04/09/2025
Divorce doesn’t really hurt because you “lost her.” No, my brother, what truly breaks your ribs is the future you had already built in your imagination. You’re not crying over the woman; you’re crying over that mansion in Runda you pictured, the two kids named Jayden and Angel you never met, and those Sunday family selfies you had already rehearsed in your mind. 😂
Think about it, when you were dating, you didn’t just see her. You saw the vacations in Dubai, the matching Ankara outfits, the Christmas dinners where you’d brag about “my wife this, my wife that.” Divorce steps in and says, “Cancel all that, sir!” Now you’re just a lonely guy eating cold ugali while scrolling through TikTok motivational quotes.
The lesson? Stop falling in love with your imaginations more than the actual person you’re with. Many people today don’t fall in love with reality; they fall in love with their own movie script starring them as the perfect husband or wife. Then life edits the script without your permission, and boom a heartbreak. 💔
So, modern generation, love the person, not just the picture in your head. Otherwise, you’ll be divorced from reality long before the marriage ends.