16/07/2025
AVOID S*X WHEN CHASING SOMETHING BIG IN YOUR LIFE
In the pursuit of greatness—whether in spiritual, intellectual, or professional domains—many often consider strategies such as goal setting, time management, and mentorship. However, rarely does the conversation include one of the most powerful, yet sensitive, areas of human life: S*XUAL DISCIPLINE AND SACRED INTIMACY.
This article seeks to reflect deeply on the role of s*x in human flourishing, particularly within the context of spiritual growth, marital fidelity, and personal purpose.
The reflections are largely inspired by the insights of Pope Saint John Paul II’s THEOLOGY OF THE BODY, which profoundly explores the meaning of the human body and s*xuality in light of divine truth.
1. S*X WITHIN MARRIAGE IS A DIVINE GIFT
S*x, when expressed within the covenant of marriage, is not merely a biological activity. It is a sacred union—a reflection of divine love. The Church affirms that marital intimacy is both unitive and procreative: it binds spouses together and is open to the gift of life.
In this context, s*x becomes:
A tranquilizer, easing emotional and mental burdens.
A pain reliever, both physically and psychologically.
A source of emotional stability and mood enhancement.
A means of renewing marital commitment and fostering deep trust.
Many have attested that engaging in holy intimacy before significant life moments—such as launching a business, starting a new job, or transitioning into a new season—brings peace, confidence, and a profound sense of blessing. It becomes not just an act of love but a form of spiritual preparation and grace.
2. THE POWER OF S*XUAL DISCIPLINE IN SEASONS OF PURSUIT
While marital s*x is a divine gift, there are seasons—especially those marked by vision, transition, or intense spiritual focus—where s*xual discipline becomes essential. Abstaining from s*x, especially for unmarried individuals or couples in prayerful discernment, allows for the redirection of s*xual energy
