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26/06/2025

MATURITY........

Sometimes, the true sign of maturity is not how much you know but how light your heart has become.
When you finally offload the heavy weight of hatreð, uŋforğivene§s, resentmƐnþ, and bitþerɲɛss, you don’t just feel free you become free.

You start speaking with wisdom, not wőunðs.
You begin to see with clarity, especially those people you initially ĥateð their videos and articles, their content will start making senses, their articles will be reasonable not with pāiɲ§.
The same people you once labeĺləð as eɲemie§ back then out of ǰəalòű§ÿ, you now see as human, flawəd, just like you.

Həaliɲg comes when your heart releases what your mind has been replaying over and over.
That is when you glow differently. That is when your smile is genuine. That is when peace replaces prəssűre. You become more beautiful, not just in face, but in soul. You walk lighter, speak softer, and love deeper. And you become more blessed because your heart is finally in a position to receive.

Maturity isn’t always in age sometimes. It’s in how quickly you are willing to let go of irrelevant elements in your heaŕþ so you can grow. Forgive. Heal. Evolve and watch how your life changes.

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25/06/2025

30 POINTS you need to No BEFORE planing for marriage 👎

1) No man is perfect

2) Men are like children. So be like his mother.

3) Hear quickly; talk slowly.

4) Never compete with a man.

5) Never try to be equal with him.

6) Be fast to apologize when you know you are wrong.

7) Don't be too jealous with him. This is good for your peace of mind.

😎 You may check on his phone if you want, but that isn't necessary.

9) Always be honest as a wife.

10) Never leave your house for a long distance without his permission.

11) Make sure you know the food he likes, and prepare that at least twice a week if money allows.

12) Don't let your husband get in the house with a parcel in his hand.

13) Try to make a budget together.

14) Be his adviser, not a critiser.

15) Don't ever forget that a wife is a helper of husband.

16) Learn good things from your mother.

17) When God blesses you with children, never give more attention to your children and forget your husband.

18) Learn to smile at your husband.

19) When your husband knocks off from work, greet him. If possible, hug him.

20) Don't let your husband leave the house without eating. This may mean "eat" and "eat".

21) When your husband becomes angry, stop talking.

22) Keep the bedroom clean always.

23) Never put cloths on the bed. Some men hate that.

24) Be a clean woman.

25) Look romantic.

26) Always remember to do what a wife should do. You are not his sister.

27) Treat his relatives as you would treat yours.

28) Oftentimes ask how his relatives are doing.

29) Go to church together.

30) Never compare your husband or your house to someone else's.
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25/06/2025

25/06/2025

13 DESTINY KILLERS MEN IGNORE UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE

This is the raw, undiluted truth you didn’t know you needed.
Forget village people — you’re doing yourself in.

Let’s go:

1️⃣ WOMEN, WOMEN, AND WOMEN AGAIN.
Yes, three times for emphasis.
Most men ruin their lives chasing curves and empty thrills.
You spend your small earnings on women who don’t respect you.
Sacrificing time, energy, and peace for people who don’t care.
There’s no trophy for a high body count — only invisible scars and wasted years.

2️⃣ GAMBLING — THE CANCER OF DESTINY.
You think it’s fun?
That “one more bet” might cost you everything.
Time. Money. Peace. Your name.
You don’t win with luck — you win with skill, discipline, and work.

3️⃣ ALCOHOL — THE DRUNK MAN’S DESTINY IS DELAYED.
You drink more than you save.
You inherit hangovers while your peers inherit assets.
A man who spends his salary at the bar leaves his children inheritance of shame.

4️⃣ TIME WASTING — THE SLOW KILLER.
You scroll, gossip, argue football while other men build empires.
Time is currency. Waste yours and life will waste you.

5️⃣ FRAUD (AKA YAHOO) — FAST MONEY, FAST MISERY.
You may flex today but you’ll rot inside.
Quick money is expensive — it costs your peace, your future, and your soul.
It’s not a shortcut, it’s a su***de note.

