27/09/2023
🔱Love and respect in marriage 🔱
There is no doubt that relationships that are based on love and respect are longer lasting than relationships that are not based on them.
Because this means that the relationship is full of listening to the partner, transparency, honesty, and satisfying the needs of each party.
and inventing compromise solutions,
Enjoy responsible freedom in practicing various hobbies and activities.
And dedicate time to spend it with the other party.
⚜️Lack of love and respect in the relationship⚜️
One of the most important symptoms of a lack of love and respect in a relationship is the prevalence of lying between both parties.
Each party wants to hide its truth from the other party.
Which leads to problems of trust between the two parties,
Because each party is afraid of the other party’s reaction upon hearing the truth,
Therefore, he decides to lie to him,
Silent treatment is also one of the most important symptoms of lack of respect.
Each party retreats and turns away from the other party.
Which increases the gap between the two parties,
Threats to end the relationship also undermine trust in the relationship.
Which makes the relationship very weak and fragile,
Also, using insults and profanity when facing any pressures and challenges reduces respect within the relationship.
Also, the many interruptions and not giving the other party any opportunity to talk, express themselves, and know their point of view on various matters further complicate matters.
Also, avoiding devoting time to the other party is considered evidence of a lack of respect.
Time must be devoted to spending it with the other party, even in light of busyness and pressure.
This makes the other party aware of the importance.
⚜️Love and respect in relationships⚜️
There are several manifestations of the prevalence of love and respect within relationships,
Such as respecting the feelings of the other party,
That is, you fully respect what he feels and fully respect his difference from you.
He has a cultural, educational and intellectual background that is completely different from yours.
Respect what the other party is,
Therefore, you must accept the other party as it is because you will not be able to change it.
You also have to deal with the other party the way you want those around you to deal with you.
This also means that you love the other party with your whole heart.
And you fully appreciate his presence in your life,
You also accept the other party's faults that you cannot change.
Therefore, you behave in a certain way in order to adapt to these defects.
This also allows you to be patient with the other party and with the relationship that brings you together.
Because you fully know his flaws and advantages, and you fully know that any problem will pass and you will work to improve the relationship between you.
This also allows you to empathize with the other party and look at what is happening from their perspective.
This allows each party to provide the other with the support it needs, whenever it needs it.
This also works on the transfer of power,
That is, control is not in the hands of only one party.
Rather, it is mutual in the hands of both parties
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