Ethel Da Costa

Ethel Da Costa Editor-in-Chief - www.etheldacosta.com
Author - The Stiletto Foodie, A Blog Binge in Malaysia (2020), Eve's Revenge: Stories of Nemesis (2008).

Award winning International Lifestyle Journalist-Influencer-Writer | Author | Media & PR Ninja
Founder & CEO Think Geek Media

www.etheldacosta.com
www.thinkgeekmedia.com
Malaysia | India International Lifestyle Journalist, Columnist, Destination Influencer. Founder & Managing Director, Think Geek Media Inc. Malaysia | India
www.thinkgeekmedia.com

06/12/2025

Celebrate the woman you were, the woman you became, and the woman you’re still becoming.
You did beautifully this year 💗

Note to you, dear friends, fans, followers
We’re in charge of ourselves and how we want our story to go.
Write it with self-love and self-confidence.

Video credit : Diane von Furstenberg




Chai, courage, and conversations that matter.That’s what went down at Chai With Shalini on Nov 22 — a beautiful afternoo...
03/12/2025

Chai, courage, and conversations that matter.
That’s what went down at Chai With Shalini on Nov 22 — a beautiful afternoon where we stripped away the noise and got real about Self-Parenting and Self-Coaching. ☕✨

In our cozy corner at Bijan (thank you for the love, venue partner), every guest showed up with open hearts — sharing anxieties, unpacking fears, and naming the limitations they’re ready to release.
And let me tell you… the poetry, the journaling, the honesty — whew. Magic happens when you feel safe enough to be human. 🌿

Guided by the ever-warm, ever-wise Shalini Keswani, we journeyed inward to meet the child within and the parent within — because healing starts when we learn to hold ourselves with compassion and lead ourselves with clarity.

This gathering also marks one powerful year of EMPOWER in Malaysia. A year of building spaces where we celebrate courage, curiosity, and community. A year of showing up — for ourselves and for each other.

Grateful. Expanded. Inspired.
Here’s to more conversations that shift the soul.

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Happiest Happy Birthday to my dearest buddy, Joanne 🌼🌼Wishing you always a life of adventure, style, happiness, magic, a...
01/12/2025

Happiest Happy Birthday to my dearest buddy, Joanne 🌼🌼

Wishing you always a life of adventure, style, happiness, magic, and big awesome love ❤️
Thank You for the warmth of our friendship, like a vinyl old record of Nat King Cole on a fuzzy Sunday morning.

Now let's eat more cake 🎂



30/11/2025

The Price of Admission: Loving a Champion

I need to make the terms of engagement perfectly clear, my dear.

My affection is genuine; my admiration is real. I celebrate you, I cherish your company, and I look at you with absolute warmth and honesty, stating:
Frankly, darling, I love you.

But this love is given from a position of radical, unshakeable strength.
So, please understand, with all the grace I possess: I love me more.

This is not a flaw; it is the foundation. My loyalty to my own peace, my own growth, and my own magnificent future is absolute. I am the non-negotiable bedrock of my own life.

Now, if you can genuinely love a woman who is this fiercely devoted to her own truth—who is whole before you even arrive—you are not just building a relationship.
You are building with a champion.

“Gratitude turns what we have into enough — and sometimes, even more."  🌟🌟❤️Yesterday felt like stepping into a gentler ...
28/11/2025

“Gratitude turns what we have into enough — and sometimes, even more." 🌟🌟❤️

Yesterday felt like stepping into a gentler dimension of myself ✨

At Arc Holistic Wellness, the media experienced more than a space — we stepped into a sanctuary where breath slowed, shoulders softened, and the world outside felt miles away. Every corner whispered intention, every therapy held presence, and every conversation reminded me why holistic living isn’t a luxury… it’s alignment.

Thank you to the founders - Justin Dee and Diana Koon - for creating a haven where science, soul, and serenity meet in perfect harmony. And thank you to everyone who joined us — your energy made the space glow even brighter.

Here’s to choosing wellness that feels like coming home. 🌿✨


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  Today, on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women ( ), my voice is not just that of a jour...
25/11/2025


Today, on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women ( ), my voice is not just that of a journalist or a founder, but that of a survivor who has chosen to become a champion.

The shadow of gender-based violence stretches across our world. From my home country, India, to the incredible communities in Malaysia, the fight for safety, respect, and dignity is universal. We must confront the reality that violence exists not only in the home but also in the workplace, fuelled by the abuse of authority, the arrogance of title-obsession, and the deep-seated power imbalances wielded by certain `bosses.' This is an attack on a woman's career, her stability, and her worth. We must dismantle these toxic power structures.

My personal journey through violence was harrowing, yet I chose to reclaim my narrative and transform that trauma into my purpose. Think Geek Media is built on this very conviction. It is my proof to the international community that vulnerability can be forged into formidable strength.

This commitment to change is echoed in the mission of my own platform EMPOWER, which strives to advance women's political equality towards justice and democracy by building leadership potential and dismantling power structures that reinforce inequalities through knowledge and information sharing. True empowerment means being able to decide and participate in all spheres of life, free from fear.

This change begins with how we raise the next generation. We must empower our daughters not just to survive, but to thrive. That means:
Teaching them to speak up against the very first sign of disrespect or violence, whether in relationships or professions.
Equipping them with the self-worth and tools to establish boundaries and never allow mistreatment. This is about accountability to oneself, knowing your value, and refusing to be violated.

If I, a woman who faced the deepest challenges, can transform my experience into a platform for international advocacy and leadership—then I know you can do it too. Let us commit to building a world where a woman's greatest strength is her safety.

How are you acting today to challenge the abuse of power in your own sphere? Drop me your comment.

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