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WHAT IS A LUNAR ECLIPSE?A lunar eclipse happens when the Earth passes between the Sun and the Moon, blocking sunlight fr...
08/09/2025

WHAT IS A LUNAR ECLIPSE?

A lunar eclipse happens when the Earth passes between the Sun and the Moon, blocking sunlight from directly reaching the Moon. Instead, Earth’s shadow falls on the Moon.

TYPES OF LUNAR ECLIPSES

1. Penumbral Eclipse – Moon passes through Earth’s faint outer shadow (looks only slightly dimmed).

2. Partial Eclipse – A part of the Moon is covered by Earth’s dark shadow.

HOW DOES IT HAPPEN?

1. The Moon must be in its full moon phase. The full moon phase means that the entire face of the Moon that we see from Earth is fully lit by the Sun.

2. The Sun, Earth, and Moon must line up almost perfectly in a straight line.

3. Because the Moon’s orbit is slightly tilted (~5°), this alignment doesn’t occur every month. It only happens when the Moon is near one of its orbital crossing points (called nodes).

HOW LONG DOES IT LAST?

A total lunar eclipse (when the Moon is completely in Earth’s shadow) can last up to about 1 hour and 40 minutes.

The whole event (including partial and penumbral phases) can last 3 to 6 hours.

3. Total Eclipse – The entire Moon is in Earth’s shadow and often turns reddish (a “blood moon”).

REMINDER: A lunar eclipse doesn’t happen after a fixed number of years—it depends on the alignment of the Sun, Earth, and Moon.

On average, 2 to 5 lunar eclipses happen every year somewhere on Earth.

A total lunar eclipse (the “blood moon”) happens roughly every 2.5 years at minimum.

For any given location on Earth, you may only see a total lunar eclipse once every few years, because visibility depends on where you are☝🏽🙇🏽

YOUNG PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHEN TO MARRY:One challenge that young people face that keep them waiting so long before getting...
08/09/2025

YOUNG PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHEN TO MARRY:

One challenge that young people face that keep them waiting so long before getting married is economy. The boy wants to make ends meet, while the girl may be waiting for already made suitor.

In some cases girls reject men because they are not wealthy (who owns, may be a car, a house, fat bank account, lives in the city, from a wealthy family). And maybe, handsome at the same time.

Some may be privileged to fall into the hands of such already made men, but in most cases it is rare to come by.

It would be better for a girl to marry a man of her choice with moderate, and in spite of his economic challenge. Such a person could be helped, depending on the foundation of the girl.

A girl with good economic foundation can Marry and help her spouse to grow, that is if he has the foundation for growth. Both can grow together, mildly suffer and enjoy together.

If a man has a good economic foundation (good education, good handwork/skill, good trade etc), he is potentially rich. He has a good future. All he needs is someone to help him harness and organize the available resources around him.

In some cases girls who married "already made" become slaves in their husbands' homes. Some unfortunate ones later discover they are only secondary in the heart of their husbands (especially unbelievers) as the men already have someone distant that has occupied their hearts.

Some enslaved men only married to raise children while having someone that has eaten up their hearts and youthfulness. After a woman has snapped your youthful exuberance, your strength, when emptied, one now looks for an innocent girl to lay blames on.

I know a man who was used by a woman to the extent that it was the woman that now introduced him to a girl of her choice whom he married. This woman controlled this man and his relationship with the so called wife for a long long time till she became tired. The so called wife suffered so much in the hands of the hand picked husband.

I also know of a lady who got married to a rich man that is hardly at home. He has different excuses for not being available. When the wife confronted him, the only response he could give was, "you have food to eat, you have money to spend, you have gadgets around you, why not enjoy yourself with all that."

If you were to be in her shoes what would you do? When people marry late, maybe from 35 and above for the female, and from 40 for the male, let's assume there comes a biological/infertility challenge that demands medical attention, and no one knows how long it will take to correct, won't one be in a dilemma if it lingers?

This challenge may delay conception while age is no more on one's side. Considering the time, and as the case may be, the years to be spent in seeking medical remedy, and age of the woman, one needs to be wise in this area.

Another to this is the fact that men do not accept that delay in conception could be their fault, until proven otherwise. A couple may not have children at all, or may not get the number of children desired before menopause catches up on the woman and body weakness catches up on the man.

