21/09/2025
MY BAD EXPERIENCE IN A TRIO FRIENDSHIP DURING MY TEENAGE DAYS.
Let me share with you guys why I would never accept nor indulge in a friendship that has to do with three people involved, even if they hold the key to my future.
To some people, it might sound not so serious, but I was a big fan of friendship - if I called you my friend, I should trust you with everything (that was me), but not anymore.
How I found myself in a trio friendship and being the odd one was unbelievable to me. I had just one friend who had another friend whom she probably liked more than me, and that's how I ended up in a messy trio friendship that changed my entire view on friendship till today, making it difficult to have someone outside my family in my corner.
We were three friends because I got to know the other girl, and I grew to love her as much as my friend too, just so we could get along well, but the bond was never balanced. Two of them were reserved, closer to each other, and always kept their secrets between themselves. I was the cheerful one, open-minded, and full of energy, yet in moments when I truly needed them, I often felt alone.
They hardly stood by me in times of trouble, and their closeness left me on the outside looking in.
Still, I loved them deeply. They were my best friends as a teenager, even if they never fully saw my heart or the loyalty I carried for them.
That experience shaped me, made me defensive, and taught me to guard myself when I felt left out. Now we are grown, doing well for ourselves, and still cool with each other, but whenever I look back, I remember the pain of being the extra one. Yet I am over it now.
My focus is building genuine love and strong bonds with my family and the people who truly see me and stand by me. However, I would advise you all to desist from TRIO friendships. ๐๐