
13/04/2023
I believe so many relationships fail because of a lack of effort. It’s 3am everyone in my house is sleeping and I am cleaning. I’ve picked up toys, loaded and unloaded the dishwasher, taken out the trash, 2 baskets of laundry hell I even got a fresh pot of coffee ready to go.
I’ve worked all week 50 hours at my 9-5, 15 more hours on some side jobs, been to the gym 4 days. Maybe have gotten 5 hours of sleep a night. I still have to be dad, boss, son, friend.
I could make every excuse in the book, I’m tired, I’m sore, I don’t feel good, I’m not in the mood. But I still need to be a HUSBAND, FRIEND, LOVER. My wife will eventually see this post but this post isn’t the point.
The point is when she wakes up tomorrow EVERYTHING will be done. Her day will start off with a smile. That means when I come home I have done everything I can do to make the EFFORT for a great evening.
Just because we have been together for a long time and have kids, house, bills and so on. Does not mean she has to be with me. She wants to be with me. I may not always get it right but I try. She’s might not say anything but she notices.
Don’t stop trying in your relationship, don’t stop trying to better yourself. It’s the small things that make the difference. She still wants that good morning text. She still wants you to lay in bed until she falls asleep. She still wants you to watch the kids for her to just go to target when she doesn’t need anything.
Treat your lady like a queen you never want to lose and you will be the king she will always take care of!
-Trenton