Gringa in Mexico

09/06/2025

When I packed up my life in the U.S. and moved to Mexico, I thought I had to choose—be one thing or the other. American or Mexican. Here or there. But the deeper I’ve gone into this international life, the more I’ve realized something powerful: identity doesn’t have to fit in a box. It can stretch, evolve, and expand.

In my latest piece, I share how life between two cultures reshaped my idea of belonging, why shared nostalgia hits differently across borders (hello, Grey Poupon!), and how I finally stopped trying to “fit in” and started embracing the and.

Whether you're navigating multiple cultures or just curious about what it’s like to build a life across borders, I hope this one resonates.

Home isn’t a place. It’s the life you build.

Read it here 👉

The author shares their journey of moving from the U.S. to Mexico, realizing that identity is not confined to one culture but can encompass multiple influences. Embracing the nuances of both countr…

24/04/2025

Have you ever felt the deep urge to pack a bag and just go—without knowing exactly why?

One morning, between sleep and waking, a dream reminded me of an ancient truth:

We were born to roam. It’s in our DNA.

In my latest post, I explore the roots of our longing for freedom, travel, and movement—and how this nomadic spirit still lives in us today. If you’ve ever felt the pull to explore the world (or just wondered why you crave change), this one’s for you.

📖 Read it now at

Sometimes, in that delicate space between dreaming and waking, I forget what country I’m in. It’s not confusion—it’s something softer. A blur between worlds. One morning, in that quiet in-bet…

24/03/2025

No matter what country I am in, coffee is a MUST in the mornings!

If you happen to be in the Bucerias area, be sure to check out A Piece of Cake on Matamoros. They have the best mochas and pastels! You won't want to miss this!

08/03/2025

Since moving to Mexico, I’ve made Self-Care Saturdays a non-negotiable part of my routine—a time to reset, reflect, and recharge. But self-care isn’t just about spa days; it’s about setting boundaries, protecting your peace, and prioritizing yourself.

Today, on International Women's Day 2025, let's commit to prioritizing ourselves, not just today, but everyday.

How do you practice self-care? Let’s talk! 💜👇

Since moving to Mexico, I’ve made Self-Care Saturdays a non-negotiable part of my routine—a time to reset, reflect, and recharge. But self-care isn’t just about spa days; it’s about setting boundar…

04/03/2025

The way we approach the ocean mirrors how we navigate life—sometimes we float, sometimes we dive deep, and sometimes we struggle against the current. But no matter what, we always return stronger with the tides.

Living near the La Cruz Marina has given me the gift of ocean swimming, a practice that has become more than just exercise—it’s a metaphor for life itself. Unlike the confines of a pool, the ocean offers wild freedom, unpredictability, and challenges that test our courage. From jellyfish stings to the lurking presence of crocodiles (yes, really!), every swim is a lesson in trust, resilience, and surrendering to what we cannot control.

Just like in life, fear is always present—but the key is knowing which fears protect us and which ones hold us back. When we push through, we find something extraordinary on the other side: freedom.

This piece is for anyone who’s ever felt trapped by limitations and longed for something more. Join me in exploring the parallels between ocean swimming and life’s biggest lessons. 🌊💙

The ocean is uncontrollable, much like life itself. We can’t dictate the waves or the creatures we encounter, but we can choose how we navigate them. Living near the La Cruz marina has brought me f…

25/02/2025

Life in the U.S. had me caught in a cycle of workaholism and perfectionism—constantly chasing an unattainable standard. But returning to Mexico has taught me something powerful: life doesn’t need to be perfect to be fulfilling. 🌞

In Mexico, I’ve learned to embrace the "good enough" standard, slow down, and reconnect with what truly matters—my health, my relationships, and my peace of mind. 🌱

We’re all guilty of striving for perfection, but maybe the real freedom lies in accepting that we’re enough as we are. 💫

Read the full post about how Mexico helped me find balance, heal, and breathe again.

After spending months in the U.S. supporting my mother through a health crisis, I returned to Mexico feeling like a shell of myself. Battling insomnia and the exhausting grip of perfectionism, I re…

24/02/2025

Hello Again.

