Atlantiz's Fika

01/02/2026

I used to believe love was real in the way people believe in home—that there was a place, or a person, where you could finally rest without being afraid of being left behind. But the more I trusted, the more I realized how easily “forever” turns into silence when things get uncomfortable. People swear they’ll stay when it’s easy to stay, when feelings are light and moments are soft, but the second love asks for patience, effort, or honesty, they start looking for exits. You end up carrying promises that were never meant to be kept, replaying words that sounded sincere but were only true in the moment. After a while, love stops feeling like something sacred and starts feeling like a gamble where you’re always the one paying the price. So you learn to lower your expectations, not because you’re heartless, but because believing too deeply keeps costing you pieces of yourself. You don’t stop wanting love—you just stop trusting that it will want you back in the same way.

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25/02/2025

Don’t Let Uncertainty Hurt Someone—Understand Love Before Committing

Love is often mistaken for familiarity. Just because someone has been in your life for a long time doesn’t mean they’re the right person. Love isn’t about habit—it’s about a true, lasting connection.

I’ve been single for almost six years after realizing that I’m not as patient as I thought. My feelings tend to swing, and I once believed I loved someone for nearly ten years. I truly thought he was the right person for me. Our friends assumed we were a couple, but we never were—until one day, he confessed his feelings, and we became one.

That’s when I realized I didn’t actually love him. It wasn’t love; it was just the feeling of wanting someone. I was just a girl who didn’t fully understand what love really meant. After that, I promised myself I wouldn’t start another relationship until I was sure my feelings were real.

How do you know it’s love?

For me, love is when you get so used to someone that you can’t imagine your life without them. If you don’t feel that way, you might lose interest in your relationship later. So, before committing, be sure of your feelings. If you’re unsure, staying single is a better choice.

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29/09/2024

How to make yourself satisfied and stay motivated when things don’t match what you wish for. I stay reminded of the useless things I have done. Most of the time I have millions of thoughts that make my self worth more than ever. I know it hurts me a lot with depression and disappointment when I think negatively. I don’t want either how to stop the mind from thinking of that rubbish. Day by day, I see it really harmful to my well-being. I seem to not be aware of myself if those thoughts make me unhappy sometimes. I just think I’m losing my way now. How should I try for this journey?

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22/07/2024

Many years have passed in a moment. Time really flies so fast that I can't even react. Last year, I asked myself what I should do to make everything become better. I began to think of all the things that I did, which made me realize that everything changes so fast. Everything I have ever thought was mine, now disappears in the blink of an eye. I read 4 books in the past seven months, tried to absorb what I could learn from them, and it made me realize that even jobs, friendships, love, or achievements that I have will not last forever. 💯🏆

These days, I separate myself from those crucial things, not because I don't care about them, but instead, I try to concentrate more on peace of mind. I undergo the suffering of isolation, dealing with jokes and sadness by myself. Through these endurance tests, I successfully learn to find peace in stressful moments and solely focus on what really matters. ✨❤️

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15/07/2024

05/04/2024

To be honest, I’m a person who is afraid of losing friendships. Even though they have something I don’t like about them, I choose to find good things about them to replace the bad ones. I always think when I’m with my friend that the next time we're still close or are there any arguments between us? That’s why I like taking photos, and I see it any time I go to . I smile alone, reminding myself of the time we were having fun together.
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25/02/2024

As human beings, we usually learn something new every day; sometimes we learn faster than others, and maybe we learn a bit slower than others. And that is fine. Many of us use the creativity of what we have to continue living our lives, so nothing matters at all. Once we go to the race game, all of us might think about reaching the first one and winning the first prize. Yeah, anyone can win, and that is the truth; we just need to accept that every single thing happens for a specific reason. For instance, there are two people who go for a competition, and they have the same courage to win the prize, but one works harder and spends more time in order to win the game, and the winner belongs to him. When we lose, are sad, or are disappointed in any circumstances that happen in life, we shouldn't blame ourselves for not achieving what we want; instead, we should be happy for those who achieve it. This time they get what they want; hence, in the future, we might also get what we were waiting for as well. 🪽❤️

10/01/2024

Everyone has their own dream of life. Some want to be rich, some want to have more days to live, some want to live a simple life, but there are only a few people who want to live the life they have. For me, the life I want is just a small house with a little farm where I can plant something to feed my family. A big house, a new car, and fancy things are just like a new light that brightens for a few seconds and then shut down. Life is meaningless without memories, which is why we should find the real purpose for our life and live in it as if we are the owner. Don't suppress others by becoming what they like or changing yourself to comfort them. It will make your life meaningless.

We are born once, live once, and die once, so live our life as if it is only ours. 🪽❤️

09/01/2024

We used to think that love was what brought joy into our lives, but now we realize that true happiness is everything around us, especially when we see our family living happily and without stress, and stop worrying about us.

Sometimes, we should learn to find the real happiness that we have around us. 🪽❤️

08/01/2024

Gem from Pressure.

Under pressure, it is not inherently bad or good. However, if we want to change something, we really need to face it differently. Likewise, a gem is a priceless thing. It also stays under extreme pressure to become priceless. Sometimes, dealing with bad circumstances might let us be a better version of ourselves, which is why we need to stand under bad or hard conditions in order to thrive. We must sacrifice change in order to change, which means that to become a better version of ourselves, we have to face difficult situations to improve our personal growth. We will see the world from a different perspective. Furthermore, it is almost the same as studying, as it might be hard for many reasons. However, the person who finds money to give us a change to go to school might work harder than us 10 times. If you come from a wealthy family, money might not be a problem. Nevertheless, it made a huge difference for the person, who comes from a poor family. Hence, by standing firm in the midst of problems or challenging situations, we might enable ourselves to thrive and upgrade our sight for a new spring of life. 🪽❤️

"There is no shame in failure, as long as you stand up and do better than you did." -Snyx9-

07/01/2024

There are secrets buried in the shadows, whispers in the wind, and stories waiting to be discovered. This page is a portal to a realm of fantasy, where reality bends and dreams take flight. Follow me if you desire to peer beyond the veil, to explore the unexplored, and to discover the magic that lies just beyond the reach of the daily. 🪽❤️