22/07/2025
■Lest We Forget!
THE POWER OF REFUSAL: A LESSON IN GRACE AND STRENGTH
The recent decision by a known personality to respectfully decline a federal appointment — citing personal and professional reasons — has triggered a storm of interpretations. Some read it as a quiet signal of regional unease, others as part of a broader political puzzle. But the most compelling reading — and perhaps the most courageous — is that this was a gesture of principle and prudence: a rare act of self-awareness in a space too often dominated by ambition and appetite.
At a time when power is pursued with desperation and drama — no matter the cost or context — that refusal stands out as an emblem of integrity and restraint. He didn’t protest; he didn’t posture. He simply said no — without rancour or resentment, and with the kind of dignity that demands no explanation. That alone deserves applause.
His quiet refusal is an act of principle and purpose. It is a testament to self-knowledge and inner discipline — the kind that tells a man when to step forward and, more nobly, when to step back. He did not grandstand. He did not explain too much. He simply bowed out — without drama, but with dignity.
This is no small gesture. Too many people today pursue public office as a ladder to luxury, not a platform for service. They measure success by position and possession, not by contribution or character. So when someone steps back — not with anger, but with honesty; not in failure, but in discernment — it reveals something powerful: a sense of vocation and value. It is both rare and redemptive. It signals that public service, to be meaningful, must spring from readiness and responsibility, not merely from access and ambition.
What he has modeled is what our democracy desperately needs: clarity and courage, conscience and commitment. And perhaps even more: an alternative address — that is, a life beyond politics that makes stepping away possible without fear of collapse. That kind of independence is what allows a person to see public office not as survival, but as sacrifice.
We should not interrogate his motives with suspicion or cynicism. We should, rather, celebrate the discipline and detachment it takes to recognize one’s limits — to choose timing over title, conscience over convenience. This is the kind of example our power-hungry culture needs: the courage to say “not now,” and the wisdom to know when silence speaks more than acceptance.
In a time of noise and need, where too many fight to be seen rather than prepare to serve, refusing a political offers is a counter-narrative — one shaped not by ambition, but by awareness. It is a soft-spoken act, yet a resounding message: that not all leadership begins with acceptance; sometimes, it begins with decline.
And in that rare power of refusal, there is grace.
There is strength.
And there is a lesson for us all.
—Chike Onwe, a communication strategist wrote in from Abakaliki