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14/02/2022

|| 爱是一个动词

我曾碰到这么一位男士,他说:“你讲得很有道理,可是每个人的状况不同。我的婚姻真是让我忧心忡忡,我和太太已经失去了往日的感觉,我猜我们都已经不再爱对方了。应该怎么办呢?”

“爱她”。我回答。
“我告诉过你,我已经没有那种感觉了。”
“那就去爱她”。
“你还没有理解,我是说我已经没有了爱的感觉 了。”
“就是因为你已经没有了爱的感觉 了,所以才要去爱她。”
”可是没有爱,你让我怎么去爱她呢?“
“老兄,爱是一个动词 ,爱的感觉是爱的行动所带来的成果,所以请你爱她,为她服务,为她牺牲,聆听她心里的话,设身处地为她着想,欣赏她,肯定她。你愿意吗?”

在所有进步 的社会中,爱都是代表动作,但消极被动 的人却把爱当做一种感觉。好莱坞式 电影就常灌输这种不必为爱负责的观念——因为爱只是感觉 ,没有感觉,便没有了爱。事实上,任由感觉左右行为是不负责任的做法。

积极主动的人则以实际行动来表现爱。就像母亲忍受痛苦,把新生命带来人间,爱是牺牲奉献,不求回报。又好像父母爱护子女,无微不至,爱必须通过行动来实现,爱的感觉由此而生。

摘自 《 #高效能人士的七个习惯》

24/01/2022

【改变需要耐心】

如果你想要真正的改变

对自己的改变要有耐心,
因为自我成长是神圣的,
同时也是脆弱的,
是人生中最大的投资。

#高效能人士的七个习惯

23/01/2022

【改变不良旧习】

只要你相信自己

不论你现况如何,
都请相信你与你的习惯是两码事,
你有能力改变不良旧习,
沐浴在新习惯的阳光里,
过上高效、幸福和互信的新生活。

#高效能人士的七个习惯

12/01/2022

如何面对可控制的与不可控制的事?

我无法控制的:
以微笑、真诚与平和来接受事实,泰然处之。

我可以控制的:
专心做自己能力能及的事,能量是积极的。

#高效能人士的七个习惯

12/01/2022

【思维决定一切】

你有检视自己思维的习惯吗?

如果你想获得微小的进步,
就改变你的行为,
但是如果你想获得巨大的进步,
就要改变你的思维。

#高效能人士的七个习惯

11/01/2022

【改变习惯】

要改变习惯是一个痛苦的过程。

有了更高的目标才能激发改变,
面向未来牺牲当下的意愿才能促进改变。
但是这又是幸福的泉源,
是生活的目标和规划。
幸福就是我们经过一番努力与牺牲
得到的果实。

#高效能人士的七个习惯

10/01/2022

【双赢思维】

双赢不是什么技巧,而是人际交往的哲学

双赢者把生活看作合作的舞台,
而不是竞技场。
世界之大,
人人都有足够的立足空间,
他人之得不必视为自己之失。

#高效能人士的七个习惯

05/01/2022

【富足心态】

相信资源充足,人人有份。

由于相信有足够的资源,
人人得以分享,
因此不怕与人共名声、共财势,
从而开启无限的可能性,
充分发挥创造力,
并提供宽广的选择。

#高效能人士的七个习惯

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05/11/2021

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为什么全球领导者都学七个习惯?它到底藏有什么力量?

《高效能人士的七个习惯》,不仅是一本成功学或幸福学,它更是世界500强企业必备的培训课程。

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日期:6/11/21(六)
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光头与美4.0主题曲( 英文版)Bald and beautiful 4.0 Theme Song 💜我在,我爱,我是光You're Here,You're Loved, You're Light
02/11/2021

光头与美4.0主题曲( 英文版)
Bald and beautiful 4.0 Theme Song

💜我在,我爱,我是光
You're Here,You're Loved, You're Light

Dear friends, I am going to shave my head! ——yes, I'm finally doing it!Why am I doing it?💜I wanted to shave my head when...
01/11/2021

Dear friends, I am going to shave my head! ——yes, I'm finally doing it!

Why am I doing it?
💜I wanted to shave my head when I was young because I thought it was cool, but I didn’t have enough courage then. Now, I finally had the right opportunity and motivation to go bald. I am participating in this charity fundraiser in which I will be shaving off my tresses for a good cause. This makes my insignificant act of going bald meaningful.

💜💜I believe that many people have similar experience with me, they want to do good deeds or donate but worry about the credibility of the organising institution. The Malaysian Starfish Charity Platform was founded by the executive chairman of Khind Group. It is a reliable and credible platform so I can be rest assured that the donations are going to the right channels. For this cause, the funds raised will be donated to the Malaysian Cancer Research Institute and the Sarawak Children’s Cancer Society.

💜💜💜 I think everyone has their own unique ideas and reasons for any decision. For me, there are two important people who led me to this decision - my roommate when I was studying in China and my best friend in university. Both of them were in their prime of youth when they left the world due to cancer, and neither of them had the time to say goodbye. I hope that, as I am still in this world, my regrets and yearning for them will be transformed into the power to assist others.

So when will the action take place? On 20/11/2021

I hope I can call on everyone's attention to support this cause and give cancer scientists and cancer patients the power to heal!

💪 Donate to support me:
https://mystarfishfoundation.org.my/fundraiser-page/267/ivy-siaw-suk-ping

My Starfish Foundation Sarawak Children's Cancer Society Cancer Research Malaysia

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