
25/02/2025
Don’t Let Uncertainty Hurt Someone—Understand Love Before Committing
Love is often mistaken for familiarity. Just because someone has been in your life for a long time doesn’t mean they’re the right person. Love isn’t about habit—it’s about a true, lasting connection.
I’ve been single for almost six years after realizing that I’m not as patient as I thought. My feelings tend to swing, and I once believed I loved someone for nearly ten years. I truly thought he was the right person for me. Our friends assumed we were a couple, but we never were—until one day, he confessed his feelings, and we became one.
That’s when I realized I didn’t actually love him. It wasn’t love; it was just the feeling of wanting someone. I was just a girl who didn’t fully understand what love really meant. After that, I promised myself I wouldn’t start another relationship until I was sure my feelings were real.
How do you know it’s love?
For me, love is when you get so used to someone that you can’t imagine your life without them. If you don’t feel that way, you might lose interest in your relationship later. So, before committing, be sure of your feelings. If you’re unsure, staying single is a better choice.
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