6️⃣ SMOKING & DRUGS — ADDICTIVE SLOW DEATH.
W**d. Pills. Codeine. Crack.
It starts like fun — ends with depression, job loss, and madness.
You’re numbing pain but feeding your destruction.

7️⃣ LAZINESS — THE ENEMY WITHIN.
You’re broke because you refuse to work.
You want soft life with zero hustle.
If you love sleep more than success, poverty will tuck you in.

8️⃣ LACK OF SELF-CONTROL.
A man without discipline is a loaded gun pointed at his own head.
No routines, no boundaries, no self-mastery.
Weak men self-destruct.

9️⃣ DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS.
Insult your parents, abandon them — watch your blessings dry up.
Life may not punish you immediately, but it never forgets.

🔟 DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR SURVIVAL.
A man who begs through life dies without dignity.
Stop leaning on people for basics — build your own table.

1️⃣1️⃣ BAD FRIENDS — DESTINY KILLERS.
You move with 5 jokers? Don’t be shocked when your life’s a circus.
Your circle determines your future.

1️⃣2️⃣ LIVING TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA.
Posting like a king, living like a peasant.
Buying iPhones with empty bank accounts.
TikTok won’t pay your rent, bro.

1️⃣3️⃣ EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS — THE INVISIBLE TRAP.
Soft-hearted, zero resilience.
Crumbling at rejection.
Giving up at failure.
Life is tough. Be tougher.

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FINAL WARNING:
Stop blaming the devil for what your poor decisions keep creating.
Destiny isn’t automatic — it’s BUILT.
With sweat. With strategy. With sacrifices.
If you don’t fix your habits, your habits will finish you.

Start now:
✔️ Master your time
✔️ Build real skills
✔️ Cut off dead weight
✔️ Harden your mindset
✔️ Chase legacy, not thighs

You were born a man — act like one.

19/06/2025

10 TRUTHS WHEN A WIFE LEFT HER MARRIAGE FOR “FREEDOM.

Men — this is a reality check.
Most modern women won’t admit this publicly, but behind the fake captions and soft life posts is a truth they’re too ashamed to confess.

Let’s break it down:

1. No One Will Tolerate What Your Husband Did
The man she left tolerated the mood swings, the random insults, the stubbornness — because he loved her. Outside those four walls, no man will stomach her chaos for free.

2. Feminism Doesn’t Pay Rent
Those keyboard feminists hyped her up to leave. “Chase your truth” they said. Now she’s crying in the dark, with unpaid bills and two fatherless kids asking, “Where’s Dad?” The same feminists are nowhere to be found.

3. Reformed Baddies Get No Refunds
She thought she could mess around and hit reset at 33. Wrong. Life doesn’t offer refunds for wasted youth and poor decisions. The older she gets, the shorter her options list becomes.

4. Freedom Is Loneliness In Disguise
She traded stability for a thrill. Now it’s holidays alone, cheap wine at midnight, and scrolling through old pictures she swore she deleted.

5. The Kids Are The Real Casualties
That man wasn’t perfect, but he showed up. Now her children have no masculine guide, no structure, no legacy to inherit. She didn’t just break a home — she fractured a generation.

6. Single Motherhood Isn’t A Badge Of Honor
“I don’t need a man” sounds cute until reality kicks in. Three jobs, empty bank accounts, and no high-value man willing to pick up that emotional baggage.

7. Hypergamy Has An Expiry Date
She thought she could upgrade at will. But when she came back to the market, the good men had already moved on — with younger, softer, baggage-free women.

8. Attention Isn’t Respect
Likes, comments, and fire emojis don’t replace a man’s genuine presence. She traded real love for digital validation and it left her emptier than before.

