29/04/2025
It's so apolling that the youths of this Days are playing husband role at a very tender age π
There's this boy I know he sells meat in the market, every weekend he gives his girlfriend 10_15k just to flex her.
Now I'm not against that it's normal to spend on a woman but the stupid part of it is that he has no savings like, he will come to me and start telling me that he's broke and all that.
And he will be complaining up and down that his girlfriend is cheating on him π meanwhile, he's trying as much as he can so, to be honest I will be laughing and crying π’ for him because he has no sense of reasoning.
The thing that shocked me the most was that this boy spend approximately not less than 100k on an ungrateful soul who just toil around with his feelings and leave him empty handedβΉοΈπ€²
To be honest, as a young person u shouldn't even be thinking about a girlfriend especially at your early 20s because this is the time to:
Build
Restrategize
Make changes in some certain areas π
Etc.
There was even a time I ask him about how he's coping he was like that he went to hotel and logged with a hook(up) girl whom he was intimate with and after that his account was dam(n) dry .
Then, I told him to calculate how much he spend on a woman together with his weekend flexing and see how much that would have been in his account, he was shocked but I am fully convinced that he's not going to change anytime soon because he has that type of mentality of "CHOP LIFE NOW " forgetting that if he wears his suit now he will be naked tomorrow.
So I encourage my fellow youths out there not to be a victim of such circumstances, let's do better beloved young persons π
I would also love you to share your thoughts on this in the comment section βοΈ
Good afternoon FAM π
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