It happened to me. I was 32 when we got married. It took us about 5 years to get our first child due to medical challenges. 32 plus 5 gives you 37 years before your first child. If I were to be 40, add 5, that would be 45 before my first child.

What would have been our fate if we were disadvantaged by age. Reason well and plan accordingly. Someone would say, "Gods time is the best". God's time will not negate the effect of age; God's time and will will not negate the effect of times and seasons; and God's time for anyone as may be assumed will not negate the law of nature. See Hosea 4:6.

"My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also will reject you from being priest for Me; Because you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children."

If I were to be a civil servant at 45, how many years is left before retirement. You see why some people retire from civil service without settling their first child. Some retire while their first child is still in secondary school.

That is why the Word of God says, "It is good for a man that he bears the yoke of his youth." Lam. 3:27. And, Psalms 90:12, "So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom."

If all things be equal, and one had started at the right time to fight for life economic stability, by the age of 30, or at most 32, one should be able to settle down with a wife.

But to girls, no girl should pray to exceed the age of 28 unmarried. It has implications for the female body, check it out. Every woman should be able to manage her optimal reproductive period very well.

Remember, every woman has 3 to 4 seasons with regards to marriage. Everything created by God has its season and time. No one should be ignorant of these marriage seasons and times. The number one season is "CHOICE SEASON."

No matter your age, stature and structure, beauty and achievement, marry within your choice season. This season is the best time to to make a choice in the life of anyone, especially ladies.

If you miss your choice season, the next seasons might not favor you as you might depend on recommendation, and what is available may not be desirable, and what is desirable may not be available.

Reason is that at this stage in life one is fully mature and ripped and every hidden beauty and structure (mentally and physically) blossoms for the girls.

For the man, everything about him testifies he should be responsible. At this time, the girl becomes so comely/attractive for a rush.

One special thing about this season is that suitors will be at the disposal of a girl to accept or reject, and they may come in chains. Girls are "hot cakes" at this time.
Some may tend to wonder if they are the only girls in town.

By this period everything about you is in top form and top shape with breath taking attraction. Also some defects are hidden, health challenges minimal.

But as years go bye, shape begin to change, defects begin to show and you are beginning to grow out of choice into another season.

A wise and guided person should be able to make her best right choice. This period lasts for about 10 to 12 years, between 18 and 30 years of age. Though it also depends on one's pace at maturation - whether early or late bloomers.

Some people's choice season are longer or shorter than others. This choice span depends on body structure/physiological makeup and packaging.

A lady has the chances of getting married to a young suitor of her taste in her best season.

If by 35 a young man has nothing to show, marriage could create an open door, especially if one makes the right choice. The Bible tells us in Proverbs. 18:22. "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD."

Again is the fact that youthfulness is for a season as in Lamentations 3:27. "It is good for a man to bear the yoke while he is young." Some do not understand the concept and principles of season in life.

Once there is health and life, there will always be the opportunity to make adjustments in life, but you can't adjust age.

Don't exceed your youthfulness, maximize it for the good of the unborn ones. Every normal person has only 10 years ahead of him or her (after the age of 16) to succeed or fail in life.

By 16, if all thing be equal, one ought to have finished secondary school. If so be it, the by the next 4 to 6 years, one must have graduated from the University, depending on the course of study. That would be 22 years.

If one did not go to the University, one may have learn a trade. If by 22 one is a graduate, or has finished learning a trade, 4 to 5 years is enough for one to have been established in life to settle down, and that would be 27. If one decides to add 3 to make it 30, it's still okay.

What will one be doing in these period after secondary education that one is not able to find his or her feet on the ground. Some young men are not ready for marriage, but they are spending on women and sowing their wild oats, wasting their strength on women.

The same with young women. They are not ready to marry, but they enjoy sleeping with men and receiving gifts from them. Some destroy their wombs through abortion.

"Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.." 1 Cor. 7:8,9.

If we plan well we will live well. But if we fail to plan well, we plan to fail willfully and woefully.

