02/12/2025
As we enjoy the holiday season, many of our children are staying with grandparents, relatives or neighbors while we handle errands, travel or work. It’s natural to trust those closest to us, the uncle, cousin, grandfather, or family friend but here’s the harsh reality. Sometimes the people we trust most are the ones who can harm our children.
Both boys and girls are at risk. Abuse doesn’t always come from strangers, it often comes from familiar faces, hiding behind smiles, gifts and attention. The closer someone is to your child, the more cautious you need to be.
During the holidays, it’s easy to let our guard down. We may assume our children are safe because they are with loved ones, but vigilance is crucial. Pay attention to who they spend time with, observe any unusual behavior and maintain open conversations. Encourage your children to speak freely about their day and feelings without fear.
Teaching your children about personal boundaries is essential. They need to understand that their body belongs to them and that no one should touch them in ways that make them uncomfortable. Awareness and communication are key tools in protecting them from harm.
Protecting your child is not paranoia, it’s responsibility. As parents, we must stay alert, especially during times when our children are with people we trust. Our children’s safety starts with us and even those closest to them should be monitored carefully.
