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Food for thought 🤔
10/08/2025

Food for thought 🤔


“So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy” (Romans 9:16)—is a real ...
10/08/2025

“So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy” (Romans 9:16)—is a real eye-opener.

You can have all the plans in the world. You can wake up early, hustle hard, work smart, and still not see the results you expect. Why? Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about your effort or desire. It’s about God’s mercy.

This doesn’t mean you should be lazy or stop putting in the work. No. Keep grinding. Keep moving. But also understand that your strength alone won’t guarantee success.

There are people who do everything right and still struggle. And then there are others who seem to get helped out of nowhere, and that’s mercy at work.

God’s mercy is the game, changer.

So, stay humble. Stay prayerful. Keep doing your part, but never forget to ask God for mercy and favor. Because doors don’t always open because you knocked hard. Sometimes, they open because God decided to unlock them for you.

It's not always about how fast you run or how much you want it, it’s about God stepping in.

That’s the real secret.




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If you don’t know who you are and what you carry inside you, the world around you can easily define you the wrong way.So...
08/08/2025

If you don’t know who you are and what you carry inside you, the world around you can easily define you the wrong way.

Some systems in our society, country or workplace, aren’t set up to bring out the best in you.

If you’re not careful, they’ll reduce you to just a number, a job title, or someone who’s only "useful" when needed. That’s why it’s necessary to know yourself.

Know your strengths. Know what you bring to the table, even if no one claps for you yet. If you don't, people will treat you like you’re less than you really and worse, you might start believing it.

Sometimes, it’s not even about whether you’re good or not. It’s about whether you know you’re good. Confidence in your own worth can be the difference between being stuck in a box or breaking out of it completely.

So, don't wait for a system or a job to tell you who you are. Remind yourself. Carry yourself like someone who knows they matter because you do.





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Yesterday, I went to book a hotel reservation for someone.As I glanced through the prices of the rooms, from standard to...
07/08/2025

Yesterday, I went to book a hotel reservation for someone.

As I glanced through the prices of the rooms, from standard to luxury suites, the prices I saw hit me hard.

I paused for a moment and asked myself,
“So this is what some young men spend in just one night to mess around with women?”

The thought became heavier.
I began to think about those married men who are always claiming they’re broke.

The ones whose wives are struggling to pay the bills.
Whose children can’t afford good food, decent clothes, or school fees.

Yet they somehow have money for side chicks, hotels and drinks.

Truth be told, some men are not broke because they can’t make money.
They are broke because of poor choices, bad habits, and dangerous addictions.

They are broke because they are trying to live a double life they can't afford.
They are broke because they lack discipline.

Listen, discipline will cost you something, yes.
It might mean saying NO when your body wants to say YES.
It might mean denying yourself some pleasure now to build your future.

But if you think discipline is expensive,
Try indiscipline.

Some men are not fighting poverty, they are funding their destruction.

It's time to wake up.
Take a long hard look at your habits.
Your financial situation might not change until you change your habit.




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“Love does not keep records of wrong” doesn’t mean one should be a fool.It doesn’t mean someone should keep smiling whil...
26/07/2025

“Love does not keep records of wrong” doesn’t mean one should be a fool.

It doesn’t mean someone should keep smiling while you keep doing the same hurtful thing over and over again.

Yes, you were forgiven the first time.
They let it go. Peace was chosen. love was chosen.

But when you repeat the same offense you've been forgiven for, it brings back the the memory of the last one.

Why? Because now it’s no longer a mistake, it’s a pattern.

And love doesn’t mean we should pretend not to notice.
Love doesn’t mean we should be blind to disrespect.

Forgiveness is a gift.
But repeating the same offense after being forgiven is like spitting on that gift.

Love is kind, yes.
But love is also wise.
Love sees. Love remembers, not to retaliate but to protect itself.

So no, we aren't keeping records.
You’re just repeating the same script that has been played before.






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Dear ladies, don’t expect all of a man's time just because you're in a relationship with him.He had a life before he met...
25/07/2025

Dear ladies,

don’t expect all of a man's time just because you're in a relationship with him.

He had a life before he met you — goals, friends, hobbies, routines… and those things still matter.

Being in love doesn't mean losing yourself. It’s not healthy to expect him to be available 24/7 or to make you the center of his world every single minute.

Let the man breathe. Let him chase his dreams. Let him have his own space.

A good relationship is built on balance, not obsession. It’s two whole people choosing to grow together, not one person trying to fill the other’s entire day.

Love him, but don’t suffocate him.



😂😂😂 This one is deep and funny at the same time!Here are 7 signs that the devil has played 419 on you.1. You left sense ...
18/07/2025

😂😂😂 This one is deep and funny at the same time!

