25/09/2025
Friction of connection is something different. It's OlaOba let’s talk about love errors from this angle. It’s that complicated mix of love and affection that speaks differently and sometimes causes us harm with the little mistakes we make. The big question is: why do women keep going back to their exes? And why do men fall into the same trap? There’s a psychological friction that doesn’t just disappear after a breakup, no matter how much we try to move on or follow the usual “breakup rules.” This friction sticks in the mind, quietly pulling us back, but no one talks about it. The connection stays alive, even if everything seems over, and a tiny spark can bring back all the memories. There’s a law in love—it never truly dies. You can show affection to many people, but real love stays constant; you don’t really share it like affection. Trying to love many can hurt you deeply. When you understand that affection can be shared but love remains, 👉you stop cutting off your feelings. Instead of focusing on the anger or hurt, you realize that those little sparks of affection can confuse you, making you label it as love and fall back into the traps you promised yourself to avoid. So, think twice before diving deep again. Peace and love. — OlaOba