21/04/2026
“Pass the scholarship exam, and get into a good school. Then you’ll be happy.”
“Study hard, get into university. Then life will be better.”
“Get a first-class degree, a good job, a better partner. And then…”
Sound familiar? If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone. Most of us have been there, sitting through lectures or family dinners, hearing about this mythical “dream life” waiting for us a life where everything is perfect because we worked hard enough to earn it.
Written by: Kavy Pathirana
https://fos.cmb.ac.lk/blog/the-myth-of-and-then/
We were all trained to believe this, weren’t we? From childhood, societal and cultural expectations piled on us like bricks, building...