Here are 7 signs that the devil has played 419 on you.

1. You left sense to follow vibes.
You knew the thing wasn’t adding up, but you said “Let’s see how it goes.” Now you’ve seen. 😭

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Let go of pride!Pride won’t let you move on.Pride won’t let you say “I was wrong.”Pride won’t let you ask for help, even...
18/07/2025

Let go of pride!

Pride won’t let you move on.
Pride won’t let you say “I was wrong.”
Pride won’t let you ask for help, even when you’re drowning.
Pride won’t let you apologize, even when you know deep down you messed up.
Pride won’t let you grow, because it keeps whispering, “You’re always right.”

But let’s be real, pride has ruined more relationships, friendships, and opportunities than mistakes ever did.
Sometimes, the only thing standing between you and peace… is your ego.
Let it go. Humble yourself. Speak up. Say sorry. Ask for help. Admit when you don’t know.
That’s not weakness. That’s growth.

Don’t let pride make you lose what truly matters.


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Look at these three — all Nigerians, all representing England, and all full of talent.From left to right, you’ve got Ebe...
17/07/2025

Look at these three — all Nigerians, all representing England, and all full of talent.

From left to right, you’ve got Eberechi Eze, Noni Madueke and Bukayo Saka. One thing they all have in common? Nigerian blood and serious balling skills.

Saka is already flying at Arsenal, doing big things week in, week out. Madueke, an addition from Chelsea. He's just 23 with a lot of premier league experience.

And Eze? That guy’s magic on the ball, it’s only a matter of time before he starts balling for Arsenal. And when it finally happens, don't be shocked if all three end up wearing that iconic red and white.

Imagine that, three Nigerian boys, all shining for England, and all tearing it up at the Emirates.
The future is looking real bright.




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The worst thing you can ever do to someone is make them feel like they don’t matter.Once a person starts doubting their ...
16/07/2025

The worst thing you can ever do to someone is make them feel like they don’t matter.

Once a person starts doubting their own value, everything else begins to crumble. Their confidence, their dreams, even their sense of purpose.

You might not realize it, but words, actions, and how you treat people can either build them up or break them down. It’s easy to criticize, mock, or ignore someone. But the damage it does? Deep. Lasting. Sometimes, they never fully recover from it.

When you destroy someone’s self-worth, you don’t just hurt their feelings, you dim their light. And that light might’ve been the very thing someone else needed in this world.

So be careful. Be kind. You don’t have to like everyone, but don’t be the reason someone stops believing in themselves. Because rebuilding self-worth after it's been torn down? That’s a battle many people fight in silence. And not everyone wins.





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Wishing Gets Nothing DoneWishing is sweet, but let’s be honest—wishing alone won’t change your life.You can wish for a b...
15/07/2025

Wishing Gets Nothing Done

Wishing is sweet, but let’s be honest—wishing alone won’t change your life.

You can wish for a better job, a healthy body, a successful relationship, or more money in your account. But if you’re not putting in the work, that wish is just floating in the air like smoke. It looks good for a second… then disappears.

Life doesn’t respond to wishes. It responds to work. It responds to decisions. It responds to people who wake up, roll up their sleeves, and do something.

You don’t become successful by closing your eyes and making a wish. You become successful by opening your eyes and making a move.

So, while others are busy wishing, be the one that’s busy working.

Because at the end of the day, results don’t come from “I wish”…
They come from “I did.”


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I have mentioned this before, and I will reiterate it again: the presence of a woman can be incredibly motivating for a ...
02/02/2024

I have mentioned this before, and I will reiterate it again: the presence of a woman can be incredibly motivating for a man.

At the local gym this evening, a new member joined us for her first workout. This lady stood out with her beautiful dark skin, oval face, captivating white eyeball, perfect set of teeth, curvaceous legs, and impressive height. Not only was she physically striking, but she also possessed a bold, outspoken nature and unwavering confidence.

Her arrival immediately sparked a shift in the atmosphere. One of the guys selflessly offered to be her personal coach, providing his expertise free of charge—a service for which he used to charge others. He exceeded all expectations in guiding her through her workout, demonstrating a level of dedication and commitment that surpassed even the most accomplished trainers.(exaggerated)

Even the laziest guys suddenly found themselves working diligently. Those who previously completed 10-15 reps with lengthy rest intervals found themselves accomplishing 20-25 reps and resting for mere minutes before resuming. Today's gym session was, without a doubt, the most lively and energetic we have experienced.

As for me, I......

If a single woman can stimulate such incredible motivation, helping so many men yield exceptional results, one can only imagine the potential impact if there were more women present. Could this be why Solomon, known for his vast accumulation of wealth, chose to marry 700 wives?



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