24/11/2025
Video installation | at Rosa Kwir
The Pity Party – a video installation and publication by Samira Damato and Teodor Reljić opened at Rosa Kwir on the 22nd of November and runs until Thursday 27th November.
The Pity Party explores grief, death, tradition, and the strange intimacy of the online world. The project emerged from a series of real digital conversations, WhatsApp chats, voice notes, and social media messages, exchanged between Damato and Reljić in the period following their fathers’ deaths.
These raw, imperfect exchanges became an unofficial archive of mourning: messages that spilled across platforms and emotional registers, shifting between confession, dark humour, anger, numb practicality, and the inherited weight of cultural expectations. In the wake of loss, the artists found themselves navigating not only the private terrain of grief but also the ways technology mediates, fragments, and sometimes softens our most vulnerable moments.
The Pity Party transforms those digital traces into a shared creative language. The original messages serve as a source text – translated, abstracted, and reimagined – to inspire artworks that blur the boundaries between memory and imagination, immediacy and reflection, the physical and the virtual. The Pity Party invites visitors to consider how mourning moves through contemporary communication channels, and how personal sorrow can become a site of connection, storytelling, and quiet resistance.
The work unfolds through a multi-screen installation that follows a ‘Griever’ as he attempts to mourn the death of a loved one, only to be interrupted by others, who seek to impose rituals and expectations. The installation is accompanied by a short publication, featuring excerpts of the artists’ personal conversations, along with original images, collages and graphic interventions.
This project is supported by Arts Council Malta.