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1. STĪNGY:- Is when someone asks you for salt and you said your mom counted it 😂😂😂😂2. CØNFÚSION:- Is when you stêál meat...
08/09/2025

1. STĪNGY:- Is when someone asks you for salt and you said your mom counted it 😂😂😂😂

2. CØNFÚSION:- Is when you stêál meat from your mother's pot and you fôrget whether the spoon was placed upwards or downwards 😂😂😂

3. SHØCK:- Is when you touch your pocket and you didn't feēl your phone🙄😂😂

4. CĀÚSE TRØÚBLE:- Is when you enter a restaurant and you discover that all the guys there are with their ladies and you decide to make a fåke call will your China phone:
"Hello, my man, I saw your wife with a man in a restaurant, come quick quick" after that, you turn your back only to discover that all the ladies has dīsappëared😂🏃😂😂

5. WAHALA:- Is after you have been púnïshed by a soldïer and you clímbed ur bike and shøut "Thúndēr firë you" and then, your bike refúsēs to start🙄😂😂😂

6. KASALA DON BÜRST:- Is when you take your girlfriēnd to a bâr and order for Andre( wine), as a village girl, she says; "prease make it spiçy" 🙄😳😂

7. WÍTCHÇRAFT:- Is after standing for one hour in a queue under the sun just to withdraw môney, and when it's finally your turn, you notice you were with ur Voter's Card not ur ATM😂😂😂

8. HÉART ATTÅÇK:- Is when your girlfriēnd is prëgnānt and your wife is prëgnānt 😫😂

9. Wīçkedness ÷ is wen u fínïsh reading this post and don't reåçt and shâre: 😂😂😂😂

Today Night, the Moon Turns Red 🌙 1. Don’t miss the TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE on September 7-8, 2025!2. The Moon will glow a s...
07/09/2025

Today Night, the Moon Turns Red 🌙

1. Don’t miss the TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE on September 7-8, 2025!

2. The Moon will glow a stunning red as it passes through Earth’s shadow—a cosmic show you won’t forget

3. No telescope needed—lunar eclipses are safe to view with the naked eye!

4. The eclipse is fully visible in East Africa, Asia, and Australia

5. Partial visibility in Europe and West Africa at moonrise, and New Zealand at moonset.

6. The Americas miss out entirely as it occurs during daytime

7. In the East Africa, partial eclipse starts 7:26 p.m., and the Total Eclipse will be between 8:30–9:53 p.m., and then Partial Eclipse ends 11:55 p.m.

8. In Southern Africa Region, Partial eclipse starts 6:26 p.m., Totality 7:30–8:53 p.m., Ends 10:55 p.m.

9. In Kenya, the Laikipia Plateau will have one of the best view due to open savanna views and minimal air population

10. A total lunar eclipse occurs when the Moon fully enters Earth’s umbral shadow

11. The turning of red is due to Rayleigh scattering of sunlight through Earth’s atmosphere

Changing Lives For The Betterment Tomorrow

04/09/2025

THREE PEOPLE YOU SHOULD NEVER FORGET IN YOUR LIFE:

1. Those who helped you in difficult times

2. Those who left you in difficult times

3. And those who put you in difficult times

Because each one of them had a role to play in shaping who you must become.

My Brother, Ask Yourself These Five Questions Before You Marry That Lady! First, allow me to inform you that this is a l...
03/09/2025

My Brother, Ask Yourself These Five Questions Before You Marry That Lady!

First, allow me to inform you that this is a long read, but you will surely thank us at the end, especially if you read with an open heart...
My brother, marriage is not a game. It is not something you rush into because of pressure, emotions, or attraction. Many young men like you, are young and inexperienced, you think they know what you want, but most times you are carried away by feelings, beauty, or desire. You confuse strong sexual attraction with true love, and end up making promises or decisions that later bring you pain... If you look around, you will see many of your friends in this circle of pain, regret and "had I known".

That your babe may be beautiful, fun to be with and or charming like today's fresh fruits, but that alone doesn’t guarantee a happy, healthy relationship or marriage. You must ask yourself some honest questions before you commit, because marrying the wrong person can drain you emotionally, financially, and spiritually. And this can also affect both your mental and physical health.

