly.
Do not become overly excited about bringing someone new into your inner circle before you have had enough time to know them.
๐๐๐ง ๐ง๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฉ๐ ๐ง๐๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ข๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ ๐ง๐ฅ๐จ๐ฆ๐ง.
Character reveals what excitement can sometimes hide.
๐ฑ. ๐
๐๐ก๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐ง ๐๐ก ๐๐๐ก๐จ๐๐ก๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ฃ๐ฆ
Invite and spend time with colleagues with whom you have built genuine relationships.
Do not always look for people you have little relationship or access to while neglecting those who are already walking alongside you.
๐ฌ๐ข๐จ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ช ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฆ ๐๐ก ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ช๐๐ข ๐จ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ, ๐๐ข๐ฉ๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ, ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ, ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ก ๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ก๐ ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ.
๐ฒ. โค๏ธ ๐๐ข๐ก๐ง๐ฅ๐๐๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ง๐ข ๐ง๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก๐ฆ๐๐๐ฃ
Every meaningful relationship thrives on mutual contribution.
Give your prayer, support, encouragement, presence, wisdom, and time to the relationship.
๐๐ข ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ง ๐๐ ๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ฅ๐ง๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ก๐ง ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐๐๐ง๐๐ง๐ข๐ฅ.
Support colleagues who are close to you and also those from afar who are genuine.
๐๐ข๐ข๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก๐ฆ๐๐๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐๐ค๐จ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐จ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ก๐ง๐ฅ๐๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐ก.
๐ณ. ๐ก๏ธ ๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ง๐๐๐ก ๐๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐จ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ฆ
You can maintain healthy boundaries without becoming cold, arrogant, or inaccessible.
๐๐ ๐ช๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐๐๐จ๐๐ฆ.
๐๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ช.
๐๐จ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ก๐ก๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐ช๐๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ .
Stay connected to the Body of Christ while understanding that not everyone needs the same level of access to your life.
๐ด. ๐๏ธ ๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ข๐๐๐๐ก๐ฆ๐๐ฆ
In ministry relationships, misunderstandings and offenses can happen.
There may be moments when a colleague says something that wounds you, or situations where you feel overlooked, disrespected, misunderstood, or unfairly treated.
๐๐ข ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐ง ๐ข๐๐๐๐ก๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ช ๐๐ก๐ง๐ข ๐๐๐ง๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ฆ.
Go to the person and speak directly, respectfully, and honestly. Many ministry offenses can be addressed through sincere communication before they develop into major conflicts.
๐ง๐๐๐. ๐๐๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ก. ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ๐. ๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ง๐ข๐ฅ๐. ๐ ๐ข๐ฉ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ช๐๐ฅ๐.
๐ฅ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ ๐ช๐ข๐ฅ๐
๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐๐ฆ ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก.
๐๐ง ๐๐ฆ ๐ ๐๐๐ก๐๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ก๐ง.
Celebrate your colleagues. Pray for them. Support them. Learn from them. Maintain wise boundaries. And when offenses arise, pursue reconciliation with humility.
๐ช๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐๐๐จ๐๐ฆ, ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐๐๐ฆ.
๐ช๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ช๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐๐ก ๐ง๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ก๐๐๐ข๐ .
๐ โTwo are better than one, because they have a good return for their labour.โ โ Ecclesiastes 4:9
๐ โHow good and pleasant it is when Godโs people live together in unity!โ โ Psalm 133:1
๐ข ๐ฆ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ข๐ฆ๐ง ๐ง๐ข ๐๐ก๐๐ข๐จ๐ฅ๐๐๐ & ๐๐ค๐จ๐๐ฃ ๐ ๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ ๐๐ข๐.
๐ ๐ฆ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ & ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐๐ง
Originally written by Apostle Godwin Aseghiemhe.
Shared with appreciation and full credit to the original author.
๐ ๐๐ข๐ฅ ๐ ๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฆ
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