19/09/2025
Lost my job in May and took a leap into freelancing as a freelance writer, juggling a one-year-old, endless chores, and the wild world of gigs.
Five months in, and it's been anything but the "easy money" myth. No overnight riches, but I've unearthed some hard-won gems on extending grace to yourself, relentless hustle, and carving out real balance, especially as AI flips the script on writing in Kenya.
Here are my top raw lessons so far:
-Freelancing ain't easy: Zero earnings in months 1-2, three months to snag my first Upwork client. Mom life didn't help, but showing up consistently? That's the quiet builder of momentum.
- It's not total freedom: Wake up in PJs? Sure, on slow days. But treat it like a full-time gig, deadlines demand focus, and a distraction-free workspace turns chaos into quality reviews that land the next opportunity.
-Consistency is queen: Revived my LinkedIn game with weekly posts, followers exploded, then dipped when I lagged. Algorithms forget fast; commit and show up to stay seen.
-Sell yourself unapologetically: From job boards like Upwork and Fiverr to cold pitches and friend chats, putting "Freelance writer available!" out there? It's vulnerable, but the universe delivers.
-Wellbeing first: You're the whole team, CEO to IT. Burnout hits hard without sick days, so I've locked in morning meditation/yoga and eye physical books over endless screens. Home workouts next?
Freelancing's a marathon, not a sprint, gentle with yourself, fierce in the grind.
Freelancers, how are you navigating the AI wave while parenting/hustling?
What's your biggest lesson?