The truth is: "Marriage can build every aspect of your life to the highest possible level and can also take you the deepest part of hell! Yes, marriage is that powerful!" Qoute me! That is why you, as my brother, must pause, think, and ask yourself some honest questions before you commit to anyone. The answers to these questions will help you avoid marrying the wrong woman, someone who will only drain you emotionally, financially, and spiritually.
A happy marriage is not built on looks, money, or pressure from friends and family. It is built on genuine love, respect, friendship, and interdependence. These are the things that last when beauty fades and when life gets tough. Here are five powerful questions every man should ask before marriage:

1. Does She Like Me?
Liking is the foundation of friendship. Marriage without friendship is dry and boring. If she doesn’t genuinely like your personality — your jokes, your company, your ways — then the marriage will feel like a duty, not a joy.
Think about it: if you marry someone who doesn’t like you, what will you talk about on a Saturday morning? How will you enjoy sitting together at home, sharing ideas, or just being yourselves? Liking is what keeps friendship alive.
👉 Ask yourself: Do we enjoy each other’s company even without romance? Can we laugh, gist, and share life together as friends, even gossiping 🙈?

2. Does She Want Me?
It’s one thing for her to like you, but it’s another for her to actually want you. A woman may like you as a person but may not desire you as her life partner.
When a woman truly wants a man, it shows. She looks forward to being with him, she is excited about the relationship, and she does not play endless delay games. But if she is giving conditions, dragging her feet for years, or acting like she is waiting for another man, then she doesn’t really want you.
👉 Ask yourself: Is she eager to be with me, or am I the only one forcing the relationship forward? Does she return your call as soon as possible? Simple questions like have you eaten, how was your day?

3. Does She Need Me?
Marriage is about interdependence. Both partners should need each other in some way — emotionally, spiritually, mentally, or otherwise. If she doesn’t need you, you may soon feel useless or unwanted.
But be careful here: needing you should not mean using you. If she only “needs” you for money, lifestyle, or status, then you are nothing but an ATM to her. Such a relationship will not last because once you stop providing what she wants, the love will dry up.
👉 Ask yourself: Does she truly need me as a partner, or does she only need what I can give her? Does she ask your opinion on decisions she wants to make? Does she seek your counsel on matters she can't solve?

4. Does She Love Me?
Love is deeper than attraction or likeness. Real love shows in actions — in care, sacrifice, and commitment. If she loves you, she will want to build with you, not manipulate you.
But if she keeps delaying, making endless demands, or treating your relationship like a business negotiation, that’s not love. If she gossips about you, insults you, or constantly disrespects you, that is hatred, not love.
👉 Ask yourself: Does her love for me show in her actions, or only in words and emojis? Am I the first she calls in joys and danger? Do I feel loved, appreciated and truly involved?

5. Does She Value and Respect Me?
Love without respect will never last. A woman can say “I love you” every day, but if she looks down on you, insults you in private or public, or treats you like a bank account, then you are heading for pain.
Respect means she honors your efforts, appreciates you as a man, and treats you as a partner — not as a tool or a resource. When someone truly values you, they do not exploit you, manipulate you, or compare you with others.
👉 Ask yourself: Does she honor me, speak well of me, even behind me, and treat me as a partner… or does she only see me as a provider... A mumu, ATM or Mugun?

My dear brother, why will you even want to ignore these life saving questions? Ignoring them is a direct walk into unpleasant marital journey... A woman who does not like, want, need, love, or respect you will only drain you and make you regret your choice.
Don’t let pheromones, attraction, or pressure push you into a marriage that will suffocate you. Don’t let anyone — family, mentors, or even pastors — pressure you into a marriage you don’t want. Even well-meaning people can recommend the wrong person.

Marriage is for life. Go for someone who truly loves, values, and respects you. Go for genuine affection, not manipulation. Don’t settle for less, because the price of a wrong marriage is far more than you can ever imagine. In short: Before you say “I do”, make sure you can honestly answer:
Does she like me?
Does she want me?
Does she need me?
Does she love me?
Does she value and respect me?

If any of these answers is a shaky “no,” my brother, remember our proverb, "Egungun
Bicareful, Na Express You Dey Go". Honestly speaking, we can not answer so many other questions right now. You should be able to find some answers yourself. Remember, we have taught you some basic, quality and powerful principles. Just apply them. You don’t need our validation again to get it right!

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Changing Lives For The Betterment Tomorrow

03/09/2025

SOMETIMES WE NEED OUR SPACE
Spending an entire day ALONE in your ROOM with just your PHONES no FRIENDS around....is healthier ...