9. He Gave Her Peace — She Chose Chaos
He wasn’t perfect. But he was there, and he brought stability. She swapped that for drama, gossip, and court cases. Now she wishes she could turn back the clock.

10. The Internet Hypes You Up — Then Abandons You
They told her to “leave, queen.” Now she’s left in silence, scrolling through motivational quotes to fill the void. They moved on. She didn’t.

Remember: Rebellion feels good until the bill comes.
Most women don’t realize until it’s too late that “freedom” without discipline, order, and masculine leadership isn’t freedom — it’s slow su***de.
Men — protect your peace, your purpose, and your bloodline. God bless us all everyone Changing Lives For The Betterment Tomorrow

16/06/2025

1. Men and wababaz, when your wife or girlfriend is due , take her to a good hospital.

2. Giving birth is not a cup of tea. It's a delicate affair. It's a matter of life and death

3. And to you mums, start your antenatal clinics on your first month and attend them all religiously.

4. And your men and wababaz should stop using you as a litmus paper for Heichaivi. He should accompany you and get tested together

5. Don't go to second floor clinics for your delivery. Giving birth is not circumcision

6. It might sound funny but don't compare our modern women to our mothers. Our mothers would give birth at home effortlessly

7. People have carried pregnancies for 9 months and only go home with a basin and a pair of slippers.

8. Some mothers have kuffddead and left infants because of negligence

9. In some cases both the mother and the infant may kuffdead because of negligence.

10. It's God who gives life but it's good to use our kongosities right

11. You can ignore everything else but never ever joke with Childbirth.

12. Before climbing and impregnating a damsel , look for money .

13. Making a baby is sweet and childbirth is not an emergency. You have 9 months to plan for it.

14. For those who follow shakahola teachings, stop ignoring antenatal clinics. They are very vital. Miscarriages are real. Don't wait to be told that mtoto hana heartbeat

15. When you get pregnant, focus on your health. Those jokes on ginger shots , Cayenne pepper, rice water , bay leaves ,etc should take a break. Get the right plan from your antenatal clinics .

16 . And we have savage nurses who add the pain by telling you that ," Umetupea mavi Ya kutosha sasa tupee mtoto" .

17. As you attend your clinics ,ask your doctor what is preeclampsia or Postpartum eclampsia

18. As you attend your clinics , ask your doctor what is postpartum depression

19. As you attend your clinics, learn how to deal with tokophobia

20. Bonus : Usizalishe mtoto wa wenyewe mtoto after mtoto huku ukimbadilisha gears k**a a Bedford lorry na hujawahi peana dowry kwao. Respect yourself.

15/06/2025

12 BITTER TRUTHS YOU MUST KNOW
BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.

1. No matter how posh your spouse is, just remember that one day, they'll use the toilet and may not remember to flush it
well. Yes you'll see his/her faeces. Does that sound nice?

2. As much as you both will smell nice to occasions with glamourous apparels, sometimes you'd wake up to their bad
breaths and body odour! They won't always smell nice.

3. Your wife during dating wore her best panties. In marriage, you might see more of torn panties, and shame won't even
catch her. Be ready, that your hubby who changed boxer everyday during dating days might be wearing one for a week
in marriage.

4. For men with blown egos, one day your wife will challenge, beat her hand to her chest, and you won't do anything. Lol.
Ntor!

5. Some days you'd fight with your spouse all through the day, but you'll be forced to apologise even when you're not at fault
because you'll be h***y at night and can't just hold it. Konji will humble your ego.

6. Your seraphic and sanctimonious spouse who you hardly saw any fault in, after honeymoon might be the most annoying thing ever. E dey clear for eyes sometimes. lol

7. As a man who's all passionate about s*x now, you can't wait to marry. A time will come in marriage, she'd walk around
naked and your dick won't even erect. “Young woman abeg let me rest I'm tired..”

