07/11/2025
I WAS COVERED!
My dad - our family’s sole breadwinner - was doing fairly well financially. Dare I mention that I actually came from a fairly well-off family? By the standards of the day, we could be counted among the “rich kids”, somehow... at least in the eyes of people from our original home, and many others.
We had all the basic needs covered - and most wants, too.
Dare I also mention that I was one of my father’s favourite children? I knew it from the rare pet names he called me - soft reminders of a time when love needed no explanation - and from the way he defended me from my older sisters, even to the extent of suggesting that I shouldn’t do household chores, not even in my twenties 😁😛.
My sisters, of course, would have their share of disagreements with my dad (not the fist type, of course). Luckily, we never had serious fights among ourselves - just the usual: “This one is dodging housework;” “She takes too long to finish simple tasks;” “I won’t help her; let her do it till tomorrow if she has to.”
Coming from that kind of background, I was certain my life at the university would unfold without trouble. If anything were to go wrong, I was sure it wouldn’t be because of money - or matters of the heart.