Dear Girls, Never remove your clothes to prove your love. Going to date is okay but before marriage never go to bed. Get...
03/09/2025

Dear Girls, Never remove your clothes to prove your love. Going to date is okay but before marriage never go to bed. Get a boy can buy safety pads for you not condoms. Get a boy who can take you to his home not to the hotels. Get a boy who asks about your periods pain not for nudes, and get a boy who choosed your souls, your heart not body!! Respect is one of the greatest expression of love. A real man never hurts a woman.

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Doctor Mistakenly Injects Infertile Billionaire's S***m into Virgin's Uterus and this happened…A doctor accidentally inj...
02/09/2025

Doctor Mistakenly Injects Infertile Billionaire's S***m into Virgin's Uterus and this happened…

A doctor accidentally injects s***m intended for artificial insemination into a college student’s uterus, leading to an unexpected pregnancy for the virgin Sophia. Leo, the CEO of a major beer company and the wealthiest, most sought-after man in the area, had battled cancer at the height of his career, which left him infertile.
Sophia walked into the small, quiet hospital with a sense of calm, her mind drifting away from the stress of her college life. She had spent the last few weeks buried in books, trying to keep up with her coursework. But today was different. Today, she was here for something routine—a simple checkup. Her best friend, Nnena, had insisted she go, saying that it was better to be safe than sorry. Sophia agreed, but deep down, she felt no reason to worry. After all, she was a healthy 19-year-old college student, with no history of medical issues.
She sat in the waiting room, flicking through a magazine and waiting for her name to be called. The hospital smelled faintly of antiseptic, and the low hum of voices mixed with the occasional beep of equipment. Sophia’s mind wandered to other things, to the semester ahead, to the presentation she was supposed to deliver in class next week.
Then, the nurse called her name. Sophia stood up, brushing her loose braids behind her ear. She followed the nurse down the hallway, her footsteps echoing in the sterile silence. She was led into a small room and asked to change into a hospital gown, a simple request she had done countless times before.
While Sophia changed, the nurse seemed to be in a rush, glancing at the computer screen in the corner of the room. Sophia didn’t think much of it at the time. The nurse wasn’t the most attentive, she was always distracted whenever she was assisting with her routine checkups. When Sophia finished and sat on the examination bed, the doctor entered the room. He smiled politely, but his eyes looked tired.
“Good afternoon, Miss Sophia,” the doctor greeted her. “We’re just going to do a quick checkup today as usual. Nothing to worry about.”
Sophia smiled back, trying to relax. The doctor went through the usual motions—listening to her heartbeat, checking her blood pressure, and asking a few questions about her general health. But then, he paused. He looked down at the computer screen in front of him and seemed puzzled for a moment.
“There seems to be a... mix-up with your file,” the doctor said, tapping the keyboard. “It’s a little unusual, but it looks like you’ve been marked as a candidate for a fertility procedure. Are you sure there’s been no mistake?”
Sophia’s heart skipped a beat. Fertility procedure? That didn’t make any sense. She had never been pregnant, and the last thing she needed was fertility treatment.
“Wait, what do you mean? I’m just here for a checkup,” Sophia said, trying to sound calm.
The doctor nodded, but his face was still creased with confusion. “I’ll have to check with the staff. It might be a mix-up with another patient. You don’t need to worry about anything right now. Let’s just finish your routine examination, and I’ll take care of the rest.”
Sophia didn’t know what to think. Was this a mistake? Her mind raced, but she tried to remain calm, hoping it was just some misunderstanding. After the doctor completed the checkup, he told her he would sort things out and let her know what was going on. She dressed quickly and waited in the examination room, her thoughts spiraling.
Meanwhile, at a private clinic across town, Leo sat alone in a stark white office, staring at the paperwork in front of him. He was a man who had achieved everything he had ever wanted. A successful CEO of a thriving wine company, a millionaire with everything at his fingertips, but something was missing—something he could never have.
It had been a few years since Leo had been diagnosed with cancer, and the treatment had left him infertile. He had always dreamt of becoming a father, of raising a child with the love of his life, Anabel. But she had made it clear that she didn’t want children.
Anabel was beautiful, a famous supermodel whose career came first. She wasn’t interested in motherhood. Leo had tried to make it work, but their relationship was strained. She wasn’t the woman he thought she was, and their marriage was barely holding together. Still, he held onto the hope that he might one day be a father, even if it meant relying on a surrogate mother.
The clinic had been his decision. It was a way to ensure that he could still have a child, even though he couldn’t father one himself. He had left a s***m sample with the clinic, and for the past few months, they had been searching for a surrogate. Leo had no idea that the clinic had mixed up his file with someone else’s, and that his s***m would soon be injected into a young woman who had no idea about the life that was about to grow inside her.
Back at the hospital, Sophia sat nervously in the waiting room as time passed. She could hear hushed conversations between the hospital staff outside the door. The doctor came back in, holding a clipboard with a serious look on his face.
“Miss Sophia,” he began, “I’m afraid there’s been a mistake. Your file was swapped with another patient’s. It looks like you’ve been given a procedure that wasn’t intended for you the last time you came in for your check up.”
Sophia’s heart pounded in her chest. “What do you mean? What procedure?”
The doctor hesitated. “It seems that you were mistakenly given a fertility treatment that was meant for someone else. You’re pregnant.”
Sophia’s breath caught in her throat. “Pregnant?” she whispered, her hands trembling. “But but I’ve never been with anyone. I’m a virgin!”
The doctor blinked, clearly taken aback by her response. “This... this doesn’t make sense. We will need to run some tests, but it seems your body has already accepted the pregnancy. I... I’m sorry. This is a very unusual situation.”
Sophia’s mind spun in a whirlwind of confusion. How could this happen? How could she, a college student, find herself pregnant from a mistake? And how could the father of this child be someone she had never met, someone she didn’t even know existed?
Meanwhile, Leo’s life was about to take a turn he hadn’t expected either. The clinic had just informed him that the surrogate carrying his child wasn’t carrying his child at all.
“Mr. Leo,” the nurse on the other end of the line said, “there’s been an issue. The surrogate you chose isn’t pregnant with your s***m. There’s been a mix-up with the files.”
Leo’s heart sank. The world seemed to tilt around him. What did this mean? His dream of becoming a father was slipping further away.
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*SLAV£RY OF MEN BY WOMEN*Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In h...
02/09/2025