Over the past two years, life has taken me on an intense, transformative journey.

After selling the studio, I was able to focus on personal health challenges, learn how to manage my conditions, and prioritize my mental health and overall well-being.

I’ve spent time reconnecting with what truly resonates with me, supporting my mother through her battle with two brain tumors, cherishing moments with close friends and family, and being with my partner and our doggos.

I've been spending time in solitude, reading, writing, and of course, spending more time at the beach—where my soul feels most at peace.

I have been healing.

This season of life has been about peeling back layers and meeting the version of myself I always knew existed—the person I knew all too well, but was too afraid to fully embrace.

But that fear? It’s behind me now. I’ve stepped into my power and found that I am strong. I am brave. I have found my voice.

And I'm here to say, "Hello again." 🌻

14/08/2024

Don't get it twisted.

06/02/2024

Today was my first time ocean swimming. The marina in La Cruz is such a calm and beautiful place to start one’s day. I was a little nervous, especially as it was kinda chilly this morning, and I assumed the water would be cold.

To my surprise, the water was quite warm! It was only the air that was cold, not the water. But the mind tricks us into thinking that the water is cold.

This made me wonder…what else do I still believe to be true, when really they are merely illusions of the mind?

28/01/2024

I’m sharing my Uber experience with everyone so that hopefully this doesn’t happen again. I don't want anyone to experience the treatment that I did by an Uber driver this morning!

This driver’s actions made me feel very uncomfortable and concerned for my safety. His anger and frustration with me for walking out the door five minutes past the time of the scheduled reservation (yet at the time when I believed he was going to arrive) was completely disproportionate to the situation.

When I called the driver out on his inappropriate behavior, he couldn’t handle it and went onto the app and canceled the reservation and drove off, putting in the cancellation as a “no-show”.

My question is: If I were a man, would this driver have spoken to me this way? Would he have waved his hand at me dismissively and impatiently and angrily said, “Just go get your stuff and let’s go?!” And would he have said it TWICE??? My partner and I believe that no, that men don’t typically tell other men what to do in such a tone and manner, and that obviously this man felt entitled to speak to me, a woman, in such a manner. This is absolutely gender discrimination.

Had the Uber driver not canceled my trip and driven off, I can fully assure you that I would NOT have gotten into the car with him. He may have felt like he was the one in control in that moment, that he was canceling my trip and I wouldn’t have a ride to the airport and that he would still get paid for coming out; however, his lack of professionalism and inability to own his behavior got him reported to Uber.

Which leads me to the most important aspect of self-advocacy: Speak out about the situation! After safely arriving at the airport and completing my check-in, I had plenty of time to call Uber’s Critical Safety Response line to report this emergency situation and the gender discrimination to which I was subjected by one of their drivers. That number is 1-800-285-6172 and was found simply by Googling “How do I report a safety concern involving a driver to Uber?” If you experience any discrimination or any unsafe events involving an Uber driver, report your experience to Uber’s Critical Safety Response line.

12/01/2024

¿Quiere mejorar su nivel de conversación en inglés?

Únase a nosotros en una clase de inglés conversacional de 6 semanas diseñada para mejorar su comprensión de la gramática, la pronunciación y el vocabulario en lengua inglesa. Impartido por un profesor licenciado cuya lengua materna es el inglés y está certificado para enseñar inglés como segunda lengua.

Las clases tendrán lugar los sábados de 11a-12p en Octopus's Garden / Hikuri en La Cruz, en el area de la biblioteca. Las clases comienzan el sábado 20 de enero y duran hasta el sábado 24 de febrero.

Aprovecha el precio especial por las 6 semanas y paga sólo $900MXN.
Las clases individuales cuestan $200 MXN.

Mande mensage para informes o para reservar su lugar. ¡El cupo es limitado!

12/01/2024

Starting January 15th, I will be offering YogaFIT, a low-impact fitness class based on yoga that focuses on building strength, flexibility, and balance.

The class will be offered upstairs at Octopus's Garden / Hikuri on Mondays from 5-6p. $200 MXN.
Be sure to bring your yoga mat.

Message for details or to reserve your space today!