03/08/2025
The Backbone of the Sun
Michael often said that his mother, Ng’ayo, didn’t walk—she carried. Carried the family. Carried the village. Carried the weight of quiet sacrifices and silent prayers, all while looking like grace dressed in glowing dark skin.
Ng’ayo was tall, beautiful, and striking in the kind of way that didn’t need makeup or approval. She moved through life with intention—eyes sharp, hands busy, heart open. To Michael and his siblings, she wasn’t just "mama." She was a lighthouse in every storm, a friend when life was cruel, and a general when life required discipline.
By sunrise, she was a farmer—bare feet in dew-soaked grass, hands strong around a jembe. By mid-morning, she was an entrepreneur—selling eggs, vegetables, and handmade soap at the market, haggling like a seasoned economist. By afternoon, she was a teacher and counselor—ensuring that every child in her home, and half the village, had completed their homework and memorized more than just the textbooks. And by evening, she was a chef—cooking meals so rich in love that even the most stubborn child found comfort in every spoonful.
She was college-educated but never boastful. She didn’t see her learning as a badge—it was a tool. A means to build, to guide, to lift others. She used it in the shamba, in the kitchen, in her business, and most importantly, in her words.
Ng’ayo was known across the village not just for what she did, but how she did it—with dignity, softness, and an iron will. She believed that “it takes a village to raise a child,” but she became that village for many. She fed the hungry, counseled the confused, and scolded with love. Children who weren’t hers grew under her watchful eye, and she gave without expectation—even when thanks never came.
Now in her sixties, with wrinkles that only add to her beauty and strength that humbles the young, Ng’ayo remains a presence. She still checks in on her nieces and nephews, even though her phone rings more for airtime requests than greetings. She still cooks enough food "just in case someone stops by," and someone always does.
Michael, now in his thirties, knows the kind of woman she is. He carries her lessons in the way he walks, in the way he treats people, in the silent discipline with which he chases his dreams. Whenever he finds himself lost, he doesn’t search for direction in books or maps. He simply remembers his mother—Ng’ayo, the woman who carried.
Because if the sun had a backbone, it would look a lot like her.
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