*SLAV£RY OF MEN BY WOMEN*

Every Man irrespective of who they are must read the book by a German writer Esther Villar In her book "The Manipulated Man"

This book has caused outrage and *hostile criticism* from women, it explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have *pretended* to be the oppressed s.£¥ while in the real sense they are the oppressors.

She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like *courtship* and finally *marriage* , hence the saying “ *a man chases a woman until SHE catches him”* .

In her book she explains how the man is *tricked* to care for the woman all his life and her offspring.

He rolls the stone like *Sisyphus* and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of s£xual pleasure.

We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.

She goes ahead to explain the *rivalry of women* , how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself.

Like a *sl@ve owner* she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone.

Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, “The Anatomy of Female Power” (AFP) and Will Farrel's, “The Predatory Female”.

They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. *Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks;* women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited s.£¥ in human history, (in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of *dating* and *courtship* , *training*, like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman having kept the man on a leash by denying him s.£¥ and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.

The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the *woman and her friends,* and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a *slave* .

A man on that *wedding* day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a *Sisyphean* life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having *society* and the *government* checking on him and always ready to *jail* , *shame* or *exile* him for absconding his duties of slavery.

Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her *slave*(man) in check.

Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs to *tame* men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother.

A man is *shamed for cooking* for himself and other domestic chores by his *own mother* who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule.

By getting the man to hate *domestic* works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing *laundry* etc.

The mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in *bed* and in the *kitchen* .

With those two weapons she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything.

In the “Myth of the Male Power”, Esther Villar's “A Man's Right to the Other Woman”; “The Polygamous S£¥”, the authors of those books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African, Western and Eastern both in ancient and modern societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that rules the world.

Also Helen E. Fisher did anthropological research of ancient human societies and wrote the book "The S.£¥ Contract, The evolution of human behaviour" 1982. She too came to the conclusion that Marriage is a selfish creation of a Woman, where she uses s£¥ to manipulate a man to take care of her and her offspring. Other male animals do not carry the same burden and responsibility.

*Presidents* , *Emperors* and *Kings* are all puppets of the matriarchy forces that rule the World by pulling the strings from behind the curtains

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