8. Your wife will provoke you and you'd reject food, thinking she'd beg, and she'd just walk away and go to bed. Las las,
you'll hide and go and eat. That's what we call trimming your ego. *Holds laugh*

9. Your spouse might love you, but you'll have to deal with the reality that there might be one of your siblings they won't really like sha.

10. There might be times you'll wake up and feel like, “how did I even marry this person”. You'll feel like you just want to be,
not because they necessarily did anything wrong o. But guess what? No exit door.

11. Be ready, what used to trip you about your spouse might wane with time. Marriage comes with a lot of rediscovery and plethora of phases.

12. When you have kids, sometimes you'll just be tired. You'll feel like taking a break from parenting. As in, you'll just want
to throw them into the dustbin. But no escape for you. They are products of your or**sm. (Jara)

At some point, you'll be feeling your spouse is the most amazing person in the world till you meet someone else who
is 200% better than them. Marriage isn't about having the best, but building your best.

13/06/2025

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we thank you for this day, for your mercy, protection, and the gift of life.
As we prepare to sleep, we cover ourselves and our families with the blood of Jesus.
Forgive us where we have failed you knowingly or unknowingly. Cleanse our hearts, purify our minds, and silence every voice of condemnation. Lord, protect us from every arrow of darkness, from demonic dreams, and from spiritual attacks that rise by night.
Break every evil altar speaking against our lives altars of poverty, sickness, failure, delay, and confusion. May every plan of the enemy be scattered by fire in Jesus’ name.
Holy Spirit, take control of our night. Cover our homes, our children, our loved ones, and every follower of this ministry. Let the angel of the Lord encamp around us and deliver us from harm. We reject fear, worry, and any spiritual invasion in the night.
We declare peace, divine revelation, and spiritual strength.
In Jesus name 🛐✝️🤲🙏 🔥🙏🕯️
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13/06/2025

Changing Lives For The Betterment Tomorrow TOP Comments everyone GEN Z KENYA ALL LADIES Celebrating my 12th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

11/06/2025

"ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?

During a seminar, a woman asked, "How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that a large man was sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered, “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.

Here’s the answer:

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. It was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.

People in love sometimes say I was swept off my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angrier subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships break down.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a DECISION."

09/06/2025

DO NOT DO THIS DURING SEX...✍🏾

1. Looking at time when you are having s*x gives the other an impression that you are wasting their time!
2. Acting annoyed when the other partner takes long to get an or**sm. Instead help them to reach there if you already have.
3. Having an or**sm first, then not bothering if your partner should have an or**sm or not. That is pure selfishness do something to make them reach there too!
4. Sneezing or coughing on partners face. If you must, look aside no need to splash someone with your saliva!
5. Making reference to a technique an ex used to do great to you, that is unhealthy comparison and will ruin that moment. IF you feel someone is not giving you well as you wish, address them not making references.
6. Faking that you are enjoying s*x, making all dramatic movements, dramatic moans etc. until someone can just tell you are faking.
7. Being too silent until someone feels like he is a mortician. At least make some sound when it feels good.
8. Being a passive participant and expecting your partner to do everything to you. Makes someone feel like a doctor operating a half dead patient!
9. Making disapproval faces when not satisfied. You better say it since your partner is not a psychic.
10. Not telling your partner you wish to try something new, then going on to try something so strange in bed. Nothing irritates someone than feeling like an experiment. Seek approval beforehand.
11. Calling out the wrong name when the pleasure is at the peak. That is a total deal breaker.
12. Not kissing. Kissing is so intimate to be ignored.
13. Pushing someone’s head towards your s*xual organs in order to request for oral s*x. Oral s*x is a sensitive matter and if someone is not feeling like it, do not force them.
14. Rushing through foreplay, this is totally wrong. Heat up the moment to enjoy more.
15. Farting during s*x and appearing like all is normal and usual. It is not!
16. Feeling offended when your partner communicates during s*x.

Communication will help both of you perfect it, so take it positively whatever feedback you get during s*x.
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