17/08/2025
To be honest,men are good people. They are more considerate in alot of things especially when they love you. Nothing else matters. Nothing else counts.
The men who look down you and claim they love you are lying to you.
In the eyes of the world,you might be ugly, deformed,a street woman and may even have a visible bad character. Most of them will ignore all that and still call you their "Queen". They will treat you like one and proudly display you for the world to see,just the way you are.
Now,when a woman loves. She loves with conditions and standards. If you don't meet up to those requirements,there are certain privileges you will not enjoy from a woman. This is why a woman will claim she can't do this or that for you but will do it for another man or with another man,gladly.
There are some women who will never acknowledge the good their man does for them because he doesn't look like their dream man. He was never the kind of man they wanted for themselves. You ask them,they will say "that one?",I am just managing him. They are not just proud of him even when he is doing his best.
You have heard women say they can't be with a man who earns less than 3 million a month. Meanwhile,they have nothing going for themselves. The funny aspect is that,that man who is earning less than a million in a month might be spending more than a million to keep her and satisfy her. She is not thinking it that a man who can comfortably sort her needs whenever she calls him,can do much more in the future.
A young man met a pregnant woman,fell in love with her and provided all her needs. Treated her like a queen and told her he would take the baby as his. While she was talking with her sister,she asked "Do you think he can take care of me and the child with these menial jobs?" .I mean,the same menial jobs he was doing and helped get medications for her sick mother. The same menial jobs that kept feeding her and providing for her for months(Nigeria movie). Anyway,she went back to her ex whom she left in the first place for domestic violence. She prefers to stay with an abusive rich husband than with a good man who is doing menial jobs for survival..
Reality!
I will still stand on the fact that there is nothing like "Let me think about it "for a woman who wants you. It is even worse if it takes years for her to accept you. I am telling you that you u will suffer. The only way you may not notice that you are being cheated on is because you are still providing. Go broke or pretend like things aren't going well ,for just a month. You will see the shift!
By the way,i know some men can relate. They are passing through alot but are silent because children are involved already.
Be wise!
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