For Young Men

For Young Men I give red-pill-truths about women. I DON'T promote MISOGYNY. We seek to understand female nature. Men issues. Grooming boys into Young Men

31/08/2025

Find yourself a woman who is nobody's baby Mama for your own mental peace.

31/08/2025

Listen to me,

People are selfish. When it comes to survival and progress, everyone will choose themselves first. Love doesn’t erase that truth.

That girl you’re killing yourself for can leave you tomorrow if she sees her future is brighter elsewhere. Your sacrifices won’t hold her.

Never put your dreams, business, or family on hold to please a girlfriend. The only woman you owe that level of commitment is your wife; because she becomes your responsibility before God and man.

My rule is simple: do little while dating so long it is reciprocated; but withhold nothing in marriage. Even then, choose wisely who you marry.

Value yourself first, son. That’s how you win.

31/08/2025

There are some step father's who are now struggling with school fees while the baby daddies are at local joints ordering nyama -choma and alcohol

30/08/2025

Anger issues is a red flag you don't want to ignore in a woman you want to marry.

This is why cohabitation is necessary. You never fully know someone until you've lived with them.

That's why you need to look out for certains patterns in her behaviour:

• Does she starve you whenever she's angry?

• Does she insult you or try to belittle you in any way?

• Does she break things whenever she's angry?

• Does she hit you whenever she's angry?

• Does her anger vanish few minutes it comes on or you have to wait till the next 24-48 hours or more?

• Does she pick on your fears/weaknesses whenever she's angry?

• Can you tease her whenever she's angry?

(Note: There’s a difference between a woman who is mad at you but still calm & respectful in her actions towards you AND a woman who loses all forms of respect for you whenever she's irate.)

These are questions you need answers to before giving her your life. And sometimes to get answers, you need to intentionally stretch her to breaking point.

A proper vetting technique.

Remember, "Anger is the wine that reveals a person's true character".

30/08/2025

Men
A woman who truly wants you will move mountains to see you. She will dodge rain, borrow from friends, and still show up with a smile.

But when she starts negotiating her presence like it’s a business deal, understand this: you are not her priority.....you are her sponsor in training.

Men, listen
If she can’t put in the effort to show up, why would you expect her to invest loyalty, respect, or submission later on?

The same woman asking for “transport money” today will ask for bigger favors tomorrow. That’s not love, that’s dependency.

And don’t fool yourself thinking, “It’s just a small thing.” No. It’s a test.
She’s measuring your desperation. The moment you send that money, you’ve revealed your weakness. You’ve shown you’re willing to pay just to keep her around. That’s not masculine frame, that’s begging dressed up as generosity.

Here, we don’t tolerate such foolishness. A woman who truly desires you will make it happen, no complaints, no excuses, no demands.

If she asks for fare, cancel her like a bad subscription. Because the man who pays for access is the man she will never respect.

30/08/2025

A desperate guy will always:

- Double text a woman.
- Use money to buy affection.
- Apologize when he’s not wrong.
- Beg a woman to stay in his life.
- Condone disrespect coming from the woman he’s with.
- Displease himself to please a woman.
- Be a YES MAN.

Do not be this guy.

30/08/2025

Men are architects. Women are buildings.

If the architect is disciplined, the building stands tall.

If the architect is sloppy, the building crumbles.

Don’t blame the building when the blueprint is trash.

Ladies jameni tulisema hii mambo ya kuitisha pesa urgently iishe kabisa, sasa ona huyu vile alikulishwa L moja safi🤣🤣
30/08/2025

Ladies jameni tulisema hii mambo ya kuitisha pesa urgently iishe kabisa, sasa ona huyu vile alikulishwa L moja safi🤣🤣

Gents have you dated older women? how was it ?Ladies would you date someone younger?Post it anonymously https://ngl.link...
29/08/2025

Gents have you dated older women? how was it ?

Ladies would you date someone younger?

Post it anonymously

https://ngl.link/foryoungmen

Let's hear it....

28/08/2025

Once a woman starts sleeping with a new man

She forgets everything you did for her

The game is brutal.
Still fair.

28/08/2025

If she asks you to buy a drink say,

"You buy the 1st one and if the conversation is good, I'll buy the next 2."

Sniff out the users.

28/08/2025

If she is willing to go on a first date with you, she already signed of on you.

•She did her research.

•Probably knows more abt you than you do herself.

•Her friends have already seen you.

•She has already made a subconscious agreement that she would f**k you.

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