31/01/2026
From my inbox
Nawa o 😔
My wife just returned from the hospital after spending almost two weeks there. Many of you may have heard of rectovaginal fistula a condition where there is an abnormal hole between the v@g!na and the re**um, making p**p pass through the wrong place.
That was what my wife had, and she had to undergo surgery.
Before anyone asks, no it wasn’t caused by me. I didn’t do it. According to what later came out, she had been engaging in an@l s€x with someone I don’t even know, possibly for years. She confessed this to the doctor. I wasn’t told directly, but I eventually heard about her confession.
Honestly, if I had known earlier, I would have abandoned her at the hospital. I stopped visiting her about three days before her discharge when I heard the truth.
This is a woman I never, for once, imagined or attempted such acts with. I never even suggested it. Ironically, she had once mentioned it, saying she thought it would be “nice,” but I strongly condemned it because it made no sense to me. Little did I know she was already doing it with someone else.
I don’t know exactly how it happened between them, but I believe there was a tear. She started noticing p**p in her pants. She began to smell, and I didn’t understand why. For a long time, whenever she was around me, I perceived a foul smell, and she kept saying it was nothing. She wore pads and extra layers under her underwear to hide it.
She continued hiding it until she couldn’t anymore. It got worse. The smell increased, the discharge became obvious, and she couldn’t go out again. That was when she dragged herself to the hospital. Even then, when she called to tell me about her condition, she claimed she didn’t know what caused it despite knowing very well.
I don’t want to sound w!ck3d, but I’m ending this marriage.
This is not something I can forgive. She is currently in the house, and I won’t chase her out because it’s our home we built it together. If anything, I might be the one to leave, so she can invite her an@l lover over if she wants.
Right now, I’m waiting for her parents. They said they’re coming this weekend. When they arrive, we’ll see how things go.
This whole experience has taught me a very painful lesson. I can’t trust any woman again, no matter how innocent she looks. My wife was almost an angel in everyone’s eyes.
I’m still in shock. I don’t even know how to talk to anyone about this not to mention all the money I spent before discovering the truth.
If you were in my shoes, what would you do? 💔
